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media="(m-width: 768px)" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w, 1920w, 2240w" siz="100vw"/><img alt="Daphne Zuniga" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src="></picture></div></div></span><div class="CaptnWrapper-jSZdqE gPFWXR ptn ContentHearLeadAssetCaptn-hPWmSN jWcmqy"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptnCred-ejegDm iUEiRd qnzYb fNaHcW ptn__cred">Christa Trayfors</span></div></div></figure><div data-ttid="ContentHearLeadRailAnchor" class="ContentHearLeadRailAnchor-jYVcDc djtEof"></div></div></div><asi class="PersistentAsiWrapper-VGrR oEIBz persistent-asi persistent-asi--align-left" style="posn:absolute;top:to;height:to" data-ttid="PersistentAsiWrapper"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB jNgrSF sticky-box ContentHearPersistentAsi-fsnAmQ dFzKzm"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="SocialInsWrapper-hKMEXV ffgPVr social-ins social-ins--has-background ContentHearSocialIns-jzJiyg fgMkJI 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Hill</a>. <em>Earlier this year the California native add "director" to her imprsive résumé wh the Lifetime movie</em> Deadly Assistant. <em>(Her follow-up film, the die drama</em> Wag Room, <em>is currently preproductn.) But was the role of wife that ma headl earlier this June when Zuniga tied the knot for the first time at the age of 56 to public relatns exec David Mleczko</em>.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p><em>Here, ahead of her newt Lifetime movie,</em> Gat of Paradise, <em>premierg this weekend ('s part of the Casteel fay movi based on V.C. Andrews’s books), Zuniga opens up about why she was always hant to get married and how she alt wh outdated narrativ and prsure along the way.</em></p><figure class="AssetEmbedWrapper-eVDQiB byBkf asset-embed"><div class="AssetEmbedAssetContaer-eJxoAx dBHGoQ asset-embed__asset-ntaer"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset rponsive-image"><noscript><img alt="Daphne Zuniga celebrat weddg wh hband" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w" siz="100vw"/></noscript></picture></span></div><div class="CaptnWrapper-jSZdqE gPFWXR ptn AssetEmbedCaptn-fNQBPI cbKNQD asset-embed__ptn"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptnCred-ejegDm iUEiRd qnzYb fNaHcW ptn__cred"><a href=">@kjm_media</a></span></div></figure><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad---ntent"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot---ntent" data-no-id="sqnxlp"></div></div><p>I was not one of those ltle girls who fantasized about beg married. My parents divorced when I was six and I lived wh my mother, so I didn’t have a tradnal mom and dad together to mol after. My mom was also very pennt and we moved around a lot, which turn brought different experienc, different schools, and different people. We even lived a hoeboat one year. She also beme an ordaed mister and, ironilly, performed hundreds of weddgs. I’ve always wonred whether my reluctance to get married had somethg to do wh the routens of weddgs that I wnsed all the time.</p><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><p>Meanwhile, what I <em>was</em> sure of was that I loved to play drs-up, to be school plays, and to n around the backyard pretendg to be Nancy Drew. My universe was really my mom, my sister, and actg. That was my foc.</p></div></div></div><div class="GridItem-buujkM fVLMby grid--em grid-layout__asi"><div class="StickyBoxWrapper-jfYB kNleGZ sticky-box"><div class="StickyBoxPrimary-dzWDWL cdhYoN sticky-box__primary"><div class="Contaer-bkChBi byNLHx"></div><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--rail"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--rail" data-no-id="hohteoc"></div></div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--display-rail" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--display-rail"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="tngqx"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa dxlOSM body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>I me to Los Angel to pursue actg at 17 and worked regularly ever sce. The people I teracted wh the most were actors. And here’s the thg about actors: They are generally very emotnal. Actg class is about gettg to know every rner, nook, and cranny of yourself so you n brg that to the work. But wh that vulnerabily a utns bee people don’t always have your bt tert at heart. I thk that’s why I ma actg my foc stead of lettg relatnships take up so much space my head. I also associated marryg someone wh givg up who I was. And the last thg I wanted was to feel prsure to give up a reer that I had worked so hard for.</p><div class="InstagramEmbedContaer-jbvDdB bgqGfh"><div class="MsageBannerWrapper-krrtvl fNebzB ConsentBannerWrapper-bMdLtU WTFWJ" data-ttid="msage-banner"><div class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ MsageBannerContent-gLUJfX iUEiRd hMrdSt bidFWt"><h4 class="ConsentBannerTle-lgaGAH gOfech">Instagram ntent</h4><p>This ntent n also be viewed on the se <a href=" target="_blank" rel="nofollow noreferrer" class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BaseLk-eNWuiM ConsentBannerLk-dJZMSz iUEiRd hMrdSt fPXmBe">origat</a> om.</p></div></div></div><p>My parents were young when they got married, and they never had an agenda to ph me to marriage. I was born the ’60s Berkeley, California, which at that time was almost anti marriage. I didn’t see that whe picket fence my future even though our culture ph you toward this image of the happy fay wh the two-r garage. But I thk we all feel the prsure at one pot to thk, Should I be nsirg that person? or, Should I mold myself differently to f ? All I n say is that I’m glad I didn’t, bee if I had, I’d be divorced now. And that’s okay, but ’s also somethg I didn’t want.</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-1 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>When I turned 40, I felt nfint and physilly and emotnally strong. Insecuri om my 20s and 30s disappeared. And I still wasn’t lookg to get hched at all, but the funny thg is, I observed that havg that attu ma me more attractive to men. 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drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="8zk6c"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa dxlOSM body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Guys asked me, "Do you want to have a fay? 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class="SummaryItemBaseByle-fFbXkY fbXPcA summary-em__byle"><div class="summary-em__byle__ntent"><div data-ttid="BylWrapper" class="BylWrapper-KIudk irTIfE byl"><p class="ByleWrapper-jWHrLH ksagZo byle byl__byle" data-ttid="ByleWrapper" emProp="thor" emType="><span emProp="name" class="ByleNamWrapper-jbHncj fuDQVo"><span data-ttid="ByleName" class="ByleName-kwmrLn cYaBaU byle__name"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ BylePreamble-iJolpQ iUEiRd dvgOmM gnILss byle__preamble">By </span>Ey Tannenbm</span></span></p></div></div></div></div></div></div></li><li><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ RecircMostPopularSummaryItem-jQxxiw dGGdBW ad ad--asi"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--asi" data-no-id="sgpj0b"></div></div></li></ul><div class="RecircMostPopularFooter-enPjgs hvAjkD"></div></div></div></div><div class="StickyBoxPlaceholr-grPmrg dxAvXx"></div></div></div></div><div class="RowWrapper-UmqTg HEhan full-bleed-ad row-mid-ntent-ad"><div class="StickyMidContentAdWrapper-fSBzwl drzyIa ad-stickymidntent"><div class="AdWrapper-dQtivb fZrssQ ad ad--mid-ntent should-hold-space"><div class="ad__slot ad__slot--mid-ntent" data-no-id="n7hx9"></div></div></div></div><div class="GridWrapper-cAzTTK kHBDeH grid grid-margs grid-ems-2 ArticlePageChunksGrid-hfxa bjczjj grid-layout--adrail narrow wi-adrail"><div class="GridItem-buujkM stRKV grid--em grid-layout__ntent"><div class="BodyWrapper-kufPGa dxlOSM body body__ntaer article__body" data-journey-hook="client-ntent" data-ttid="BodyWrapper"><div class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>I knew I was gog to be wh David forever, but I also wasn’t exactly sold on marriage. I thought we’d be like Goldie Hawn and Kurt Rsell. It already felt like we were married anyway. But then I started thkg, Why not go for the adventure? Why not see? You love him, and he is the one you’re gog to be wh forever. And here’s the other thg: There’s nothg wrong wh lettg go of somethg that was te for me for all the years. It’s okay to say, "I want to do this now. I want to see if I n get closer to this man I love so much."</p><div data-attr-viewport-monor="le-recirc" class="le-recirc-wrapper le-recirc-observer-target-2 viewport-monor-anchor"></div><p>It’s been two and a half years sce we got engaged, and at 56, I’m so happy to fally be married to him. It was perfect timg. I don’t thk we need to do sooner, but I’m glad we didn’t wa any later. There was only somethg to ga by tyg the knot, which was this new shape of , and this new adventure of love and mment.</p><figure class="AssetEmbedWrapper-eVDQiB byBkf asset-embed"><div class="AssetEmbedAssetContaer-eJxoAx dBHGoQ asset-embed__asset-ntaer"><span class="SpanWrapper-umhxW kGxnNB rponsive-asset AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset"><picture class="RponsiveImagePicture-cWuUZO dUOtEa AssetEmbedRponsiveAsset-cXBNxi eCxVQK asset-embed__rponsive-asset rponsive-image"><noscript><img alt="Daphne Zuniga and David Mleczko weddg portra" class="RponsiveImageContaer-eybHBd fptoWY rponsive-image__image" src=" srcSet=" 120w, 240w, 320w, 640w, 960w, 1280w, 1600w" siz="100vw"/></noscript></picture></span></div><div class="CaptnWrapper-jSZdqE gPFWXR ptn AssetEmbedCaptn-fNQBPI cbKNQD asset-embed__ptn"><span class="BaseWrap-sc-gjQpdd BaseText-ewhhUZ CaptnCred-ejegDm iUEiRd qnzYb fNaHcW ptn__cred"><a href=">@kjm_media</a></span></div></figure><div id="stylics-marker"></div><p>Both of my parents walked me down the aisle to “At Last,” and they high-fived each other at the end! I mean, there’s no one way to do . The shape of my life f me, and I’m proud I’ve been able to stick up for what I knew was right for me. There have been tim along the way when I would say, "Why didn’t I jt want to get married and have kids? Why am I this way?" But ’s who I am.</p><p>So here’s my advice now: Take actn on your own nfince and your own bety and ner love, bee men have a certa nfince jt bee they’re men. It’s so odd to me! Women tend to thk we have to work on that nfince. I jt work on tstg the timg of thgs. Embrace that.</p><p>And ask for what you want. Say out loud and nurture . I’ve done that wh my reer and wh relatnships. You may not get what you thought you were askg for, but jt like that Rollg Ston song, you’ll get what you need. And what you need will get you to the next thg. What I have wh David is not only bee he’s a fabulo guy, ’s bee of where I am too, and we make this work together. He valu what I brg to the table too, and we’ve created somethg that is perfect for and is what we both need and want.</p><p>I’ll leave you wh this om an actg ach: "Step to your pleasure. Don’t make so fuckg hard. You’re actg. Enjoy ." 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