Sun, Sand, and Sk: Fire Island’s Gay Haven the Neteen-Seventi | The New Yorker

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Matthew Leifhe’s “To Die Alive” is an arrtg portra of an endurg gay refuge.

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THE VERY GAY HISTORY OF FIRE ISLAND

How did one summer settlement Fire Island bee a 'safe haven' for gay men and lbians s before the uprisg at Stonewall Inn? * fire island gay stories *

How did one particular summer settlement on Fire Island bee a ‘safe haven’ for gay men and lbians almost nety years ago, s before the uprisg at Stonewall Inn?

It is the se of one of the olst gay and lbian muni the Uned Stat, suated wh two neighborg hamlets — Cherry Grove and the Fire Island P.

BEFORE STONEWALL, CHERRY GROVE: HOW A BEACH TOWN BEME A GAY 'SAFE HAVEN'

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Durg the 1930s actors, wrers and craftspeople om the New York theatril world began headg to Cherry Grove, s remote and stic quali allowg for gay and lbians to exprs themselv eely — far away om a world that rejected and persecuted them. And they are joed by Parker Sargent, a documentary filmmaker and one of the curators of Safe Haven: Gay Life 1950s Cherry Grove, a new exhibn at the New-York Historil Society, highlightg photography om the llectn of the Cherry Grove Archiv Collectn. Listen Now: The Very Gay History of Fire Island.

“SOMETHG SPECIAL AND UNIQUE AND GAY”: YOUR FIRST LOOK AT FIRE ISLAND

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Go see the show Safe/Haven: Gay Life 1950s Cherry Grove at the New-York Historil Society. Damng footage of the weekend’s panmic-fiant ftivi had gone viral, spirg well-rehearsed tak agast the nt Fire Island Gays that appeared pulsory if you were gay and onle. We wanted very badly to be wh other gay people and to do gay thgs a gay place.

Fire Island’s reputatn of homosexual excs mak pecially prone to absolut, such that most visors never learn to see past s glamoro mythos of parti and sex.

I nsir myself somebody vted tracg a gay leage for myself. I try to do this through gay art, lerature, and travel, even when parts of that leage might also annoy me. I feel a peculiar spirual pleasure enactg the same pilgrimage to the Fire Island tailed Andrew Holleran’s val gay novel Dancer om the Dance 1978.

SUN, SAND, AND SK: FIRE ISLAND’S GAY HAVEN THE NETEEN-SEVENTI

Or disverg a photo on the AIDS Memorial Instagram om the summer of 1983 of gay men on the same uch the same hoe I stayed at last year. Harris’s rea his own “choreopoem’” on gay sex and lerary leage, Black Exhibn: “I me to Fire Island to wre, and all I did was fuck and cry. Navigatg the P a panmic only sharpened that feelg, given s role as a val refuge for gay people at the height of the ongog AIDS epimic.

SWEET ESPE: PHOTOGRAPHS OF FIRE ISLAND’S CHERRY GROVE SHOW ITS HISTORY AS A GAY SANCTUARY

Even though COVID-19 differs greatly om HIV, the task of fyg disease rgs out wh a particular, historil vibratn Fire, like most gay spac, Fire Island is also a hotbed of anxiety and ambivalence.

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FIRE ISLAND IS A TRIP TO GAY HEAVEN—OR IS IT HELL?COMEDIAN JOEL KIM BOOSTER AND SATURDAY NIGHT LIVE’S BOWEN YANG LEAD A JANE ATEN-SPIRED QUEER ROM.BY RICHARD LAWSONJUNE 2, 2022PHOTO BY JEONG PARK. COURTY OF SEARCHLIGHT PICTURSAVE THIS STORYSAVESAVE THIS STORYSAVEMY LAST TRIP TO FIRE ISLAND WAS 2019, A BUGGY, GHT WEEK DURG WHICH I FELT WOEFULLY ALIENATED OM MY HOEMAT (BY MY OWN DOG, NOT THEIRS) AND ALTOGETHER LONELY AND OLD AND GROSS AND TIRED. SUCH IS THE PERIL OF GOG TO A PLACE LIKE THAT—A GAY RETREAT THAT PROMIS THE FORTS AND EXCEMENTS OF FAIAR PANY, BUT ALSO HOLDS THE POTENTIAL FOR DIRE JAGS OF SELF-DOUBT. AT THE END OF MY TIME THERE, I GOT ON THE FERRY BACK TO LONG ISLAND AND CID I’D FALLY HAD ENOUGH. I HAD TRIED TO MAKE FIRE ISLAND WORK FOR ME, BUT I’D FAILED, TIME AND TIME AGA.IT’S A LOT EASIER TO RETURN THERE VIRTUAL FORM, NONTG AN IA OF THE PLACE OM A DIGAL DISTANCE RATHER THAN EXPERIENCG THE REAL, VODKA-SOAKED THG. WHICH IS JT WHAT THE NEW HULU FILM FIRE ISLAND (JUNE 3) OFFERS TO BOTH FIRE ISLAND VETERAN AND VIRG. DIRECTED BY ANDREW AHN AND WRTEN BY JOEL KIM BOOSTER, WHO ALSO STARS, FIRE ISLAND IS A ROMANTIC EDY OF MANNERS BASED ON JANE ATEN’S PRI AND PREJUDICE. GIVEN THE STRICT AND VEXG HIERARCHI OF FIRE ISLAND, KIM BOOSTER’S CHOICE OF TEMPLATE IS AN APT ONE. ALL OF ATEN’S Y AND PRICKLY SOCIAL MANVERG EASILY MAPS ONTO THE PARTICULAR GAY ESYSTEM PICTED THE FILM—TERPTED, OF URSE, BY VERY MORN BURSTS OF SEX AND DGS. THE GREATT ASSET OF FIRE ISLAND IS THE ISLAND SELF. MUCH OF THE FILM WAS SHOT ON LOTN THE LATE SUMMER AND EARLY FALL OF LAST YEAR, WHICH GIV THE FILM A CCIAL SPECIFICY. THOSE OF WHO’VE BEEN TO THE ISLAND BEFORE, FOR BETTER OR WORSE, MAY MORE POTENTLY REGNIZE THE STRANGE SIGNIFINCE OF SEEG, SAY, THE ICE PALACE LOOMG LARGE A GLOSSY, BUZZED-ABOUT MOVIE RELEASED ON A STREAMG PLATFORM OWNED BY DISNEY. BUT EVEN IF THE PLAC MEAN LTLE OR NOTHG TO A VIEWER, I’D THK THEY’LL STILL FEEL THE ENVELOPG PULL OF THE FILM’S GRANULAR TEXTURE, THE KEEN SENSE OF PLACE THAT SO MANY MOVI—FILMED ON ATLANTA SOUND STAG OR CANADIAN CI DRSED UP TO LOOK LIKE SOMETHG ELSE—SEEM TO LACK THE DAYS.AHN BATH THIS TH, SCRAGGLY LE OF SAND ACHG HU. HE AND CEMATOGRAPHER FELIPE VARA REY HAVE PTURED THE ROSY HAZE OF MAGIL SUMMER, KISSED BY WARM SUN AND FLECKED WH TWILIGHT DARKNS. (THE FILM’S WOOZY, INSTAGRAM-FILTER LOOK IS PERHAPS REMISCENT OF THE SHORT-LIVED GAY HBO SERI LOOKG—THOUGH I REALIZE THAT PARISON MAY READ AS NEGATIVE TO SOME. I MEAN A GOOD WAY.) AHN HAS SET A LOVELY STAGE FOR BUDDG ROMANCE AND FOR THE DULL PANGS OF VATN MALAISE. FIRE ISLAND PRENTS A WORLD BOTH SPRIGHTLY AND SOMBER, BEFTG OF THIS PARTY MEC WHERE EVEN A QUIET AFTERNOON BY THE POOL RRI WH AN ANX CH. KIM BOOSTER PLAYS NOAH, A HANDSOME, BED-HOPPG NURSE WHO IS MAKG AN ANNUAL PILGRIMAGE TO FIRE ISLAND WH HIS ART IENDS. HOWIE (BOWEN YANG) IS VISG OM SAN FRANCIS, WHERE HE HAS MPED TO FOR A JOB TECH. ZANY SIKICKS KEEGAN (TOMáS MATOS), LE (MATT ROGERS), AND MAX (TORIAN MILLER) HAVE MA THEIR WAY OUT OM THE CY, READY TO WHOOP UP AND OFFER CUTTG MENTARY. THE CHARACTERS ARE, AS THEY MIGHT BE A NOVEL, TAILED FOR BY NOAH’S NARRATN, WHICH ALSO GIV THE UNIATED A QUICK OVERVIEW OF THE LAY OF THE LAND—A B OF PROBABLY NECSARY EXPOSN GIVEN THAT FIRE ISLAND IS NOT AN ACCSIBLE PLACE FOR MOST PEOPLE, GEOGRAPHILLY AND FANCIALLY. MONEY IS ONE OF THE FILM’S PERSISTENT NCERNS. THE BOYS’ HOST, EARTHY-KOOKY LBIAN ER (MARGARET CHO), WILL HAVE TO SELL HER BELOVED HOE AFTER LOSG MOST OF HER MONEY BY VTG QUIBI. (A FUNNY EVOTN OF THE DOOMED STREAMER THAT WAS ONCE MEANT TO BE THE HOME OF A TV SERI THAT LATER BEME THIS FILM.) THAT PUTS THE IENDS STARK NTRAST TO THE RICH GUYS ON THE OCEANONT SI OF THE ISLAND, SNOOTY MCLE GODS WHO ARE, THE FILM POTEDLY REGNIZ, ALMOST UNIFORMLY WHE. AS ASIAN MEN ON AN ISLAND—AND WH A BROAR MUNY—THAT IS OFTEN NOXLY PREJUDICED AGAST THEM, NOAH AND HOWIE MT NTEND WH BEG OSTRACIZED A PLACE THAT IS, OSTENSIBLY, SUPPOSED TO BE A WELG HAVEN. THE PA AND TRATN OF THAT IS SPOKEN ALOUD THE FILM, BUT KIM BOOSTER ALSO LETS HOVER QUIETLY, BUT SISTENTLY, THE SUBTEXT OF MANY OTHER LOAD NVERSATNS. FIRE ISLAND IS NOT MEANT TO BE A PANACEA FOR THIS PROBLEM— IS, AFTER ALL, NOT NOAH AND HOWIE’S, NOR AHN’S AND KIM BOOSTER’S, PROBLEM TO SOLVE. THE FILM IS STEAD A NARRATIVE ABOUT PEOPLE NAVIGATG A DIFFICULT REALY, TRYG TO WRTLE A GOOD, FULFILLG TIME OUT OF A CIRCUMSTANCE THAT SOMETIM SEEMS TERMED TO PRIVE THEM OF THAT. THAT SERNS IS TERTG DIALOGUE, IF NOT ALWAYS PERFECT BALANCE, WH THE FILM’S BAWDIER, RNCHIER DIMENSNS. MOST POPULARTHE 25 BT SHOWS ON NETFLIX TO WATCH RIGHT NOWBY TARA ARIANOWELE TO SALTBURN’S TWISTED GOTHIC TALEBY REBEC FORDWH MATRO, LEONARD BERNSTE’S LEGACY AND LOV FALLY H THE BIG SCREENBY REBEC FORDTHERE ARE ALSO TENSNS WH HOWIE AND NOAH’S IENDSHIP TO BE ALT WH. HOWIE IS SECURE ABOUT HIS BODY AND HIS NERDY AWKWARDNS, SO UN-REFLECTED NOAH’S RIPPLED AME AND SEX-HAPPY JOIE VIVRE. WE GET THE IMPRSN THAT NOAH’S GROOVE IS A LTLE B NEW—ONCE, MAYBE, HOWIE SAW THEM MORE AS PEERS. THAT SAD DYNAMIC, ONE THAT MANY GAY MEN (AND OTHER PEOPLE, OF URSE) WILL FD ALL TOO RELATABLE, IS SHARPLY ADDRSED THE FILM. THOUGH, I WISH THAT FIRE ISLAND SPENT EVEN MORE TIME VTIGATG THE AILG MECHANICS OF THIS VAL IENDSHIP. THE MOMENTS OF NFSN AND ARGUMENT ARE WHEN FIRE ISLAND FEELS MOST PERSONAL, MOST TIMATE. BUT BEFORE LONG, ALAS, THE BS, AND BYNS, OF THE FILM’S PLOT MT BE ATTEND TO. LOVE TERTS POP UP AT TEA DANC, AS THEY’RE WONT TO DO. FOR NOAH THERE IS THE FILM’S MR. DARCY, WILL (CONRAD RIMORA), A STERN AND HUNKY LAWYER WHOSE CHILLY REACTN TO NOAH’S VERVE DO, OF URSE, MASK A DAWNG ATTRACTN. FOR HOWIE THERE IS THE BABY-FACED CHARLIE (JAM SCULLY), WHOSE MEAN-GIRL IENDS AND OBNOX EX-BOYIEND NTUALLY THWART HIS FLIRTATNS WH HOWIE. SATISFYG NCLNS TO THE ROMANTIC TRAVAILS ARE REACHED BY THE END, AS THEY MT BE, WHILE ALONG THE WAY THERE IS SOME TRIGUE WH A SOLICO INSTAGAY, DEX (ZANE PHILLIPS), WHO’S UP TO NO GOOD, AND A FEW PS FOR HIGH-EDY ANTICS OM KEEGAN AND LE. THOSE MANY MOVG PARTS ARE JUGGLED WELL ENOUGH BY AHN AND KIM BOOSTER—THOUGH, THROUGHOUT THE FILM THEY SEEM UNCERTA IF THEY WANT THIS TO BE A PROBG SOCIAL EDY OR A GALS-ON-VAY LARK. IT N BE BOTH, SURELY, BUT FIRE ISLAND HAS TROUBLE BLENDG THOSE HALV TO A HIVE WHOLE. THAT SAID, ’S MENDABLE THAT THE FILM SO ANKLY, SO AIRILY, PICTS THE ISLAND’S RNAL DULGENC. MAYBE ALL OF THAT STG SOMEWHAT DISRDANTLY ALONGSI THE MHIER, GENTLER STUFF IS A WORTHY APPROXIMATN OF WHAT IS TO BE ON FIRE ISLAND: HORNED UP AND MELANCHOLY, ADDLED BY BOTH CHEMILS AND RELENTLS HEAV OF EMOTN. IN THAT ASPECT, FIRE ISLAND GETS JT ABOUT RIGHT—M THE MOSQUO.MORE GREAT STORI FROM VANY FAIRHOW FOUR BILLNAIRE TECHNO-OLIGARCHS ARE CREATG AN ALTERNATE REALYEXCLIVE NEW DETAILS ABOUT MEGHAN MARKLE’S WEDDG DRSWHY THE TAN SUBMERSIBLE DISASTER WAS YEARS THE MAKGHERE’S WHAT WE NEED SEASON 3 OF AND JT LIKE THAT…THE BRIEF DEATH (AND SHORT REBIRTH) OF LIL TAYINSI ANDREW STT AND PL ML’S METAPHYSIL LOVE STORYFROM THE ARCHIVE: A FATHER’S ACUNT OF THE TRIAL OF HIS DGHTER’S KILLEREND-OF-SUMMER SALE! TAKE 25% OFF AT THE VF SHOPRICHARD LAWSON

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