Twenty-two years ago, I asked my dad if he was gay. Then he was gone.

Contents:

• THE GAY FATHER I NEVER KNEW
• JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU
• ‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD

THE GAY FATHER I NEVER KNEW

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JAGUARS ASSOCIATE STRENGTH ACH OUT AS GAY A FIRST FOR US-BASED PRO LEAGU

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‘A FAY LIKE OURS’: PORTRAS OF GAY FATHERHOOD

While I’d never met an out gay man, I kd of knew what they were supposed to be like om movi and TV, and Dad f the mold: He loved to ok; he cleaned obssively; he kept the Internatnal Male talog around, bee, he said, “I like the cloth. “You know, ” I said to Dad, “I asked Mom once if you were gay. “Gay?

“I’m not gay. ” she’d said our kchen—after a long nversatn she’d had wh an openly gay iend om llege, Pat, who had, apparently, been a nfidant of Dad’s.