An Army sergeant asks how to troduce his girliend to a married gay uple, one of whom is an officer.
Contents:
- "WE DO HAVE A VERY GOOD SEX LIFE": GAY MEN WH STRAIGHT WIV ARE G OUT -- AS HAPPILY MARRIED
- GAY MARRIAGE QUTN: ARE THEY BOTH LLED "WIFE" OR "HBAND"?
- HOW TO INTRODUCE A MARRIED GAY COUPLE
- IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
- MANY SUCCSFUL GAY MARRIAG SHARE AN OPEN SECRET
"WE DO HAVE A VERY GOOD SEX LIFE": GAY MEN WH STRAIGHT WIV ARE G OUT -- AS HAPPILY MARRIED
So, I was workg on a tax return for a gay uple (I'm an acuntant). Now, assume that they were married and was two men, would they say "This is my... * male wife in gay marriage *
The stunts were there to learn about gay relatnships a settg where they uld ask qutns whout fear. ”Now ’s easy for a gay person to get offend by this qutn. I read an article recently that quoted RuPl, a gay in, who said, “The people who are mullg over certa words will have to ask themselv, ‘Is that word g om a place of love, or g om a place of hate?
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GAY MARRIAGE QUTN: ARE THEY BOTH LLED "WIFE" OR "HBAND"?
* male wife in gay marriage *
” But he adds: “I’m gay. Weed is a practicg Mormon and the Church’s current stance on the topic of homosexualy n be summed up like so: “The attractn self is not a s, but actg on is.
” While Weed says he do not pass judgment on gay relatnships general, when me to his own life, he says, “I didn’t feel was right. Note that we’re not talkg about so-lled ex-gays.
In fact, the term “same-sex attracted, ” or SSA, has taken off as the notn of “ex-gays” has fallen out of favor.
HOW TO INTRODUCE A MARRIED GAY COUPLE
Is my hband gay? is an unthkable qutn to many wiv, and some hbands do turn out to be gay. Learn the signs of a gay hband. * male wife in gay marriage *
There are some key differenc between the two groups: “Ex-gays” believe that they have succsfully “cured” themselv of homosexualy.
IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
“Ex-gays” have a rightful reputatn for beg bigoted, whereas SSAs are not necsarily opposed to homosexualy. The next largt group was what he lls “pretty exclively gay.
“He didn't thk would ever happen, he had rigned himself to beg gay.
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MANY SUCCSFUL GAY MARRIAG SHARE AN OPEN SECRET
I mentned earlier that SSAs are not necsarily anti-gay.
But there are plenty of SSA men who believe that homosexual behavrs are a relig s -- and, as the recent amic brief shows, some are willg to go so far as to policize their inty orr to fight equal rights for gays. There was even a recent TLC documentary, "My Hband's Not Gay, " about Mormon hoeholds Utah posed of same-sex attracted men married to women.
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