Gay & attracted to women? – Brian Gerald Murphy

Contents:

• GAY MEN HAVG SEX WH WOMEN?
• WHY STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO GAY MEN
• BISEXUAL PHENOMENA AMONG GAY-INTIFIED MEN
• CAN A GAY MAN BE ATTRACTED TO A SPECIFIC GIRL, BUT NOT WOMEN GENERAL, AND STI
• WHAT'S THE SCIENCE BEHD STRAIGHT WOMEN LIKG GAY MEN?
• STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS
• GAY & ATTRACTED TO WOMEN?
• WHY ARE THERE GAY MEN?

GAY MEN HAVG SEX WH WOMEN?

To answer your qutn plaly wh the rmatn that you’ve shared, ’s likely that some gay men do have sexual relatnships wh women to hi their te orientatn, due to fear of g out. Ined, there are gay men who feel prsured to mask their sexualy bee of cultural, faial, relig, or personal beliefs that beg gay is wrong.

It's also possible that someone who intifi as gay may want to have sex wh someone of another genr. In fact, some surveys have shown that gay men have had sex wh people of other genrs throughout their life. And, although scientific studi this field are rare, sexual aroal to women has been measured groups of men wh several different sexual orientatns, cludg those who intify as gay.

WHY STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO GAY MEN

Archiv, sexual orientatn is ually prised of several parts: attractn, how one acts on that attractn, and how one intifi (gay, straight, bisexual, etc). People often thk about beg straight, gay, bisexual, or other inti as both a person's romantic and sexual attractns. A cisgenr man may experience romantic attractn towards other men, sexual attractn towards men and women, but he choos to intify as gay.

Surveys among high school stunts found differenc between inty and sexual behavrs, wh many of the self-intified gay or lbian stunts mentng that they engage sexual activi wh those of other genrs. For the most part, relatnships between gay men and straight women are healthy and posive, wh one exceptn I'll get to later. Sure, an ocsnal teenage girl falls for a boy who's gay, but don't take most girls very long to figure out that, this se, where there's smoke, there's most fely not fire.

BISEXUAL PHENOMENA AMONG GAY-INTIFIED MEN

In general, the attractn women feel for gay men tends to be emotnal nature, clearg the way for a highly satisfyg relatnship that outlasts most other relatnships gay men and straight women have. To beg, I'll addrs how and why straight women are emotnally attracted to gay men—an attractn, by the way, that is returned by gay men spas. First, bee most straight women don’t feel sexual toward gay men, the relatnship don’t rry the threat of sexual tensn.

CAN A GAY MAN BE ATTRACTED TO A SPECIFIC GIRL, BUT NOT WOMEN GENERAL, AND STI

Send, straight women love gay men bee closens wh gay men provis a wdow to how the mds of men work, somethg that women want to know as they navigate datg waters wh their straight male peers. Though there are, of urse, differenc between straight and gay men, gay men are neverthels men who share many characteristics and motivatns wh straight men. When to the sexualy of young straight and gay men—meang, how equently they thk about sex, want , or feel impatient to get to the actual sex part—there are undoubtedly siari.

When a straight woman hangs out wh a gay man, she begs to put the puzzle together that men, general, treat sex differently than women do. Fally, straight women love gay men bee they are emotnally attracted to the fearlsns and lack of self-nscns gay men.

In general, gay men, and gay women, too, tend to be more fearls than their straight unterparts—particularly straight men—bee they’ve ually experienced bullyg and prejudice bee of their sexual orientatn.

WHAT'S THE SCIENCE BEHD STRAIGHT WOMEN LIKG GAY MEN?

As out adults, gay men ually learn to accept themselv and stop tryg so hard to w the approval and acceptance of others. Meanwhile, gay men have the social license to be as outrageo or emotnal as they want to be bee gay men don't have to f to such a tightly prcribed role.

The group of women I’m referrg to are often lled "f*g hags, " a term that manag to be rogatory toward two groups: women and gay men. The term "f*g hag" refers to a woman, ually her 20s or 30s, who lov htg the gay bars wh her gay male iends. Instead, they feel more fortable removg the sexual factor that exists at straight bars and prefer the harmlsns that wh socializg wh gay men gay surroundgs.

STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS

This type of relatnship is often unhealthy, wh women choosg gay men as iends for superficial reasons: bee they're more fun and love to shop. Siarly, their gay male iends often treat their female iends as social accsori until the men fd a guy to hook up wh up later the night.

Overall, the relatnships between straight women and gay men are special, wh the ocsnal negative exceptns. If straight women and gay men foc on fdg iendships where there's te emotnal patibily and rpect, they n velop one of the most rewardg relatnships a person uld have.

GAY & ATTRACTED TO WOMEN?

Although many gay men report no attractn to women-or even sexual disgt toward them-others report some slight attractn to women. Gay men wh a history of transnal bisexualy generally lacked current sexual attractn and sexual aroal to women, pared wh other gay men. In ntrast, mostly homosexual men showed statistilly signifint creas genal aroal to female stimuli, pared wh pletely homosexual men.

Bisexualy; Mostly homosexual; Penile plethysmography; Sexual aroal patterns; Sexual aversn; Sexual orientatn. 61posted 12 years agoCan a gay man be attracted to a specific girl, but not women general, and still be gay, not bi?

As a wrer, i'm wonrg if 's possible for a gay or straight character to be attracted to a person of the genr that oppos their typil sexualy? (maybe g Sanrda Bullock's character and her gay iend "My Bt Friend's Weddg" as an example) Or this se would simply be that the "gay" or "straight" person is fact bisexual?

WHY ARE THERE GAY MEN?

I have seen and known several pletely gay men be " love" wh a woman, but 's the iendship that they love. As a label fn, where cross the le of no longer beg gay, but beg bi, is when a guy enjoys havg sexual relatns wh both men and women. I've known men who intify as beg gay, but they also had a long marriage (and even children) wh one specific female.

It might give you some ia of what kd of emotns might go to what you are talkg is very possible for a gay man to be love wh a woman. I'm not gog to speak for women, bee I wouldn't know how they, I know plenty of married and formerly married gay men. And, some marry bee they don't want anyone to know that they are gay, and really don't even want to adm to gay is more plited then people, this was kda along the l of what i was thkg.