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class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></asi></hear></div><div data-attribute-verso-pattern="article-body" class="ArticlePageContentBackGround-cNiFNN kJkLmH article-body__ntent"><div class="ArticlePageChunksContent-etcMtP bwyLBj"><div data-ttid="ArticlePageChunks" class="ArticlePageChunks-fLyCVG eOdfIs"><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa UJsCn body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Not to be all chey, but ’s never too late to learn new thgs about yourself. When talkg about g out as <a href=">LGBTQ+</a>, though, so many of the stori we hear revolve around those disverg their inti their teens and 20s. Hello, <em>Stranger Thgs,</em> <em>The Bold Type,</em> <em>Riverdale,</em> <em>One Day at a Time</em>,—hell, even throwg back to <em>Glee.</em> I uld go on.</p><p>Personally I didn’t e out as <a href=">bisexual</a> until llege, and even that felt late pared to other queer kids I knew and what I saw the media. But real talk: No matter what the ual g-out narrative suggts, a <em>ton</em> of people realize, accept, or share that they’re not straight or cis past their 20s.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p>To highlight this mon experience, I talked to five people of different sexuali and genrs the LGBTQ+ muny about their g-out journeys. Their stori show that spe what you may have ternalized there is no typil g-out experience.</p><h2>“Beg around lbians ma me realize I was a lbian.”</h2><p><em>Alison, 39</em></p><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="ke13gg"></div></div><p>“I was born 1980, which is hardly the dark ag, but certaly wasn't anywhere near where we are now terms of LGBTQ+ culture, unrstandg, and progrs. The assumptn everywhere was, ‘You are a girl, th you will like and date boys, eventually marry a boy, <a href=">have babi</a>, and live happily ever after.’</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>I first started intifyg as bi when I was around 15. Beg an unpretty teen, I was perhaps extra sperate for boys to give me some proof I was likable. That very low self-teem ntributed to years of believg I wanted to be wh boys, then men. But my mid-20s, I started quietly wonrg if I was actually gay.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>The relatnship I was wh a man om age 23 to 27 both propelled and hred my sexualy journey. I tly liked him a lot and I was attracted to him, but now I believe was more a general, ‘God put this person together que nicely and mak my athetic bra happy’ sort of way. But also beme clear—to him long before did to me—that I simply didn't want a sexual hetero relatnship. In breakg up wh me, he said, ‘I thk you should date women.’</p><p>Admtg he was right was sry, bee then what did that mean about our whole time together? Was I a fucked up, <a href=">selfish</a> jerk who had stng this great guy along? Was I wrong about this most timate aspect of my own damn self? I didn't want to thk I uld lack such ccial—and for most people, simple and basic—knowledge of myself.</p><p>Maybe this is a ser ‘No sh, Sherlock’ statement, but beg around lbians ma me realize I was a lbian. I’d say that realizatn probably me around a year after I moved to San Francis, when I spent my first Pri the cy. I fally had some queer crew to hang out wh, and so much gayns to soak . They helped me see myself reflected them. It was a siar thg wh g out as asexual a few years ago—explorg that muny onle was a major lightbulb moment for me. Once I started g the label, felt so obvly appropriate that I wonred why I'd never thought of before.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="gpgo12"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="76dygj"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa UJsCn body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>By a certa age pecially as a woman I thk: I’ve jt started to give nary a fuck what other people thk of me. I’ve had the time to explore, and I’m makg choic based solely on what works for me, and not what others expect of me. I get to be the Cool Olr Queer who n support younger folks on their own journeys. And hopefully, no one will make the stupid ‘phase’ ments I ed to get. I'm one year shy of 40. There are no phas anymore.”</p><h2>“I didn’t want to embrace a label that me wh so much baggage.”</h2><p><em>Staci, 56</em></p><p>“A lot of thgs kept me om my sexualy growg up. For one I was raised as a Catholic. I was also heavy as a kid and I got a lot of negative msagg around my worth bee of , which do not enurage you to explore other thgs that will make you different. I remember beg younger and feelg somewhat of a sexual attractn to girls, and I was jt like, <em>la la la la la.</em></p><p>I fally had my first <a href=">relatnship</a> wh a woman 10 years ago. By that time, I had moved away om my town full of nservative Republins to New York Cy. We went to lbian events and thgs like that together, but I knew I never f there. I liked them, they jt didn’t feel like my people.</p><p>It’s only been the last few years that I’ve been able to e the label <a href=">bisexual</a>. I didn’t want to embrace a label that me wh so much baggage. People who label themselv as bisexual n be looked upon wh distst by the lbian muny, and seen as wishy-washy by gay men. I’m not even a big label person general, but I unrstand ’s how we tegorize thgs and unrstand them—or pretend to unrstand them.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>I don’t have any regrets about g out when I did, bee I don’t know if I was strong enough to al wh all that before then. But people today are lucky. There are so many rourc, om social media to centers to media portrayals. People n fd each other safely and much more easily onle than you uld my day.”</p><h2>“I was genuely nvced that I was jt a girl who didn’t know how to do right.”</h2><p><em>Simen, 32</em></p><p>“I’m a female-to-male middle school teacher. I me out to my boss last week (she was amazg), and I’m startg my medil <a href=">transn</a> two weeks. Oh, and bee I'm tryg for LGBTQ+ bgo, I'm also asexual.</p><p>I’ve never not felt this way, but I didn’t know what that meant about my sexual or <a href=">genr inty</a>. Growg up, I was genuely nvced that I was jt a girl who didn’t know how to do right and hadn’t had her lbian awakeng yet. Everyone else seemed to know a secret to beg a woman that I’d jt not disvered. It was the same wh beg asexual. 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class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa UJsCn body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>The kids I teach are unrstandg and ually more open-md than adults. I hate attentn, but I remd myself that this might jt be the most important thg to see for someone who is 14 and the wrong body. Maybe if I had had a role mol, I wouldn’t have waed to e out until I was 31.</p><p>An upsi of g out later is that the secury of my 20s is gone. By now, I know I’m gog to be all right. I also don’t buckle unr the prsure om doctors or therapists who thk they know better than me. As a younger adult, I would have taken on the ch probably, and then gone to a ep <a href=">prsn</a>. Now I have the life experience to back up what I’m sayg. My opn matters a way didn’t when I was younger.</p><p>A downsi is that I’m perpetually explag and g out and talkg about tails. But I’ve never worried about g out or transng. It jt took me time to realize that when people said they didn’t feel their assigned genr was right, that was what I was feelg. However long tak you to e to terms wh yourself, ’s not time wasted. Some people jt have a longer road to walk.”</p><h2>“Years of pretendg to be someone that I wasn’t helped me build an armor.”</h2><p><em>Jenna, 36</em></p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-3 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>“I me out as a <a href=">gay woman</a> the past uple years. I was so terrified of the ia of beg gay that I half-reprsed , half-avoid . There wasn’t a relig or parental fluence, there was never anyone tellg me was a bad thg. I was jt terrified of beg different.</p><p>I qu my job back 2012 rporate graphic sign to bee a full-time farmer and eelancer on this ltle piece of land upstate New York. It took beg alone on a farm for a to really get to the pot where I uld e out. My farm has bee a ltle paradise and ’s been hard as hell to keep , but that fight is what gave me the strength to e out. There was too much proof that I’d been able to do hard thgs and be OK. And you get exhsted, pretendg to be someone you’re not.</p><p>I thk if wasn’t for the ter, would’ve taken me even longer than did. My farm is a town of 1,800 people whout a lot of <a href=">queer spac</a>, but I’m on Twter nstantly, and feels magil. There’s a huge queer farm muny onle. I thk there are a lot of bee there are so many clichés about outdoorsy women beg gay, and we wd up needg isolatn to pe the stereotyp and be ourselv.</p><p>It’s like gog through a send adolcence. I get to be exced about thgs like datg and gettg out there, and probably beg really loud and really queer onle jt bee ’s been so bottled up si me for so long. 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“I REALIZED I WAS GAY”: 29 MEN IN THIS ONLE GROUP WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE SHARE WHAT WAS THEIR TURNG POT

Men on r/AskGaybrosOver30 have been sharg stori of how they me out later life and what was the turng pot for them. * gay guy coming out stories *

Comg out as lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr or genr non-bary is a personal everyone is a posn where they n be certa they will receive support. INSIDER highlighted different personal acunts om self-intified LGBTQ+ (lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, queer, transn, tersex, and asexual) Redd ers dividual story is unique, and there is no right or wrong way or time to e 's note: some of the ntent the stori may be triggerg for some dividuals who have experienced discrimatn or vlence bee of their sexualy or genr INSIDER's homepage for more stori.

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'My fam was playg a game where we had to tell a huge secret about ourselv'"Well my fam was playg a game where we had to tell a huge secret about ourselv and I was about to make a joke and say, 'I started my perd' but I only said the 'I' part so my mom was like, 'Are you gay? "'They didn't believe I was gay and had normal parent reactns and to this day ignore the subject'"Lookg back at I knew I was gay for a while. They didn't believe I was gay and had normal parent reactns and jt to this day ignore the subject and my sexualy which bothers me a lot bee I feel like I n't move forward 'til they accept me for who I am.

"'I rpond wh, 'I'm gay and hate children' I've never seen a salman look so ashamed of himself and I also me out to my dad at the same time'"I was buyg a r. Comg out was the biggt weight that ever me off my shoulrs'"I got home om church after my nservative pastor gave his most homophobic sermon yet, and I sobbed to my pillow my bedroom.

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