Kev Maxen, assistant ach of the Jacksonville Jaguars, is the first openly gay ach of a U.S. men’s profsnal league sport
Contents:
- GAY AND CAN'T FD A PARTNER?
- HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
- HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
- IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
- QUIZ: IS MY HBAND GAY?
- JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT COACH KEV MAXEN MAK HISTORY AFTER COMG OUT AS GAY
GAY AND CAN'T FD A PARTNER?
Learn how gay men n overe the hurdl and fd Mr. Right. * how to find your gay partner *
OK, so, you’re gay, and you want to fd a partner and eventually a hband; someone wh whom to share your life.
You thk that maybe ’s jt not possible for gay men to have long-term relatnships.
There mt be some tth to the old joke: “What do a gay man brg on a send date? As an openly gay man wh over 30 years of experience as a therapist, I have seen sr of sgle gay men sabotage their efforts to fd a partner, placg obstacl their own path—whout havg the slightt ia as to what they are dog and why. Fortunately, I have also learned how to intify and name the self-featg and often hidn hurdl—and have disvered that they are beliefs that too many gay men repeat to themselv, often whout even knowg .
HOW TO GET A MAN (FOR GAY MEN)
If you're a woman, you may have noticed thgs about your boyiend that lead you to believe he's gay or terted men. Sexualy is highly plex and sensive, and there are a lot of accurate stereotyp out there that don't tly... * how to find your gay partner *
In my experience, this ternalized belief is the poison that prevents some gay men om buildg a healthy relatnship, and also why many ms up the on they already have. Some of have been bullied as children; physilly, verbally, and emotnally abed at tenr ag by our peers and fay members for beg gay before we even regnized and unrstood our same-sex attractns. Sadly, the wounds are difficult to heal, and as a rult, n leave gay men wh the sense that we are unlovable and th unworthy of love, affectn, and happs.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR BOYIEND IS GAY
Fdg out your partner is gay n turn your world upsi down and make you qutn everythg about your relatnship." emprop="scriptn * how to find your gay partner *
For sure, so much of the gay male world is way too foced on looks, youth, the gym, partyg, and fast hookups; so searchg for Mr. Right is like lookg for a needle a gaystack.
HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
Is my hband gay? is an unthkable qutn to many wiv, and some hbands do turn out to be gay. Learn the signs of a gay hband. * how to find your gay partner *
In the old days, when I was g out, beg gay had more of an outlaw qualy.
Nonmonogamy was a polil statement, and gay rights advot saw marriage as nstrictive, patriarchal, heterocentric, flawed (perhaps due to the 50% failure rate) and therefore not worthy of pursu, pecially light of how gay men of the era were still gettg ejected om their jobs, hom, fai and blackmailed and arrted for who they were. Contrary to heterosexual fears, legal gay marriage has given the stutn an enormo boost importance. Where ’s legal, same-sex upl are gettg married drov, and some gay weddgs are so theatril and over the top that they n actually be timidatg.
IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
Quiz: Is My Hband Gay? - In se you didn’t know there are some upl who look heterogeno on the outsi but behd closed doors, their hband uld be attracted to men. It’s... * how to find your gay partner *
Many sgle gay men are happy, valug their tonomy and personal eedom (like the mcled bad boy scribed above). I have worked wh many gay widowers—guys wh good relatnship track rerds, who are anxly seekg a new mate, but are sabotagg themselv the ways scribed above.
I have had several grievg gay men tell me: “If I move on, will be like I am fettg him, ” which is jt not te. Remember, as a gay man, you have survived lots of direct and direct msag that there was somethg wrong wh you, which has left srs. Gay men have been tght to thk of ourselv as unlovable.
QUIZ: IS MY HBAND GAY?
Attend parti, try datg apps, and check out the gay bars your area. Some of the largt LGBTQ events clu Madrid Gay Pri, NYC Pri, the São Plo Gay Pri Para, and Sydney Gay and Lbian Mardi Gras.
Some of the bt s for gay men clu Zoosk, BeNghty, and [5].
JACKSONVILLE JAGUARS ASSISTANT COACH KEV MAXEN MAK HISTORY AFTER COMG OUT AS GAY
For gay men, shootg a photo outdoors or showg off toned arms will crease the chanc of someone likg your profile.
Fd eligible men at gay bars. Do a search onle and fd the most popular gay bars your area. Gay bars will be filled wh eligible gay men that may also be lookg for a relatnship.