Is your boyiend gay? How n you tell? Here are 10 signs to look out for that he might be gay, and some advice on how to handle that.
Contents:
- 17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
- WAS THIS MAN SENTENCED TO DEATH BEE HE’S GAY?
- IS HE GAY?
- MY 11-YEAR-OLD WAS JT DUMPED BY HIS BT FRIEND BEE HE'S GAY
- IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
- HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
- JAGS' MAXEN IS FIRST MALE AMERIN PRO SPORTS ACH TO E OUT AS GAY
- IS MY BOYIEND GAY? 10 SIGNS TO HELP YOU TELL FOR SURE
- MY BOYIEND MSAGED SOMEONE ON A GAY SE. DO THAT MEAN HE’S GAY?
- IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
17 SIGNS YOUR BOYIEND IS SECRETLY GAY (& WHAT TO DO)
He says he’s bisexual, but I’m worried he’s actually gay. * because he's gay *
However, what I am ncerned about is that he is g me as a steppg stone to acknowledgg to himself that he is gay, or that he wants to be a heterosexual relatnship orr to reap the social benefs (havg kids, generally beg accepted society, etc. I’m worried bee (a) he’s never been wh a man before and beg wh me means he won't get that experience (assumg he don't cheat) and (b) he om an extremely relig fay the South who would likely not be able to accept his homosexualy (or even bisexualy). I'm worried that we will spend years together, possibly get married, have kids, and then he will e to grips that he is fact actually gay.
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
If you're readg this, there's a good chance you thk your boyiend might be gay. No doubt you're also feelg pretty nfed and wonrg how to al wh the suatn. It's a very sensive suatn to al wh, and you need to make sure you rpect his feelgs. But at the same time, you n't * because he's gay *
I have a very strong sneakg spicn that he’s bidg his time until his parents die or until he cis that he's gog to e out to them as I stay wh him and thk about a future, knowg full well that he uld tell me one day that he's actually gay and wants to be wh a man, or that he wants to transn, and leave me wh a bunch of baggage, such as gettg a divorce (sharg ctody of kids, fanc), and time/energy/effort lost? He watch gay pornIf your boyiend watch a lot of gay porn, there’s a good chance he’s sexually terted men. He might not be fully gay, but he’s obvly cur enough to check out on a regular basis.
After all, most heterosexual guys have no tert watchg any porn unls there’s a woman your boyiend is tryg to hi his sexualy om you, ’s doubtful that he’ll openly watch gay porn while you’re around. The only way you’ll know is to look at his search history, which is a pretty big vasn of his do he react if you offer to watch gay porn wh him?
YOUR CHILD JT TOLD YOU HE'S GAY. NOW WHAT?
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * because he's gay *
He’s been wh men beforeIf he’s been relatnships or hooked up wh men the past, ’s a pretty big ditor that he’s gay or bisexual. ”If you hear this kd of ment a lot, he might be attemptg to normalize his homosexual thoughts by makg them seem like nothg more than a joke.
He’s homophobicIt sounds untertuive, but some gay or bisexual men will exprs homophobic sentiments. It’s a way of flectg spicn off of themselv and makg seem like they uld never be terted other to the way your boyiend talks about homosexualy.
WAS THIS MAN SENTENCED TO DEATH BEE HE’S GAY?
Is my hband gay? is an unthkable qutn to many wiv, and some hbands do turn out to be gay. Learn the signs of a gay hband. * because he's gay *
Do he make jok about beg gay that cross the le om good-natured teasg to offensive terrory? If so, might be bee he’s secretly stgglg wh his own urse, there are plenty of heterosexual guys who e homophobic language as well.
He’s not terted sleepg wh youThere are lots of reasons why your boyiend might not want to have sex that don’t volve him beg secretly gay. His fantasi volve menA of heterosexual men have sexual fantasi volvg other men, and don’t mean they are gay.
He has a lot of gay iendsPeople tend to associate wh others who share siar terts and valu. So if your boyiend has a lot of gay iends, uld be bee he’s subnscly tryg to surround himself wh people like urse, plenty of straight guys have gay iends as well.
IS HE GAY?
Fdg out your partner is gay n turn your world upsi down and make you qutn everythg about your relatnship." emprop="scriptn * because he's gay *
But if seems like the majory of his social circle is gay, uld be a sign that he’s stgglg wh his own sexualy. He has a gay datg app on his phoneEven if he hasn’t actually ed the app to hook up wh guys, he’s obvly cur and may be thkg about dog so the future.
MY 11-YEAR-OLD WAS JT DUMPED BY HIS BT FRIEND BEE HE'S GAY
Jaguars assistant Kev Maxen has bee the first male ach major Amerin men's pro sports to publicly e out as gay, tellg he ma the cisn bee he didn't want to hi who he is any longer. * because he's gay *
Keep md that havg a datg app on his phone don’t mean he’s cheatg on you, but you serve to know if he’s actively lookg for other signs your boyiend is gayIt’s jt as important to unrstand all the signals that uld mistakenly lead you to believe your boyiend is gay.
He r about his appearance & groomgThe stereotype of the neat, well-drsed gay man is ridiculo at this pot.
IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
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So don’t assume that your boyiend is gay jt bee he lik to drs well or take re of his appearance. He sounds gayYou might have heard that gay men often speak wh a lisp, but this stereotype is pletely unte. Don’t assume that your boyiend is gay jt bee he has what you nsir to be feme mannerisms.
If your boyiend cri durg sad movi or gets upset about issu that are important to him, don’t mean he’s gay. He uld jt be touch wh his to do if you thk your boyiend is gayOkay, so you’ve noticed some of the signs that your boyiend might be gay. It’s possible he’s been wantg to have this nversatn wh you but hasn’t had the urage to brg though you may have seen many of the behavrs on this list, don’t throw them his face as a list of ‘evince’ that he’s secretly gay.
Don’t prsure himWhether your boyiend is gay, straight, or somethg between, he’ll need time to procs his feelgs.
HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
If your boyiend adms he’s gay, will be a difficult time for both of you and there’s no gettg past the fact that your relatnship is over.
JAGS' MAXEN IS FIRST MALE AMERIN PRO SPORTS ACH TO E OUT AS GAY
Don’t try to change himThe worst thg you n do is try to change him or ‘cure’ him of his homosexualy. There’s nothg you uld have done to change his sexualy, and ’s not your flt that he’s gay.
IS MY BOYIEND GAY? 10 SIGNS TO HELP YOU TELL FOR SURE
Some people even fall to the trap of thkg they were such a bad partner they somehow ‘turned’ their partner gay.
MY BOYIEND MSAGED SOMEONE ON A GAY SE. DO THAT MEAN HE’S GAY?
Move on wh your lifeBreakups are always tough, but fdg out your boyiend is gay is a particularly difficult suatn.
Ask for help if you need Fdg out your boyiend is gay n be credibly difficult and nfg. It’s really no different om a heterosexual guy havg a preference for blons over big mistake you need to avoid is thkg that he’s still nfed or explorg his sexualy and will eventually e out as beg gay.
IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?
You may want to know if your iend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're stayg closeted. For example, his fay may be vlently homophobic and by cidg that he's gay, you may out him by accint by treatg him different or implyg somethg whout meang to. If you're tryg to figure out if your iend is gay bee you want to date him (as a woman), 's important to remember that jt bee he might be terted men don't mean he's not terted women.
Another important thg to remember is that 's not very important whether or not he's gay.
One of the theori about why some people are gay has to do wh the hormon that they're exposed to before they're born.