From a stunt the 60s for whom sex was illegal to a recent arrival on the gay scene, four men and a non-bary queer person on how their liv – and sex liv – have changed
Contents:
- SI GUYS: THKG BEYOND GAY MALE "TOPS" AND "BOTTOMS"
- ‘GAY LIFE IS BETTER NOW. ABSOLUTELY’: FIVE GENERATNS ON G OUT AND WHAT ME NEXT
- WHY REVEAL THE DARK SI OF THE GAY MOVEMENT?
- THE GAY SI OF NATURE
- MY HBAND'S SECRET GAY LIFE
- GAY MEN AND BODY PERFECTN
SI GUYS: THKG BEYOND GAY MALE "TOPS" AND "BOTTOMS"
* the gay side of life *
Gay men who intify as a "si". When to sex, whether you’re gay, bi, or straight, we’ve all been a ltle brawashed to believg that there is this thg lled “normal. In the gay male muny, ually, you’re eher nsired to be a “top, ” the perator, or a “bottom, ” the perated, or you’re versatile (n go eher way).
‘GAY LIFE IS BETTER NOW. ABSOLUTELY’: FIVE GENERATNS ON G OUT AND WHAT ME NEXT
A gui for unrstandg the natural progrsn of every gay man's life. * the gay side of life *
For stance, thk about datg apps for gay men. But what if you’re a gay man who don’t enjoy anal sex or fds anal peratn paful, don’t like the feelg or the troublome amount of preparatn and cleang up need for to be a pleasurable experience, or simply don’t experience anal sex as erotic? That’s why a 2013 article I wrote for Huffgton Post, "Guys on the ‘Si’: Lookg Beyond Gay Tops and Bottoms, " I began workg on popularizg the term “si” orr for the gay men to have the language to exprs their sexual and erotic preference.
WHY REVEAL THE DARK SI OF THE GAY MOVEMENT?
Unrstand health ncerns for gay men and other men who have sex wh men, and learn how to promote good health. * the gay side of life *
Sis often suffer the accatns of other gay men, such as:. I’ve seen gay male clients who rry a load of shame about not likg or wantg to get or give anal sex. There are straight men who like havg anal sex and/or beg perated wh a dildo, and there are gay men who don’t.
THE GAY SI OF NATURE
The Gay Si of Nature" name="scriptn * the gay side of life *
It was no longer illegal to have gay sex England and Wal if you were over 21, but was still owned upon. Gog to all the gay nightclubs.
It was like you were gay the club, then you me out of and put your at back on and you went to nial about . ‘He said: shouldn’t be jt two – we n have an open relatnship’Marc Thompson: ‘There were good gays – guys who got married and got a dog – and there were dirty gays’Marc Thompson, 54I me out the summer of 1985. There were good gays – guys who got married and got a dog – and there were dirty gays.
I’m not on the gay scene any more.
MY HBAND'S SECRET GAY LIFE
Many gay men want a perfect body, but the effort to get one creat real misery. * the gay side of life *
Sex is such an tegral part of who you are as a gay man.
Am I still a gay man whout ?
GAY MEN AND BODY PERFECTN
When I was 15, beg gay was fed by who I wanted to go to bed wh.