There’s nothg wrong wh beg gay, but there are still many rotten eggs who throw around slurs and ll people gay mdlsly, so helps to know what to say when someone lls you gay.
Contents:
- IS LLG A HOMOSEXUAL PERSON “GAY” OFFENSIVE?
- THE SOLUTN TO "GAY" INSULTS: FREEDOM OF SPEECH
- THE TIME SWES CALLED GAY TO WORK 1979
- WHAT DO YOU SAY TO ‘THAT’S SO GAY’ & OTHER ANTI-LGBTQ+ COMMENTS?
- 34 OF THE BT RPONS WHEN SOMEONE ASSUM AND CALLS YOU GAY
IS LLG A HOMOSEXUAL PERSON “GAY” OFFENSIVE?
Do we need laws forbiddg the "gay" sult? * calling people gay *
"Gay", on s face, is not a rogatory term. It's typilly preferred by those to whom appli over the term "homosexual", the technil nature of which mak this state of beg sound like a munible disease or mental illns (which, as recently as the DSM-II, seventh edn, was, tegorized as a pathologil phobia of the oppose sex).
Many advocy groups, such as GLAAD (Gay/Lbian Associatn Agast Defamatn) and terms they promote for e the media (such as LGBT) rporate this term, though this isn't to say the terms will always be acceptable for this reason; the group name often persists long after the words behd them have fallen om favor, to avoid the nfn of a rebrandg of the group. "Queer", an old slang term for gay men, and "fag"/"faggot", origally AE slang for a wimp or unmanly person, but which me to be associated wh the stereotypil "swishy" gay man, have bee si terms; still appropriate when ed by a ntral party or a "straight" person, but acceptable ntext between gay men. Only sce the begng of the 20th century has queer been ed to refer to people who intify as gay or lbian.
THE SOLUTN TO "GAY" INSULTS: FREEDOM OF SPEECH
Homosexualy was still classified as an illns Swen 1979. Swes protted by llg sick to work, claimg they felt gay. * calling people gay *
The standard fn of homosexual is “a person sexually attracted to people of one’s own sex. ” But, ’s typilly applied to men, and lbian is the term for a female homosexual. GLAAD prefers that we don’t e the term homosexual bee ’s “aggrsively ed by anti-gay extremists to suggt that gay people are somehow diseased or psychologilly/emotnally disorred.
Bee suggts that beg lbian, gay, bisexual, or of another sexual orientatn is a choice and the person n be “cured. The word gay refers to a homosexual man, but origally meant “lighthearted, joyful, reee. ” Gay as an adjective meang “homosexual” go back at least to the 1930s.
THE TIME SWES CALLED GAY TO WORK 1979
Today, gay liftyle is a monly ed—and mised—term.
In the LGBTQ muny, gay liftyle, as well as homosexual liftyle, are sometim owned upon. It’s OK to scribe someone you know who publicly self-intifi as gay, lbian, bisexual, or another sexual orientatn as out.
WHAT DO YOU SAY TO ‘THAT’S SO GAY’ & OTHER ANTI-LGBTQ+ COMMENTS?
It’s also OK to scribe someone as openly gay, lbian, or bisexual. But never out someone, or expose their lbian, gay, bisexual, or transgenr inty, whout permissn.
But, people who are gay, lbian, bisexual, or transgenr also re about a wi variety of other polil, social, and cultural issu. The term homosexual agenda is ed by anti-gay extremists to create a climate of fear and mistst.
It’s sometim ed as a disparagg way to scribe the recment of heterosexuals to a homosexual liftyle. All to say, let’s banish homosexual agenda om our vobulary.
34 OF THE BT RPONS WHEN SOMEONE ASSUM AND CALLS YOU GAY
” They are often gay but n be a man of any sexual orientatn. People who intify as lbian, gay, or bisexual may experience harassment or discrimatn om people who are sred of or unfortable wh the inti. What are homophobia and sexual orientatn discrimatn?
The homophobia fn is the fear, hatred, disfort wh, or mistst of people who are lbian, gay, or bisexual. Although transphobia, biphobia, and homophobia are siar, they’re not the same thg. Both gay and straight people n be transphobic and biphobic, and people n be transphobic whout beg homophobic or biphobic.
Homophobia n take many different forms, cludg negative attus and beliefs about, aversn to, or prejudice agast bisexual, lbian, and gay people.