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Heterosexual and gay men n heal and grow as a rult of their iendships.

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WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT MYSELF AFTER YEARS OF FALLG FOR GAY MEN

My persistence fallg love wh gay I don’t mean havg a csh on Neil Patrick Harris or dreamg about removg Anrson Cooper’s black-amed glass to share a th-lipped kiss.

" Luckily, I never learned to drive, as Matt’s current profile pic on Facebook featur him wrapped a rabow, my early 20s, I uldn’t rist the plump lips and bedroom ey of my Greek gay btie, Peter.

GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS

I knew he was gay, but so was I, and I liked him, so I gus the whole gay thg was pretty flexible, right?

“He’s gay, ” they’d say a you-know-that-right? We never spoke gay men? All all, I’m glad my persistence fallg for gay men has e to a close.

‘I FELL LOVE WH A GAY MAN AND NEARLY BROKE ME’

So you're the same crappy boat as all people (gay, straight, or bi) who love someone that don't love them back.

I always thought that was my flt that I was gay and that I was gog to my iendship wh her nstantly.

Durg that time I jt felt like everythg was wrong wh me, if only I was a boy or if only she was gay or if only I didn't love her etc.. Go to askgaybros. So my cursy got the bt of me and I started lookg up gay porn.

FALLG FOR MY GAY IEND

So I'm totally a closet bi/gay. TL;DR - I thought I was straight, got cur, started chattg wh a guy 3 hours away, met up, did everythg together, talked everyday sce we met, velopg feelgs for each other, need to take slow, not sure how but termed to figure out, never been happier, both closet bi/gay. Around September time, I realised that maybe I might be cshg on him but back then I didn't know that he was gay.

I've never been love so I don't know how to regnise but am I fallg love wh my gay bt iend? Fallg for gay bt iend? He acted like he liked me too, but then July last year he told me he was gay.

My feelgs for him have started to e back but I thk he's still gay. He is/was fely gay, the way he acted after he told me nnot be terpreted as lyg, was super emotnal.

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