31 arguments agast gay marriage (and why they’re all wrong) | New Humanist

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• MANY BRONS HAVE CHANGED THEIR MDS ON GAY MARRIAGE
• CHURCH OF ENGLAND BACKS PLANS TO BLS GAY UPL
• GAY RIGHTS 50 YEARS ON: 10 WAYS WHICH THE UK HAS CHANGED
• GAY MARRIAGE BE LEGAL BRA – PICTUR
• FIRST COUPL WED AS GAY MARRIAGE BE LEGAL UK
• IN PICTUR: UK'S FIRST GAY WEDDGS
• GAY UPL IGNORE BARRIERS WHEN CHOOSG HONEYMOON
• BRISH ROYAL FAY'S FIRST GAY WEDDG: LORD MOUNTBATTEN TO MARRY JAM COYLE
• CHURCH OF ENGLAND BISHOPS REFE TO BACK GAY MARRIAGE
• LDSEY GRAHAM ARGU GAY MARRIAGE RIGHTS SHOULD BE LEFT UP TO STAT
• GETTG MARRIED THE UK GAY MARRIAGE LAWS UK
• UK SAME-SEX PARTNER VISA (GAY MARRIAGE VISA)
• 31 ARGUMENTS AGAST GAY MARRIAGE (AND WHY THEY’RE ALL WRONG)
• ENGLAND, WAL SET FOR GAY MARRIAG 2014
• GAY MARRIAGE LEGALISED AT MIDNIGHT ENGLAND AND WAL
• CALIFORNIA STILL HAS AN ANTI-GAY MARRIAGE LAW ON THE BOOKS. VOTERS ULD REMOVE NEXT YEAR
• KEV SPACEY FELT ‘PRSURED TO E OUT AS GAY’ AFTER SEXUAL MISNDUCT ALLEGATNS

MANY BRONS HAVE CHANGED THEIR MDS ON GAY MARRIAGE

'Authentilly myself'Ray said he had also stggled growg up gay the 1970s and 80s England, which was "tough" said his relig school "dmmed to you, 'you are gog to hell'" Adam returned home to Sdi Arabia, spe beg more than 3, 000 apart and later rtricted by the Covid-19 panmic, they kept touch daily and the romance years ago, Ray proposed on a vio ll and after succsfully applyg for a UK fiancé visa, Adam moved to Manchter December 2022. Adam said he had been aaid to even wear lours his home untry so the first thg he did when he moved was start to "grow my mullet, got my ears pierced and booked appotments for tattoos" relled how, ntrast, one of his gay iends Sdi had been forced to marry a woman, addg: "It has ed not only his life but the life of his wife. “I believe that if a uple love each other and want to m to a life together, they should have the optn of a civil marriage, irrpective of whether they are gay or straight, … are not prrisg gay rights, or tramplg over tradn; we are allowg a space for the two to exist si by si.

Wednday's nfirmatory vote was due to take place at the 2020 nference but that was ncelled bee of the Covid-19 chang mean the Methodist Church now holds two parallel fns of marriage - one posn says "marriage n only be between a man and a woman" and the other that "marriage n be between any two people" officials hope the dual fn will persua nservative church not to leave and protect misters om discrimatn claims if they refe to marry gay Rev Sonia Hicks, print of the Methodist Conference, said: "The bate today and our wir nversatn has been nducted wh grace and mutual rpect. Image source, PA MediaImage ptn, The Archbishop of Canterbury, the Most Reverend Jt Welby, warned the Church's parliament not to give to the "fear of a slippery slope" when batg plans to bls same-sex uplThe Church of England has backed proposals to allow prayers of blsg for same sex posn on gay marriage will not change and same-sex upl will still be unable to marry plans, set out by bishops last month, have been cricised om those who thk they go too far and those who thk they don't go far the motn was passed all three of synod's 'ho'.

"God's blsgIn more than eight hours of bate there were 18 vot on attempted amendments, both om nservativ and amendment to force a vote on changg the Church's teachg and allowg gay upl to marry Church was only amendment that passed was om nservativ, rercg that the new prayers of blsg "should not be ntrary to or ditive of a parture om the doctre of the Church of England" which do not allow same-sex marriage. The motn had been brought by the Bishop of London, Dame Sarah Mullally, and was the rult of six years of work on qutns of inty, sexualy, relatnships and marriage known as Livg In Love And relign edor Aleem Maqbool said: "It may sound ntradictory to vote to bls same-sex marriag, but still nsir them as unns that fy Church of England doctre but that after five years of nsultatn is the formula that's been settled on" said Church lears were celebratg the move as "a watershed moment and a move forward towards acceptance of LGBTQ unns, but a way that holds the stutn together" is not the type of marriage equaly that, for example, the Epispal Church Stland long approved - for now, gay upl will still not be able to have a Church of England fal motn was passed across the synod's three 'ho'.

CHURCH OF ENGLAND BACKS PLANS TO BLS GAY UPL

The Hoe of Lay voted 103 favour, 92 agast, and 5 bishops will now falise the wordg of the new prayers and also issue new guidance on whether gay clergy mt rema celibate before the synod meets aga on this story.

Media ptn, Peter McGrah and David Cabreza, John Coffey and Bernardo Marti, and Andrew Wale and Neil Allard were among the first gay upl to marryThe first same-sex weddgs have taken place after gay marriage beme legal England and Wal at midnight. "The law change would enurage young people unsure of their sexualy, he source, Getty ImagImage ptn, Tera Millward and Helen Brearley married HalifaxImage source, APImage ptn, Sean Adl-Tabatabai and Sclair Treadway married the uncil chamber at Camn Town Hall LondonImage source, PAImage ptn, Sandi Toksvig and her partner Debbie renewed their civil partnership vows at an event London celebratg the law changeLater on Saturday morng, Mr Cameron tweeted: "Congratulatns to the gay upl who have already been married - and my bt wish to those about to be on this historic day. Mr Tatchell said the uple and all the others gettg married had "ma history" and "ma Bra a more tolerant, equal place" a crowd of photographers, journalists and well-wishers wag, the uple took the opportuny to highlight the ternatnal stggle for gay McGrah said: "Very few untri afford their gay and lbian cizens equal marriage rights and we believe that this change law will brg hope and strength to gay men and lbians Nigeria, Uganda, Rsia, India and elsewhere, who lack basic equaly and are beg crimalised for their sexual orientatn.

GAY RIGHTS 50 YEARS ON: 10 WAYS WHICH THE UK HAS CHANGED

"Image source, Getty ImagImage ptn, Andrew Wale and Neil Allard were the first same-sex uple to marry BrightonImage source, AFPImage ptn, Phil Robathan and Jam Prton later married at Brighton Town HallLater on Saturday, a crowd of about 2, 000 people - which clud a number of celebri - gathered to watch edian Sandi Toksvig and her partner Debbie renew their civil partnership uple, who entered to a civil partnership seven years ago, exchanged vows on stage at the Royal Ftival Hall London at a special event to celebrate the troductn of gay marriage the UK.

GAY MARRIAGE BE LEGAL BRA – PICTUR

The Roman Catholic Church oppos the change the gay virs, though, have said they are prepared to fy their bishops by sistg they have a right to ptn, The Rev Andrew Ca says he do not want nontatn wh the Church, but "mt do what is right"Among them is the Reverend Andrew Ca, who said the Church was enterg uncharted terrory, but he would not be "ightened" out of dog what he believed was Ca, who plans to marry his partner the summer, said he would do so whether the Church approved or not. Approval fell the 1980s when the Aids crisis and the troductn of sectn 28 - a law prohibg the promotn or teachg of homosexualy schools - uld have swayed public opn acrdg to NatCen, the thk tank which ns the a steady and rapid rise om the early 1990s reflects a wir trend of social liberalisatn, somethg also seen changg attus to pre-maral sex. Approval of pre-maral sex grew ially among the young - as they got olr they retaed that belief, and soon both old and young were more liberal on the same-sex relatnships the shift attu has been quicker - not only did young people wh liberal views get olr, but olr people changed their mds, might part be bee chang the law, such as the legalisatn of civil partnerships and then gay marriage, have a powerful fluence on people's views, a NatCen spokman suggts.

FIRST COUPL WED AS GAY MARRIAGE BE LEGAL UK

1967 - Sex between two men over 21 and " private" is crimalised1980 - Decrimalisatn Stland1982 - Decrimalisatn Northern Ireland1994 - The age of nsent for two male partners is lowered to 182000 - The ban on gay and bisexual people servg the armed forc is lifted; the age of nsent is equalised for same- and oppose-sex partners at 162002 - Same-sex upl are given equal rights when to adoptn2003 - Gross cency is removed as an offence2004 - A law allowg civil partnerships is passed2007 - Discrimatn on the basis of sexual orientatn is banned2010 - Genr reassignment is add as a protected characteristic equaly legislatn2014 - Gay marriage be legal England, Wal and Stland3. Government has attempted to redrs this legacyGiven this legacy of crimalisatn, the ernment troduced a scheme October 2012 allowg those prosecuted unr funct gay-sex-related laws, to have their nvictns removed om police and urt Home Office timat that there were about 50, 000 such offenc rerd on the system om the 1950s until of the 50, 000, only an timated 16, 000 are for people who are still livg and so able to all of the 16, 000 offenc are eligible to be "disregard". Rerdg of homophobic hate crim has risenA steep rise homophobic hate crim has been rerd over the past five years, but this is thought to be large part down to an crease people reportg cints rather than a genue rise crime.

The Natnal Police Chiefs Council's lead on homophobic crim, Assistant Chief Constable Mark Haton, says: "Tradnally, homophobic hate crime has been signifintly unr-reported and we do not believe that current statistics accurately reflect actual levels of abe. It's strikg that people aged 16-24 are more than five tim more likely than those aged over 65 to intify as gay, lbian or Office for Natnal Statistics keeps rerds of people who intify themselv as gay, lbian or bisexual - 1. This is likely to unrtimate the real numbers as the survey don't pture sexual attractn or 2005 the ernment tried to timate the size of the lbian, gay and bisexual populatn and me up wh a larger number - 5-7% of the populatn.

Gay people say they feel ls happy than their straight peersPeople who intify as gay, lbian and bisexual report lower levels of well-beg than heterosexuals the ONS looks at happs, life satisfactn, and the extent to which people feel their life is worthwhile. Gay and lbian people report higher levels of anxiety than straight people, but bisexual people are even more likely to suffer om the lbian, gay and bisexual people are also more likely to suffer om suicidal thoughts than their straight iends, acrdg to a 2014 survey by LGBT support chary Metro. Same-sex upl have gaed equal marriage rightsCivil partnerships were legalised 2004 throughout the Uned Kgdom, wh the first ceremoni takg place at the end of the followg 140, 000 people entered to civil partnerships between 2005 and 2015, the last year for which figur are the UK, gay and lbian upl were granted many of the same rights as married heterosexuals, albe wh a few differenc around issu like private-sector meant that upl uld no longer be kept out of hospal rooms when their partner was sick, they would no longer lose their home or bs bee of tax laws, and they had parental rights over marriage was legalised a later, wh the first ceremoni takg place England, Wal and Stland 2014.

IN PICTUR: UK'S FIRST GAY WEDDGS

Countri where gay marriage is legal2010 Iceland, Portugal, Argenta2013 Uguay, New Zealand, France, Brazil2014 UK (excludg Northern Ireland)2015 Luxembourg, Ireland, Mexi, USAA further 28 untri guarantee some civil-partnership regnn acrdg to ILGA. StatisticsNumber of same-sex marriag England and Wal by genr 2014-2020Reasons to favor same-sex marriage the Uned Stat 2012Reasons for opposg same-sex marriage the Uned Stat 2012Survey on the stance of Amerins on same-sex marriage 2015Spaniards' opn on same-sex marriage 2019, by genrSpaniards' opn on same-sex marriage 2019, by tnal attamentSpaniards' opn on same-sex marriage 2019, by iologySpaniards' opn on same-sex marriage 2019, by religsy levelSpaniards' opn on same-sex marriage 2021Spaniards' opn on same-sex marriage 2009-2019Spaniards' opn on same-sex marriage 2019, by age groupTotal number of same-sex marriag the Netherlands 2001-2021, by genrAttu towards gay marriage Great Bra 2014, by ageAttu towards gay marriage Great Bra 2014, by polil stance Total number of same-sex civil unns as of January Italy 2017Opn on LGBT+ rights CEE 2023, by untrySpaniards opn on child nceptn by same-sex upl 2019, by tnal attaStatista Acunts:. Image source, Getty ImagTera Millward, pictured wh her new wife Helen Brearley after their weddg Halifax on Saturday morng, said gettg a weddg certifite would mean there was "te equaly" the law change took effect, allowg upl such as Phil Robathan and Jam Prton to marry, Liberal Democrat lear Nick Clegg said "gettg to aln ernment will have been worth " if helped jt one young gay person feel "safer, stronger, taller".

Current statSce Nov 18, 2003No censorship Prev law repealed by sectn 122 of the Lol Government Act punishmentSectn 28 of the Lol Government Act 1988 stated that lol thori uld not "tentnally promote homosexualy or publish material wh the tentn of promotg homosexualy" or "promote the teachg any mataed school of the acceptabily of homosexualy as a pretend fay relatnship". Gay upl ignore barriers when choosg honeymoon We haven't been able to take paymentYou mt update your payment tails via My Acunt or by clickg update payment tails to keep your now to keep your subscriptnWe've tried to ntact you several tim as we haven't been able to take payment. Accsibily LksSkip to ntentTuday July 25 2023 Same-sex upl are takg honeymoons untri whout marriage equaly bee they do not want “barriers” to affect how they celebrate their love, a survey has gay and lbian honeymooners are visg statns that do not have full equaly laws, acrdg to the holiday pany said was experiencg a trend of newly married LGBTQ upl bookg trips to lotns, cludg the Maldiv, Dubai, the Caribbean and east Ai, which do not approve of same-sex said many gay upl were explorg plac “nsired ls LGBTQ+ iendly” and often choose to stay villas, that n ensure privacy untri whout marriage four per cent of 1, 013 LGBTQ rponnts to a survey missned by Kuoni said theyRelated articl.

GAY UPL IGNORE BARRIERS WHEN CHOOSG HONEYMOON

However, his fay name giv him a higher profile Brish aristocratic circl; he is the great-nephew of Earl Mountbatten of Burma, the World War II naval manr who led Allied ary forc southeast a reflectn of social change, royal attus to homosexualy have progrsed sce 1960 when Jeremy Fry, Lord Snowdon’s choice of bt man for his weddg to Prcs Margaret, was vetoed after was disvered he had a nvictn for a “mor homosexual offense. ”Harry and Meghan, who wed on May 19, have ma clear their support of gay rights, reportedly tellg gay legat om across Bra’s former empire, the Commonwealth that they would put LGBT issu at the ont of their William last year received the annual Brish LGBT Awards’ Celebry Straight Ally award.

'Prayers for God's blsg'The bishops' cisn puts the Church of England at odds wh s Anglin equivalent Stland, The Sttish Epispal Church, and the Prbyterian Church of Stland, which both allow same-sex Anglin Church Wal has provid an thorised service of blsg for gay upl but do not allow same-sex weddgs church. Sign up for the daily Insi Washgton email for exclive US verage and analysis sent to your boxGet our ee Insi Washgton emailRepublin Senator Ldsey Graham fed the fears of Democrats and the left general on Sunday durg an terview on CNN which he argued for the end of feral protectns for gay marriage South Carola senator appeared on State of the Unn asi Sen Richard Blumenthal, a Democrat, for a rare bipartisan terview/bate. ”Ms Bash then asked him how many more issu he believ that should expand to, brgg up the se of Lovg vs Virgia, which tablished terracial marriage as a ferally-protected Republin senator rpond “no, no” when asked if he was suggtg that precent should be revised, and pivoted away quickly to blame Democrats for talkg about issu he said were not relevant to current problems facg left has been raisg the alarms about nservativ seekg to do jt that, warng that precents affirmg the nstutnaly of affirmative actn and protectg the rights to gay marriage and even terracial marriage uld be next as the Supreme Court mak a hard pivot to the right thanks to three Tmp-appoted nservative Mr Graham sisted that Democrats worryg about such thgs were “talkg about thgs that are not happeng bee you don’t want to talk about flatn” and other issu.

BRISH ROYAL FAY'S FIRST GAY WEDDG: LORD MOUNTBATTEN TO MARRY JAM COYLE

Democrats have phed for vot to dify abortn rights, gay marriage rights and ntraceptn rights Congrs followg the repeal of Roe vs Wa this year but as of yet have not been able to ph such legislatn through the 50-50 Senate where would require 60 vot to break the filibter. Provg that you are a genue relatnship if om a reprsive untry)Handle your Same-Sex visa or Same Sex fiancé visa applitn on your behalfCheck any documents required to support your applitn prr to submissnOvere the refal of a Gay Marriage visa (e.

The studi ced by actively homophobic anisatns like the Coaln for Marriage were fund by anti-gay anisatns, or have basic methodology flaws – for example, they would pare married straight upl wh un-wed gay upl, or they would take a person who may have had a sgle cur experience wh the same sex and fe them as exclively homosexual. Arguments based on “tradnal fay” will always be sultg, not jt to the healthy, well-adjted children of gay upl, but to the children raised by sgle parents, step-parents, grandparents, godparents, foster parents, and siblgs.

CHURCH OF ENGLAND BISHOPS REFE TO BACK GAY MARRIAGE

Concln In an attempt to portray his mpaign to “prerve tradnal marriage” as reasoned and unprejudiced, the former Archbishop of Canterbury Lord Carey has argued that supporters of gay marriage shouldn’t rort to name-llg and accatns of bigotry.

Given centuri of relig persecutn of gay people is entirely jtified to ll Lord Carey, the Coaln for Marriage, Christian Concern, and all other proactive opponents of gay marriage “bigots” and their arguments homophobic. Lbian uple drop NHS fertily legal challengeAttributnBerkshirePosted3 days ago'Same-sex marriage means a life full of sunshe'AttributnManchterPosted17 JulyIndia same-sex marriage se tts judgAttributnIndiaPosted28 AprilItaly leav children of same-sex parents limboAttributnEuropePosted18 MarchSew Gay quilt spired by LGBTQ+ momentsAttributnNewsPosted18 MarchSame-sex marriage ban not discrimatn - Japan PMAttributnAsiaPosted2 MarchChurch of England backs plans to bls gay uplAttributnUKPosted9 FebarySandi Toksvig: Church's gay marriage posn harmful. Adam* said was dangero to e out as gay his home untry and feared beg forced to an arranged marriage wh a woman.He said he was "so lucky" to wed his soulmate, Ray, Manchter and wish everyone uld marry who they love.

LDSEY GRAHAM ARGU GAY MARRIAGE RIGHTS SHOULD BE LEFT UP TO STAT

There are more than 60 untri wh laws that crimalise same-sex sexual acts acrdg to the Internatnal Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Trans and Intersex Associatn, cludg Sdi Arabia.'Authentilly myself'Ray said he had also stggled growg up gay the 1970s and 80s England, which was "tough".He said his relig school "dmmed to you, 'you are gog to hell'".When Adam returned home to Sdi Arabia, spe beg more than 3,000 apart and later rtricted by the Covid-19 panmic, they kept touch daily and the romance blossomed.Three years ago, Ray proposed on a vio ll and after succsfully applyg for a UK fiancé visa, Adam moved to Manchter December 2022. Adam said he had been aaid to even wear lours his home untry so the first thg he did when he moved was start to "grow my mullet, got my ears pierced and booked appotments for tattoos".He relled how, ntrast, one of his gay iends Sdi had been forced to marry a woman, addg: "It has ed not only his life but the life of his wife."Danny Beard on Same Sex Love and MarriageDanny explor same-sex weddgs, fdg out why upl chose to get married, the challeng unrpng this cisn and what mak the wedd relatnships work.The uple said they now wanted to help people who were not as ee and strive for "equaly for everyone"."Now I'm here a safe place I want to fight for others to be able to marry who they want," Adam said."I'm so lucky but I want everyone else Sdi to marry the one they love whout facg discrimatn and persecutn." Image source, Fay photographImage ptn, Peter McGrah and David Cabreza say they are "very proud" to have been the first same-sex uple married EnglandMore than 40,000 same-sex marriag took place between 2014 and 2020, acrdg to the Office for Natnal StatisticsPeter McGrah and David Cabreza, origally om Stland and the US, ma history when they beme the first same-sex uple to marry England on 29 March 2014.The trailblazers married jt after midnight at Islgton Town Hall. The uple, who live London, said a "really betiful memory" was on the way home when one of their sons shouted out of the black b wdow to Trafalgar Square, "My dads jt got married" and cheered "Yay, gay marriage"."It was so sweet seeg him so happy," Mr Cabreza said.

GETTG MARRIED THE UK GAY MARRIAGE LAWS UK

UK SAME-SEX PARTNER VISA (GAY MARRIAGE VISA)

31 ARGUMENTS AGAST GAY MARRIAGE (AND WHY THEY’RE ALL WRONG)

ENGLAND, WAL SET FOR GAY MARRIAG 2014

GAY MARRIAGE LEGALISED AT MIDNIGHT ENGLAND AND WAL

CALIFORNIA STILL HAS AN ANTI-GAY MARRIAGE LAW ON THE BOOKS. VOTERS ULD REMOVE NEXT YEAR

KEV SPACEY FELT ‘PRSURED TO E OUT AS GAY’ AFTER SEXUAL MISNDUCT ALLEGATNS