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Contents:
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- FROM A GUY, HOW DO I ASK ANOTHER GUY OUT, PECIALLY IF I DON’T KNOW WHETHER THEIR STRAIGHT, GAY, OR BISEXUAL?
- PARENTS ASK: SHOULD WE WA FOR OUR SON TO E OUT — OR ASK HIM OURSELV IF HE’S GAY?
- I’M PRETTY SURE MY IEND IS GAY. HOW DO I ASK HIM?
- 'I THK MY BOYIEND IS GAY, HOW DO I ASK HIM?' - TIPS ON TALKG ABOUT SEXUALY WH YOUR PARTNER
- I REALIZED I WAS BISEXUAL A FEW MONTHS AGO. I LIKE THIS GUY MY CLASS BUT I’M AAID TO TELL HIM BEE I’M NOT SURE IF HE’S GAY/BI. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
- THATZ NOT OKAY: ASKG A BOYIEND IF HE'S GAY; THE FABRIC OF STRIFE
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
Eric Bach is an openly gay broadster for the Frericksburg Natnals. He has major league aspiratns, but his path has been much lonelier than he would prefer. * ask him if he's gay *
McCoy for The New York TimHis Sexualy Don’t Defe Him, but It Can Set Him ApartEric Bach is an openly gay broadster for the Frericksburg Natnals. Three years earlier, while he was studyg journalism at Michigan State Universy, he had publicly e out as gay an say he wrote for the time of the say, he braced for a backlash, but nothg materialized. He worked his way up om ternships to full-time broadstg jobs, and while anyone wh an ter nnectn uld learn he was gay, nobody asked, and he did not say so aga publicly.
It was bil and ugly, filled wh “every gay slur you uld thk of, ” Bach said.
It was paful at the time — the worst thg that had happened to him as a gay man, he said — but has reced far enough to his memory that did not e to md an hourlong terview about his experienc as a gay broadster. As far as Bach knows — and as far as many of his unterparts wh other teams are aware — there are no other openly gay broadsters the sport.
FROM A GUY, HOW DO I ASK ANOTHER GUY OUT, PECIALLY IF I DON’T KNOW WHETHER THEIR STRAIGHT, GAY, OR BISEXUAL?
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * ask him if he's gay *
McCoy for The New York TimBorn to BroadstLong before he knew he was gay, Bach knew he wanted to be a sports father was a ach, and a love of sports ran through the fay. ”)He began to accept that he was gay durg his sophomore year of high school, but wh that acceptance me worry.
As a multisport athlete, Bach was often locker rooms filled wh chos of homophobic slurs and gay jok. ’”By the start of his sophomore year at Michigan State, Bach was ready to tell his parents that he was gay, tchg his father off guard but nfirmg what his mother had prevly assumed. He did each job to the bt of his abily, and his sexualy never me, he has found that there’s a difference between beg a gay man baseball and beg pletely fortable as one.
PARENTS ASK: SHOULD WE WA FOR OUR SON TO E OUT — OR ASK HIM OURSELV IF HE’S GAY?
“I was sually like, ‘You know I’m gay, right? That uncertaty mak him feel self-nsc a way he believ is mon for gay people mostly straight spac. “I feel like that’s the burn a lot of gay people live wh — tryg to be perfect for straight people, ” he job requir equent teractn wh the players and the achg staff — addn to his duti as play-by-play announcer, Bach also is the ma public relatns ntact for the team — and he said he hadn’t fully relaxed any of them.
The environment is not hostile, but Bach never fets that he is the only openly gay person the room. Mrer/Frericksburg NatnalsThat feelg is somewhat “self-flicted, ” Bach said, but he believ the solutn is to brg more openly gay people to sports and create a safe environment for those who are already there but have felt necsary to hi their League Baseball has touted self as a place of clivy.
I’M PRETTY SURE MY IEND IS GAY. HOW DO I ASK HIM?
Billy Bean, an openly gay former player, was named the league’s first ambassador for cln 2014 and has sce been promoted to senr vice print and special assistant to Commissner Rob Maned. In Febary, Anrson Comás, a mor leaguer the Chigo Whe Sox anizatn, me out as gay wh a post on Instagram, and the announcement was met wh public support om his club and some people around the cints suggt there is more work to be done. The Boston Red Sox lled up a mor leaguer, Matt Dermody, who had posted an anti-gay msage on Twter 2021, and Anthony Bass, a reliever for the Toronto Blue Jays, reposted a vio on social media that lled for boytts of L.
'I THK MY BOYIEND IS GAY, HOW DO I ASK HIM?' - TIPS ON TALKG ABOUT SEXUALY WH YOUR PARTNER
“Those of that are this very small mory sports have to keep on havg the nversatns, keep on workg really ick’ hard to earn your spot this space, ” he aspir to be a gay person at home a big-league booth.
I REALIZED I WAS BISEXUAL A FEW MONTHS AGO. I LIKE THIS GUY MY CLASS BUT I’M AAID TO TELL HIM BEE I’M NOT SURE IF HE’S GAY/BI. WHAT SHOULD I DO?
McCoy for The New York TimA versn of this article appears prt on, Sectn A, Page 27 of the New York edn wh the headle: A Gay Broadster Climbs the Ladr, But It’s Been Lonely.
THATZ NOT OKAY: ASKG A BOYIEND IF HE'S GAY; THE FABRIC OF STRIFE
How would you polely ask a guy if he's gay? He had been anonymo until Wednday's his openg statement, Ziegler emphasized that he is a gay man and a registered Democrat who has been acced of betrayg his party.
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. You may want to know if your iend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're stayg closeted.