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- I'M A GAY GUY, BUT THERE'S THIS GIRL....
- I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN
- ASK O'LEARY: I'M A GAY GIRL DATG A STRAIGHT GIRL!{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}CULTUREBY TIM O'LEARYFEBARY 6, 2014/1:05 PMBY TIM O'LEARYFEBARY 6, 2014 / 1:05 PM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"ASK O'LEARY: I'M A GAY GIRL DATG A STRAIGHT GIRL!","DATEPUBLISHED":"2014-02-06T18:05:14.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2014-02-06T18:05:14.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"CREATOR":"TIM O'LEARY","KEYWORDS":"THE BACKLOT","ARTICLESECTN":"CULTURE"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}HI TIM,{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}LOYAL LBIAN REAR HERE. I KNOW YOU UALLY AL WH GAY DUS AND THEIR PROBLEMS, BUT I WONR IF YOU ULD GIVE ME SOME PERSPECTIVE ON THIS PROBLEM I {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I WENT TO A PARTY RECENTLY THAT WAS MOSTLY GAY GIRLS, BUT ONE OF THE GIRLS THERE WAS STRAIGHT (SHE’D E WH HER ROOMMATE). STRAIGHT GIRL AND I GOT TO TALKG, AND WE H OFF SO WE AGREED TO MEET FOR DRKS THE FOLLOWG NIGHT. WE DID, AND SHE NFSED SHE’D NEVER BEEN WH A GIRL BEFORE BUT WAS ALWAYS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WE HOOKED UP THAT NIGHT, AND THERE WAS SO MUCH PH-AND-PULL OM HER, WHERE SHE WOULD STOP THE MIDDLE OF KISSG ME AND SAY THGS LIKE “THIS IS SO WEIRD!” BUT THEN GO BACK TO KISSG ME. I’VE BEEN DOWN THIS ROAD BEFORE WH OTHER “STRAIGHT” GIRLS, AND NEVER ENDS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I HAVE TWO QUTNS: 1) SHOULD I JT BACK AWAY NOW BEFORE I GET HURT AGA? 2) DO THIS HAVE ANY EQUIVALENT WH GUYS?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}SGLE GAY {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}LET’S AL WH QUTN #2 FIRST. DO EVER HAPPEN THAT BI-CUR GUYS WILL GO AFTER AN OUT GAY MAN, BUT THEN FEEL NFLICTED ABOUT THEIR FEELGS AND RETURN TO THE WARM, FAIAR BOSOM OF STRAIGHTDOM?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}Y, HAPPENS. BUT WH NOTHG EVEN APPROACHG THE EQUENCY THAT OCCURS AMONG WOMEN, ACRDG TO MY LBIAN {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THERE’S AN ARTICLE ON THAT SUGGTS WOMEN MAY HAVE EVOLVED OVER TIME TO BE MORE OPEN TO BISEXUALY AS A MEANS OF OBTAG THE SECURY THAT THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ANOTHER PAIR OF HANDS FOR RAISG THEIR CHILDREN – IF A DU ISN’T AROUND, ANOTHER LADY WILL DO JT FE. HOWEVER, THE EVINCE PROVID BY PSYCHOLOGIST BARRY X. KUHLE, WHO POSS THIS THEORY, SEEMS PRETTY SLIGHT. OF URSE, I DON’T WRE FOR A WEBSE WH “SCIENCE” THE URL, SO WHAT THE HELL DO I KNOW?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THE NVENTNAL WISDOM THE GAY BARS I TROLL, HOWEVER, IS THAT MEN ARE NATELY ATTRACTED TO THE POLE AND THE HOLE WH THE SAME EQUENCY AS WOMEN, BUT SOCIETY’S EXTRAORDARILY RIGID NF OF MALE SEXUALY PREVENT THEM OM EXPRSG THIS, AND SO THEY SUPPRS WHILE THEIR SISTERS ARE OUT THERE DO’ FOR {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}SO WHO’S RIGHT? BEATS THE HELL OUT OF ME. BUT ONE THG’S FOR SURE – THIS PROBLEM DO SEEM TO ARISE MUCH MORE EQUENTLY FOR LBIANS THAN FOR GAY {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}NOW TO QUTN #1. SHOULD YOU BACK AWAY BEFORE YOU GET HURT?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THAT’S A TOUGHIE, BEE THERE’S ALWAYS THE POSSIBILY THAT FOR THE GIRL QUTN, THIS IS A REAL MOMENT FOR HER WHERE SHE REALIZ THAT THERE MIGHT BE A LOT MORE TO HER SEXUALY THAN WHAT SHE HAD PRUMED, AND ’S POSSIBLE HER MD IS KD OF BLOWN RIGHT NOW. IF THAT’S THE SE, SHE’S PROBABLY FEELG A LTLE VULNERABLE, SO DCHG HER NOW SEEMS KD OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ON THE OTHER HAND, YOU WANT TO PROTECT YOURSELF, AND NOT SET YOURSELF UP TO GET HURT, {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I THK THE BT WAY TO GO ABOUT THIS IS TO MUNITE CLEARLY WHAT YOU’RE BOTH FEELG EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. IT’S TOTALLY OKAY – AND I ENURAGE YOU – TO LET HER KNOW THIS ISN’T YOUR FIRST TIME BEG “A FIRST TIME” FOR A GIRL WHO PREVLY INTIFIED AS STRAIGHT, AND THEREFORE THERE’S A LTLE EMOTNAL BAGGAGE FOR YOU. BOTH OF YOU SHOULD TREAD LIGHTLY, AND BE HONT WH EACH OTHER AT ALL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}BUT AGA, WHAT THE HELL DO I KNOW? I'M A GAY DU WHO'S MOSTLY DATED OTHER ROLUTELY GAY DUS. MY IEND LIZ, A BRILLIANT FILMMAKER BASED LA WHO ALSO HAPPENS TO LOVE THE LADI, HAD THIS TO SAY:{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}"THIS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF SOME WOMEN'S FLUID SEXUALY. GIVEN THAT STRAIGHT GIRL DISPLAYED HATN DURG THE HOOKUP, 'S UNLIKELY (THOUGH NOT IMPOSSIBLE) FOR THIS TO VELOP FURTHER. AS SGF PUT , 'IT NEVER ENDS WELL.' MY ADVICE WOULD BE FOR SGF TO BACK AWAY, IF ONLY FOR SELF-PROTECTN. FROM WHAT SHE WROTE, SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS A HISTORY DATG/HOOKG UP WH STRAIGHT-INTIFIED GIRLS WHO ARE CUR BUT ALSO A LTLE FLAKY. IF NEVER ENDS WELL, WHY START THIS ONE? THERE ARE EASIER WAYS TO FD AND DATE WOMEN WHO LIKE WOMEN (THE INTER? LBIAN BARS? THE US OPEN?){BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IF SGF AND THIS GIRL ENJOY EACH OTHERS PANY, THEN OL, A NEW IENDSHIP ... BUT I WOULD HAVE SGF ASK HERSELF IF SHE ULD REALISTILLY BE IENDS WH SOMEONE SHE IS ATTRACTED TO, OR IF EVERY HANGOUT FILLED HER WH HOPE THAT SHE ULD CHANGE STRAIGHT GIRL TO BI GIRL. TO REERATE MY ADVICE? BYE, GIRL."{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}HEY TIM!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I’D BEEN SEEG THIS GUY – WE’LL LL HIM GEE – FOR ABOUT THREE MONTHS. WE STARTED OUR RELATNSHIP VERY SUALLY, BUT AFTER A MONTH WE HAD “THE TALK,” AND BEME EXCLIVE. WE BOTH ME TO THE RELATNSHIP STATG OUR EXPECTATNS, WHICH IS TOTAL MONOGAMY. PERSONALLY, I’M TOTALLY SUPPORTIVE OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE OPEN RELATNSHIPS. IT’S JT NOT FOR {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ANYWAY, TWO WEEKS AFTER WE MA OFFICIAL, GEE (WHO GETS A LTLE CRAZY WHEN HE’S BEEN DRKG) ACCINTALLY SLIPPED AND SLEPT WH HIS EX AFTER A NIGHT OUT WH IENDS. HE SAID HIS EX ME OVER OM OUT OF THE BLUE, THAT HE WASN’T EXPECTG , AND THGS JT GOT RRIED {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I FAVE HIM, WHICH WAS HARD FOR ME, BUT I WORKED THROUGH . HOWEVER, SIX WEEKS LATER, HAPPENED AGA. THIS TIME WASN’T WH HIS EX BUT SOMEONE HE KNEW OM WORK. AFTER THAT, I BROKE UP WH HIM FOR GOOD. BELIEVE OR NOT, THAT WAS REALLY TOUGH FOR ME, BEE SPE THE CHEATG, HE WAS PROBABLY THE SWEETT, MOST RG GUY I’VE EVER BEEN WH. NOW, I’M HAVG SEND THOUGHTS. DID I DO THE RIGHT THG BY BREAKG OFF?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WORRIED {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}Y. YOU DID THE RIGHT {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}YOU TOTALLY DID THE RIGHT {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THANKFULLY, YOUR QUTN WAS MUCH LS PLEX THAN THE CHEATG ISSUE WE TALKED ABOUT LAST WEEK. IF YOU’RE RELATNSHIP IS ONLY OFFICIAL FOR TWO MONTHS, AND THOSE TWO MONTHS HE CHEATS ON YOU TWICE, YOU N RT ASSURED HE’LL DO SO {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ALSO, “HIS EX ME OVER OM OUT OF THE BLUE?”{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}COME ON, WIW. HOW MANY TIM HAVE YOUR EX E OVER, UNVED, TO YOUR HOE WHOUT TELLG YOU?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I’M SURE HE SEEMED LIKE A SWEET GUY WHEN YOU TWO WERE TOGETHER, BUT THIS DU SOUNDS LIKE A MAJOR DOG. AND WHAT DO WE DO WH DOGS? WE GET RID OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WA, NOT REAL DOGS, THOUGH! KEEP THY WRATH AWAY OM ME, PETA!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}HEY TIM,{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WHAT I LOVE MOST ABOUT YOUR LUMN IS YOUR SCIFI/FANTASY NERDS. I, TOO, LIKE 98.3% OF YOUR REARS LOVE DOCTOR WHO, AND BUFFY, AND FIREFLY, AND A GOOD PORTN OF WHAT YOU TALK ABOUT, BUT MOST OF ALL, I LOVE THE CLASSIC FAIRYTALE PRCE/PRCS, GOOD VERS EVIL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MY QUTN IS WHETHER OR NOT YOU'VE EVER SEEN THE 10TH KGDOM, AND IF YOU HAVE, ANY THOUGHTS? IT'S ONE OF THOSE LET'S-TIE-ALL-THE-FAIRYTAL-TOGETHER GIMMICKS THAT ME OUT BACK 2000, SO LOOONG BEFORE THE OTHERS LIKE DISNEY'S ENCHANTED, OR KGDOM OF HEARTS, OR ONCE UPON A TIME. IT HAS ANN-MARGRET AS A 200 YEAR OLD CRELLA; CAMRYN MANHEIM AS AN OVERWEIGHT SNOW WHE; DIANNE WIT AS THE FIERCT EVIL QUEEN THIS SI OF MALEFICENT-----WHAT MORE N A GAY MAN ASK FOR A FAIRYTALE ST??!!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}PLEASE TELL ME YOU'RE A FAN!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}--FAIRYTALE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}NOW THAT IS THE SOUND OF A PASSNATE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I NFS I HAVEN’T SEEN , BUT I’LL FELY HAVE TO CHECK OUT. THANKS FOR THE TIP, FF!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ANYONE OUT THERE SEEN AND FEEL AS STRONGLY AS FF?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MORE OF THE LUMN FORMERLY KNOWN AS ASK JT! HERE. {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}TO ASK TIM A QUTN, EMAIL HIM AT (AND TRY TO KEEP TO THREE PARAGRAPHS OR LS). OR YOU N BE SUPER TECH-SEXY AND ASK VIA {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}THE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS
I'M A GAY GUY, BUT THERE'S THIS GIRL....
I've nsired for long hours, and cid that I was gay.
Fally, when I get the mdset and nfince to say I'm fully gay, I meet this betiful, sweet, hilar, and hontly perfect girl who I nnect wh wicked well. I'd really like to jt go date her, but a ltle voice my head always whispers, "You're gay.
You watch gay pR0n.
I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN
All signs poted to gay, until sudnly a new sign l up flashg "BUT MAYBE NOT!? If you do ci that you're bi or pan or somethg other than gay? If you re-evaluate and ci "nope, still gay"?
You n ci that you want to date girls and that do not validate the time where you intified as gay. If that was a ght procs for you, some part of you might be jumpg at the chance to go, "see, I'm not actually gay.
Tell her that you want to date her, you've intified as gay, but that you're wantg to explore your sexualy more, and you want her to be aware of that. Straight, Gay and Everythg Between: On Sexual Fluidy. I was asked once if I got creeped out bee there were so many gay guys theater and I was like, “How would that creep me out?
ASK O'LEARY: I'M A GAY GIRL DATG A STRAIGHT GIRL!{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}{FONT:NORMAL 800 1.2REM/1.2 "D BOLD",SANS-SERIF;TEXT-TRANSFORM:NORMAL;LOR:HER;DISPLAY:LE-BLOCK;PADDG-BOTTOM:6PX;POSN:RELATIVE;TEXT-TRANSFORM:UPPERSE;}{BACKGROUND:#89308A;BOTTOM:0;NTENT:'';DISPLAY:BLOCK;HEIGHT:2PX;LEFT:0;POSN:ABSOLUTE;RIGHT:0;-WEBK-TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;TRANSN:ALL 0.2S EASE;WIDTH:100%;}{LEFT:51%;RIGHT:51%;WIDTH:0;}CULTUREBY TIM O'LEARYFEBARY 6, 2014/1:05 PMBY TIM O'LEARYFEBARY 6, 2014 / 1:05 PM{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"NEWSARTICLE","HEADLE":"ASK O'LEARY: I'M A GAY GIRL DATG A STRAIGHT GIRL!","DATEPUBLISHED":"2014-02-06T18:05:14.000+0000","DATEMODIFIED":"2014-02-06T18:05:14.000+0000","IMAGE":{"@NTEXT":","@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT","WIDTH":1920,"HEIGHT":1080},"URL":","THOR":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","NAME":"LOGO TV"},"MAENTYOFPAGE":{"@TYPE":"WEBPAGE","@ID":"},"PUBLISHER":{"@TYPE":"ORGANIZATN","@ID":","NAME":"LOGO TV","URL":","LOGO":{"@TYPE":"IMAGEOBJECT"}},"CREATOR":"TIM O'LEARY","KEYWORDS":"THE BACKLOT","ARTICLESECTN":"CULTURE"}{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}HI TIM,{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}LOYAL LBIAN REAR HERE. I KNOW YOU UALLY AL WH GAY DUS AND THEIR PROBLEMS, BUT I WONR IF YOU ULD GIVE ME SOME PERSPECTIVE ON THIS PROBLEM I {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I WENT TO A PARTY RECENTLY THAT WAS MOSTLY GAY GIRLS, BUT ONE OF THE GIRLS THERE WAS STRAIGHT (SHE’D E WH HER ROOMMATE). STRAIGHT GIRL AND I GOT TO TALKG, AND WE H OFF SO WE AGREED TO MEET FOR DRKS THE FOLLOWG NIGHT. WE DID, AND SHE NFSED SHE’D NEVER BEEN WH A GIRL BEFORE BUT WAS ALWAYS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WE HOOKED UP THAT NIGHT, AND THERE WAS SO MUCH PH-AND-PULL OM HER, WHERE SHE WOULD STOP THE MIDDLE OF KISSG ME AND SAY THGS LIKE “THIS IS SO WEIRD!” BUT THEN GO BACK TO KISSG ME. I’VE BEEN DOWN THIS ROAD BEFORE WH OTHER “STRAIGHT” GIRLS, AND NEVER ENDS {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I HAVE TWO QUTNS: 1) SHOULD I JT BACK AWAY NOW BEFORE I GET HURT AGA? 2) DO THIS HAVE ANY EQUIVALENT WH GUYS?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}SGLE GAY {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}LET’S AL WH QUTN #2 FIRST. DO EVER HAPPEN THAT BI-CUR GUYS WILL GO AFTER AN OUT GAY MAN, BUT THEN FEEL NFLICTED ABOUT THEIR FEELGS AND RETURN TO THE WARM, FAIAR BOSOM OF STRAIGHTDOM?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}Y, HAPPENS. BUT WH NOTHG EVEN APPROACHG THE EQUENCY THAT OCCURS AMONG WOMEN, ACRDG TO MY LBIAN {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THERE’S AN ARTICLE ON THAT SUGGTS WOMEN MAY HAVE EVOLVED OVER TIME TO BE MORE OPEN TO BISEXUALY AS A MEANS OF OBTAG THE SECURY THAT THERE WILL ALWAYS BE ANOTHER PAIR OF HANDS FOR RAISG THEIR CHILDREN – IF A DU ISN’T AROUND, ANOTHER LADY WILL DO JT FE. HOWEVER, THE EVINCE PROVID BY PSYCHOLOGIST BARRY X. KUHLE, WHO POSS THIS THEORY, SEEMS PRETTY SLIGHT. OF URSE, I DON’T WRE FOR A WEBSE WH “SCIENCE” THE URL, SO WHAT THE HELL DO I KNOW?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THE NVENTNAL WISDOM THE GAY BARS I TROLL, HOWEVER, IS THAT MEN ARE NATELY ATTRACTED TO THE POLE AND THE HOLE WH THE SAME EQUENCY AS WOMEN, BUT SOCIETY’S EXTRAORDARILY RIGID NF OF MALE SEXUALY PREVENT THEM OM EXPRSG THIS, AND SO THEY SUPPRS WHILE THEIR SISTERS ARE OUT THERE DO’ FOR {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}SO WHO’S RIGHT? BEATS THE HELL OUT OF ME. BUT ONE THG’S FOR SURE – THIS PROBLEM DO SEEM TO ARISE MUCH MORE EQUENTLY FOR LBIANS THAN FOR GAY {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}NOW TO QUTN #1. SHOULD YOU BACK AWAY BEFORE YOU GET HURT?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THAT’S A TOUGHIE, BEE THERE’S ALWAYS THE POSSIBILY THAT FOR THE GIRL QUTN, THIS IS A REAL MOMENT FOR HER WHERE SHE REALIZ THAT THERE MIGHT BE A LOT MORE TO HER SEXUALY THAN WHAT SHE HAD PRUMED, AND ’S POSSIBLE HER MD IS KD OF BLOWN RIGHT NOW. IF THAT’S THE SE, SHE’S PROBABLY FEELG A LTLE VULNERABLE, SO DCHG HER NOW SEEMS KD OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ON THE OTHER HAND, YOU WANT TO PROTECT YOURSELF, AND NOT SET YOURSELF UP TO GET HURT, {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I THK THE BT WAY TO GO ABOUT THIS IS TO MUNITE CLEARLY WHAT YOU’RE BOTH FEELG EVERY STEP OF THE WAY. IT’S TOTALLY OKAY – AND I ENURAGE YOU – TO LET HER KNOW THIS ISN’T YOUR FIRST TIME BEG “A FIRST TIME” FOR A GIRL WHO PREVLY INTIFIED AS STRAIGHT, AND THEREFORE THERE’S A LTLE EMOTNAL BAGGAGE FOR YOU. BOTH OF YOU SHOULD TREAD LIGHTLY, AND BE HONT WH EACH OTHER AT ALL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}BUT AGA, WHAT THE HELL DO I KNOW? I'M A GAY DU WHO'S MOSTLY DATED OTHER ROLUTELY GAY DUS. MY IEND LIZ, A BRILLIANT FILMMAKER BASED LA WHO ALSO HAPPENS TO LOVE THE LADI, HAD THIS TO SAY:{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}"THIS A PRIME EXAMPLE OF SOME WOMEN'S FLUID SEXUALY. GIVEN THAT STRAIGHT GIRL DISPLAYED HATN DURG THE HOOKUP, 'S UNLIKELY (THOUGH NOT IMPOSSIBLE) FOR THIS TO VELOP FURTHER. AS SGF PUT , 'IT NEVER ENDS WELL.' MY ADVICE WOULD BE FOR SGF TO BACK AWAY, IF ONLY FOR SELF-PROTECTN. FROM WHAT SHE WROTE, SOUNDS LIKE SHE HAS A HISTORY DATG/HOOKG UP WH STRAIGHT-INTIFIED GIRLS WHO ARE CUR BUT ALSO A LTLE FLAKY. IF NEVER ENDS WELL, WHY START THIS ONE? THERE ARE EASIER WAYS TO FD AND DATE WOMEN WHO LIKE WOMEN (THE INTER? LBIAN BARS? THE US OPEN?){BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}IF SGF AND THIS GIRL ENJOY EACH OTHERS PANY, THEN OL, A NEW IENDSHIP ... BUT I WOULD HAVE SGF ASK HERSELF IF SHE ULD REALISTILLY BE IENDS WH SOMEONE SHE IS ATTRACTED TO, OR IF EVERY HANGOUT FILLED HER WH HOPE THAT SHE ULD CHANGE STRAIGHT GIRL TO BI GIRL. TO REERATE MY ADVICE? BYE, GIRL."{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}HEY TIM!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I’D BEEN SEEG THIS GUY – WE’LL LL HIM GEE – FOR ABOUT THREE MONTHS. WE STARTED OUR RELATNSHIP VERY SUALLY, BUT AFTER A MONTH WE HAD “THE TALK,” AND BEME EXCLIVE. WE BOTH ME TO THE RELATNSHIP STATG OUR EXPECTATNS, WHICH IS TOTAL MONOGAMY. PERSONALLY, I’M TOTALLY SUPPORTIVE OF PEOPLE WHO HAVE OPEN RELATNSHIPS. IT’S JT NOT FOR {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ANYWAY, TWO WEEKS AFTER WE MA OFFICIAL, GEE (WHO GETS A LTLE CRAZY WHEN HE’S BEEN DRKG) ACCINTALLY SLIPPED AND SLEPT WH HIS EX AFTER A NIGHT OUT WH IENDS. HE SAID HIS EX ME OVER OM OUT OF THE BLUE, THAT HE WASN’T EXPECTG , AND THGS JT GOT RRIED {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I FAVE HIM, WHICH WAS HARD FOR ME, BUT I WORKED THROUGH . HOWEVER, SIX WEEKS LATER, HAPPENED AGA. THIS TIME WASN’T WH HIS EX BUT SOMEONE HE KNEW OM WORK. AFTER THAT, I BROKE UP WH HIM FOR GOOD. BELIEVE OR NOT, THAT WAS REALLY TOUGH FOR ME, BEE SPE THE CHEATG, HE WAS PROBABLY THE SWEETT, MOST RG GUY I’VE EVER BEEN WH. NOW, I’M HAVG SEND THOUGHTS. DID I DO THE RIGHT THG BY BREAKG OFF?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WORRIED {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}Y. YOU DID THE RIGHT {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}YOU TOTALLY DID THE RIGHT {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}THANKFULLY, YOUR QUTN WAS MUCH LS PLEX THAN THE CHEATG ISSUE WE TALKED ABOUT LAST WEEK. IF YOU’RE RELATNSHIP IS ONLY OFFICIAL FOR TWO MONTHS, AND THOSE TWO MONTHS HE CHEATS ON YOU TWICE, YOU N RT ASSURED HE’LL DO SO {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ALSO, “HIS EX ME OVER OM OUT OF THE BLUE?”{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}COME ON, WIW. HOW MANY TIM HAVE YOUR EX E OVER, UNVED, TO YOUR HOE WHOUT TELLG YOU?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I’M SURE HE SEEMED LIKE A SWEET GUY WHEN YOU TWO WERE TOGETHER, BUT THIS DU SOUNDS LIKE A MAJOR DOG. AND WHAT DO WE DO WH DOGS? WE GET RID OF {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WA, NOT REAL DOGS, THOUGH! KEEP THY WRATH AWAY OM ME, PETA!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}HEY TIM,{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}WHAT I LOVE MOST ABOUT YOUR LUMN IS YOUR SCIFI/FANTASY NERDS. I, TOO, LIKE 98.3% OF YOUR REARS LOVE DOCTOR WHO, AND BUFFY, AND FIREFLY, AND A GOOD PORTN OF WHAT YOU TALK ABOUT, BUT MOST OF ALL, I LOVE THE CLASSIC FAIRYTALE PRCE/PRCS, GOOD VERS EVIL {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MY QUTN IS WHETHER OR NOT YOU'VE EVER SEEN THE 10TH KGDOM, AND IF YOU HAVE, ANY THOUGHTS? IT'S ONE OF THOSE LET'S-TIE-ALL-THE-FAIRYTAL-TOGETHER GIMMICKS THAT ME OUT BACK 2000, SO LOOONG BEFORE THE OTHERS LIKE DISNEY'S ENCHANTED, OR KGDOM OF HEARTS, OR ONCE UPON A TIME. IT HAS ANN-MARGRET AS A 200 YEAR OLD CRELLA; CAMRYN MANHEIM AS AN OVERWEIGHT SNOW WHE; DIANNE WIT AS THE FIERCT EVIL QUEEN THIS SI OF MALEFICENT-----WHAT MORE N A GAY MAN ASK FOR A FAIRYTALE ST??!!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}PLEASE TELL ME YOU'RE A FAN!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}--FAIRYTALE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}NOW THAT IS THE SOUND OF A PASSNATE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}I NFS I HAVEN’T SEEN , BUT I’LL FELY HAVE TO CHECK OUT. THANKS FOR THE TIP, FF!{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}ANYONE OUT THERE SEEN AND FEEL AS STRONGLY AS FF?{BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}MORE OF THE LUMN FORMERLY KNOWN AS ASK JT! HERE. {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;PADDG:24PX 0;} A{LOR:#354A4E;-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;TEXT-RATN:UNRLE;} A:HOVER, A:FOC{-WEBK-TEXT-RATN:NONE;TEXT-RATN:NONE;} B, STRONG{FONT-WEIGHT:700;}TO ASK TIM A QUTN, EMAIL HIM AT (AND TRY TO KEEP TO THREE PARAGRAPHS OR LS). OR YOU N BE SUPER TECH-SEXY AND ASK VIA {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;CLEAR:BOTH;}THE {BOX-SIZG:BORR-BOX;MARG:0 TO;WIDTH:90%;M-WIDTH:288PX;MAX-WIDTH:1440PX;M-HEIGHT:194PX;}LATT NEWS
He’s also always been hont about beg gay and has never hidn om me. Our son took the news very well and don’t re that his father was gay.
I’ve asked my hband about , and he nfirms that he’s gay, not bisexual. I have doubts that he might leave me someday for a gay relatnship like he did his ex-wife.
Would you nsir him bisexual or gay? I thk your hband que clearly nsirs himself gay, which is far more relevant to your marriage than my asssment of his sense of self. The qutn of how he se his gayns relatn to his two marriag to women, specifilly his current marriage to you, is both more salient and open-end, so I’d suggt you start by askg him to share more of his thoughts on the subject wh you.