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GAY YOUTH COMG OUT IN MIDDLE SCHOOL

For most kids, the social prsur of middle school are tough enough. But an creasg number of young teenagers, some as young 10 or 11, are g out as gay or lbian middle school. Beno Denizet-Lewis, who wrote about the trend the New York Tim Magaze, discs what social factors uld be leadg young people to e out earlier. * gay middle schools *

When realy, if you talk to a gay man, you know, many of them lookg back will say, you know, I noticed my same sex attractn, you know, at 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12, 13 that ballpark. I mean, one of the tertg thgs that we have to look at is this, is that much of the anti-gay bullyg and anti-gay harassment that's gog on middle schools and high school is more about genr non-nformy than really is about beg gay or lbian. Is that beg gay or lbian is still enough of a pariah inty that parents want to take off the table as long as they n, or is jt that parents really feel that all kids are sexualized too early the days, and they don't want their kids at this age thkg about, you know, hookg up?

So was really - and a lot of parents, when they heard their kid, their 12-, 13-, 14-year-old say, you know, I'm gay, or I'm bisexual, or I'm lbian, they tomatilly went to oh my god, that means he's havg sex, when realy wasn't about that at all. DENIZET-LEWIS: I thk that there's no doubt that sort of as you have more posive portrayals and, I would say, accurate portrayals of gay and lbian life the media, and kids n go onle and fd all kds of rourc, that there's no doubt that that's gog to have an effect on kids, and that they're gog to possibly e out earlier bee of that. Now, I don't thk that those posive portrayals of gay life is gog to sort of make a kid who's not attracted to the same sex sudnly say, you know, hey, this seems really ol.

What I thk that the more posive portrayals popular culture has done is 's ma a ltle b safer for kids who do feel that they're gay or lbian to be able to e to their parents or school unselor and talk about the issu, which I thk is a real step forward bee for many years, kids who had same-sex attractn or were nfed, they uldn't talk to anyone about .

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So, you know, nsequently I sort of went nial mo, which is what a lot of gay kids have done for many years, and then my early 20s and mid-20s and late 20s, as many gay men do who don't e out until late, we sort of try to relive our gay adolcence that we weren't allowed to live. And so what's remarkable, now, is I thk we're gog to see, as more and more kids e out younger and are sort of able to have a normal adolcence the sense that, you know, I talked to kids who were havg arguments wh their parents about gog on dat when they're 15 or 16 or 17 or gog to the prom or sort of, you know, havg their normal adolcence, I thk 's gog to create an entirely different kd of gay and lbian adult the next 10, 20, 30 years.

AM I GAY? QUIZ - FOR MIDDLE-SCHOOL KIDS ?‍❤️‍?‍?

Gov. Gav Newsom is takg on nservative Temecula Valley Unified school officials over textbooks that discs sla gay activist Harvey Milk. * gay middle schools *

" It stat that "the teachg of history the Uned Stat shall clu a study of the rol and ntributns of lbian, gay, bisexual, and transgenr people the history of this untry.

Dpe this new wave of efforts to tegrate LGBT ntent to the classroom, six stat – Alabama, Louisiana, Mississippi, Oklahoma, South Carola and Texas – still have laws prohibg the "promotn of homosexualy.

Alabama law, for example, stat that when discsg sexual health tn, "class mt emphasize, a factual manner and om a health perspective, that homosexualy is not a liftyle acceptable to the general public and that homosexual nduct is a crimal offense unr the laws of the state.

WISNS MIDDLE SCHOOL FEATUR 'THIS BOOK IS GAY' LIBRARY, STIRRG ONLE OUTRAGE

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Gav Newsom and sla gay rights lear Harvey the ne-hour Temecula Valley Unified meetg, which ran past midnight, some parents spoke support of the nservative majory on the school board and s buckg of state standards for clive and diverse pated Newsom — who plans to send textbooks that reference Milk to Temecula stunts fiance of the board — as a “tyrant” who “forc his le” upon a district he knows nothg about.

SUPPORTG A GAY-STRAIGHT ALLIANCE MIDDLE SCHOOL

”The bate arose after the board rejected proposed stctnal material that mentned Milk, a member of the San Francis Board of Supervisors and the first out gay man elected to public office California, who was assassated 1978. ” Conservative school board Print Joseph Komrosky, who lled Milk a “pedophile” and has been publicly fdg wh Newsom over the issue, asked sheriff puti on Tuday to remove a teacher om the meetg after she lled nservative board member Danny Gonzalez a “homophobe. ” Whout evince, Gonzalez said that proposed stctn would promote pedophilia and said he opposed teachg about the gay liberatn movement that began the 1960s bee ’s “not appropriate to discs sexualy.

THE BT GAY-FRIENDLY SCHOOLS

Too many tim, episos of bullyg are based around stunts’ perceived sexualy or inti, and as rearch prov, our young people are way schools n bat the attacks is to host a Gay-Straight Alliance (GSA). A 2014 study found that “LGBTQ stunts are at higher risk for suici, part bee they are more often targeted for bullyg and discrimatn, but heterosexual stunts n also be the target of homophobic bullyg. Create an articulated program where stunts om the high school program n help those the younger you’re terted learng more about tablishg a GSA your school, check out the Jump Start Gui provid by Gay, Lbian, and Straight Edutn Network.

E.J. GAY MIDDLE SCHOOL (CLOSED 2009)

But Mae’s Department of Edutn reports that between 13 percent and 18 percent of public high-school stunts say they’re “lbian, gay, bisexual or unsure” of their sexual inty. “For me, when a teacher put up that sticker, basilly nveyed the msage that ‘when you e here, you will not be hated for who you love or what you intify as, ’” said Frsto, who is gay. “As a gay man wh no children and no real sire to have children, I feel like I should never know the nam of the people on the school board, let alone have to stand up agast them, ” said Zachary Goff of Newberg, who lnched the petn, which has gotten over 1, 000 signatur.

And the rult is a list of schools wh great amic standards and a mp atmosphere that is iendly to lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr Our RankgsContributg edor Peter Bernste and rearcher Courtney Kennedy drew on dozens of sourc to pile the rankgs cludg rmatn om the Natnal Center for Edutn Statistics, The Washgton Monthly, and College Prowler. The Universy of Pennsylvania, a private Ivy League llege Philalphia is on seven of Newsweek's "bt of" lists, rankg 13th on our list of most sirable lleg; eighth on the list of most sirable urban lleg; send for most sirable large mp; sixth schools bt for future power brokers; first for gay-iendls and diversy; and fally, 18th among the 25 bt lleg for the super-smart. "Berkeley is home to a proud LGBTIQQ (Lbian, Gay, Bisexual, Transgenr, Intersex, Queer and Qutng) muny, which has a large prence on mp and mak the environment feel more tolerant, " wr one stunt on public school has an unrgraduate enrollment of jt over 25, 500, 53 percent of who were women the fall of 2009.

"You n fd any kd of background here, whether you are speakg about ethnicy or relign, " wr one stunt on "Addnally, the mp is fely more liberal and is very acceptg to gays and lbians. Thanks to the school's reputatn for gay-iendls upled wh s amic crentials, the school plac nth on Newsweek's list of schools where gays get As, jt one more acla the school has racked up sce s foundg the 40, 000-pl stunts who attend Indiana Universy, more than 31, 000 are unrgrads. 15 on the list of schools for 50/50 genr breakdown, gay-iendly atmosphere, and racially, geographilly and socenomilly mixed stunt body mak Pomona the 20th most diverse school and the thirteenth among the bt gay-iendly schools on Newsweek's lists.

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Brown is also the fourteenth bt gay-iendly, gettg through the doors of this cal of tellect and broad-mdns is an elive qut; only around 14 percent of those who apply are accepted.

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UTC</time></div><div class="article-le-byle" data-activy-map="le-byle-article-top">By <span class="byle-name"><a href=">Matt Laviet</a></span></div></sectn><div class="article-body__ntent article-body-font--loadg"><p class="">Pri flags, which were created to promote uny, are beg lled polil and divisive some schools across the untry. A recent example: An Oregon school board on Tuday banned tors om displayg the flags. </p><p class="">“We don’t pay our teachers to ph their polil views on our stunts. That’s not their place,” a school board member Newberg, Brian Shannon, the policy’s thor, said at a rerd board meetg. </p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><div id="taboolaReadMoreBelow"></div><p class="">Several other school officials and stunts around the untry have targeted LGBTQ symbols. A teacher rigned Missouri last month after he was told to <a href=">remove</a> a rabow flag om his classroom and that he uldn’t discs “sexual preference” at school. Stunts at a high school near Jacksonville, Florida, were acced several weeks ago of harassg classmat a Gay Straight Alliance club and stompg on pri flags. And Augt, pri symbols were targeted at a high school near Dallas, where rabow stickers were orred to be scraped off classroom doors. </p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_medium__OMa6x"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img loadg="lazy" src=" alt="Rally Oppos Prohibg Black LIv Matter and Pri Flags Newberg Schools" height="1667" width="2500"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer" data-ttid="ptn__ntaer">Stunts, teachers and parents rallied Thursday Newberg, Ore., to oppose an imment vote by the school board that would prohib Black Liv Matter and pri flags or banners schools. </span><span class="ptn__source">John Rudoff / Sipa USA via AP</span></figptn></figure><p class="">In most s, admistrators have said the LGBTQ emblems are divisive and “<a href=">polil</a>.” LGBTQ stunts, parents and teachers affected by the bans ntend that the new l harm a vulnerable group of young people.</p><p class="">“Feelg safe should not be polil,” said Victor Frsto, 16, a stunt at MacArthur High School Irvg, Texas, jt outsi Dallas. </p><p class="">“For me, when a teacher put up that sticker, basilly nveyed the msage that ‘when you e here, you will not be hated for who you love or what you intify as,’” said Frsto, who is gay. </p><sectn class="le-vio le-vio---body"><div class="le-vio__background"><div class="le-vio__player"><div class="vioPlayer styl_vioPlayer__bL8AJ styl_adNotPlayg__Q51_C styl_alignDktopBottom__4cHaO styl_alignMobileBottom__bhgkQ" data-ttid="vio-player"><div class="vioSlate"><a href=" class="allowClicksOnPreview"><picture class=""><source media="(m-width: 1240px)" srcSet="><source media="(m-width: 758px)" srcSet="><img loadg="lazy" src="></picture></a><div class="playButtonOuter absolute absolute-fill w100 dn-prt"><div class="absolute absolute-fill w100 df ems-center ems-center-m jtify-center jtify-center-m"><div class="play le-vio__play-button"><svg class="play--in" xmlns=" viewBox="0 0 15 15" prerveAspectRat="xMidYMid" style="max-width:30px"><path d="M0 0v15l15-7.41z" fill-le="evenodd"></path></svg></div></div></div></div><div id="122526277822"></div></div></div></div><div class="le-vio__"><h2 class="le-vio__tle"><a href=">Oregon school district bans 'ntroversial' flag displays</a></h2><span class="le-vio__tail"><span>Oct. 1, 2021</span><span>02:01</span></span><div class="styl_share__n3Syu le-vio__share dn-prt"><div class="styl_shareExpanr__hVk8d le-vio__share-expanr styl_hoverEffect___Dj4s"><span class="styl_shareDot__9pfRZ le-vio__share-dot"></span><svg class="styl_shareClose__6BZxR le-vio__share-close" viewBox="0 0 15 15"><le class="styl_shareLe__EJUjO" x1="0" x2="15" y1="0" y2="15"></le><le class="styl_shareLe__EJUjO" x1="0" x2="15" y1="15" y2="0"></le></svg></div><div class="styl_shareList___M8wC le-vio__share-list"><a href=" class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-facebook styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a><a href=" class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-twter styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a><a href="mailto:?subject=Oregon school district bans 'ntroversial' flag displays& class="styl_shareLk__gSGN3" target="_blank" rel="noopen noreferrer"><span class="in in-email styl_shareIn__lVnRm le-vio__share-in"></span></a></div></div></div></sectn><p class="">The cisn to ban the rabow pri stickers sent a very different msage, Frsto said.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><p class=""> “By seeg how those stickers were removed, you get the msage that ‘I do not f here, I should not be here,’” he said.</p><p class="">Frsto, who is the print of his school’s Gay Straight Alliance, or GSA, said the rabow stickers were removed overnight whout warng. </p><p class="">He and other GSA members took to the attentn of their GSA sponsors, a group of teachers who had already received an email om the school district about the matter.</p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_medium__OMa6x"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img loadg="lazy" src=" alt="Rally Oppos Prohibg Black LIv Matter and Pri Flags Newberg Schools" height="1667" width="2500"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer" data-ttid="ptn__ntaer">Stunts, teachers and parents rallied Thursday Newberg, Ore., to oppose an imment vote by the school board that would Black Liv Matter and Pri flags or banners schools.</span><span class="ptn__source">John Rudoff / Sipa USA via AP</span></figptn></figure><p class="">“While we appreciate the sentiment of reachg out to stunts who may not prevly always had such support, we want to set a different tone this year,” read the email, which a teacher shared wh NBC News.</p><p class="">The tors reassured the group that they would ph for an explanatn and fight to get the stickers back on classroom doors, Frsto said. But wh the next several days, two teachers were rted off mp, he said.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><p class="">A spokperson for the Irvg School District cled to intify the teachers and, when asked about their alleged removals, told NBC News that the district “do not ment on employee-related matters.” </p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_small__5hUB_ styl_portra__NRWbO"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1240px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source media="(m-width: 758px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img loadg="lazy" src=" alt=" A stunt walkout at MacArthur High School Irvg, Texas." height="862" width="591"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer" data-ttid="ptn__ntaer"> A stunt walkout at MacArthur High School Irvg, Texas.</span><span class="ptn__source">Courty Victor Frsto</span></figptn></figure><p class="">In rponse to the sticker removal, hundreds of stunts staged a class walkout last week. In a <a href=">vio</a> posted Wednday by the muny-based journalism platform Smash Da Topic, stunts n be heard shoutg, “Brg our stickers back!”</p><p class="">After the prott, the district fend the move a <a href=">statement</a> as a way “to ensure that all stunts feel safe regardls of background or inty” by matag polil impartialy. </p><p class="">Newberg admistrators also ced polil ntraly fendg their policy. After havg e unr fierce cricism for prohibg pri and Black Liv Matter flags specifilly, school board members broaned a ban last month to block tors om displayg all symbols that the board emed “polil, quasi-polil or ntroversial.” </p><p class="">“Their place is to teach the approved curriculum, and that’s all this policy do, is ensure that’s happeng our schools,” Shannon, one of the seven school board members who spearhead the policy, said at a livtreamed <a href=">board meetg</a> Tuday night. </p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_medium__OMa6x"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img loadg="lazy" src=" alt="Rally Oppos Prohibg Black LIv Matter and Pri Flags Newberg Schools" height="1667" width="2500"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer" data-ttid="ptn__ntaer">Stunts, teachers and parents rallied Thursday Newberg, Ore., to oppose an imment vote by the school board that would prohib Black Liv Matter and Pri flags or banners schools.</span><span class="ptn__source">John Rudoff / Sipa USA via AP</span></figptn></figure><p class="">The Newberg Cy Council and the Newberg Edutn Associatn, a unn reprentg 280 tors and staff members the district, have nounced the policy, and the Oregon State Board of Edutn has asked for to be revoked. Communy members have also petned to rell Shannon.</p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><div class="remend-tersectn-ref" data-activy-map="remend-article-body-remend" data-ttid="remend-wrapper"></div><p class="">“As a gay man wh no children and no real sire to have children, I feel like I should never know the nam of the people on the school board, let alone have to stand up agast them,” said Zachary Goff of Newberg, who lnched the petn, which has gotten over 1,000 signatur.</p><div class="remend-tersectn-ref" data-activy-map="remend-article-body-remend" data-ttid="remend-wrapper"></div><p class="">“I thk I speak for a lot of people my muny, but we n’t s here and let this happen,” Goff add. “They picked a really bad town to be the guea pig.”</p><p class="">Chelsea Shotts, 29, who is bisexual and works at an elementary school as a behavral terventnist the school district, said her mental health has terrated sce the district troduced the policy over the summer.</p><p class="">“If I only red about myself, I would jt qu — like, easily qu and leave,” Shotts said. “But the thg is I’m Newberg and I’m Dune bee I love the stunts, and they serve everythg.</p><p class="">“I would rather be able to stay here and keep dog the work stead of beg attacked by a culture war that four board members started,” Shotts add. </p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_medium__OMa6x"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img loadg="lazy" src=" alt="Chelsea Shotts, a Newberg School District behavral terventnist, fac off wh a unterprotter at a monstratn over pri and Black Liv Matter flags last week Newberg, Ore." height="837" width="1280"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer" data-ttid="ptn__ntaer">Chelsea Shotts, a Newberg School District behavral terventnist, fac off wh a unterprotter at a monstratn over pri and Black Liv Matter flags last week Newberg, Ore.</span><span class="ptn__source">Courty Chelsea Shotts</span></figptn></figure><p class="">School admistrators aren’t the only people who have gone after pri flags and LGBTQ symbols this school year. </p><div class="ad ad--text-alignment ad-ntaer boxleAd dn-prt" data-ttid="ad__ntaer"><div data-mps="te" data-slot="boxle" data-siz="[[[1000,1],[]],[[758,1],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[728,90],[360,360]]],[[0,0],[[300,250],[700,50],[5,5],[360,360]]]]" data-renr-on-view="te" data-targetg="{}" data-active-tab="te" data-offset-viewport="100" data-ttid="ad__ntaer__ner"></div></div><p class="">Police Blacksburg, Virgia, are vtigatg several thefts of pri flags outsi a Virgia Tech relig center. In one se, the LGBTQ symbols were <a href=">replaced</a> wh two Conferate flags. And Geia, a high schooler was charged last month wh <a href=">attackg</a> another stunt draped a pri flag a school feteria.</p><p class="">Advot have long been warng tors about the disproportnate rat of bullyg, harassment and mental health issu plagug LGBTQ youths.</p><p class="">A <a href=">survey</a> this year by The Trevor Project, an LGBTQ youth suici preventn and crisis terventn anizatn, found that 42 percent of the nearly 35,000 LGBTQ youths who were surveyed serly nsired suici wh the last year. More than half of transgenr and nonbary youths who were surveyed serly nsired suici, also found.</p><p class="">A separate <a href=">survey</a> nducted by The Trevor Project last year found that LGBTQ youths who reported havg at least one LGBTQ-affirmg space also reported lower rat of attemptg suici.</p><figure class="styl_leImage__yAWZ0 styl_medium__OMa6x"><picture class="styl_image__1qciH"><source media="(m-width: 1000px)" srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><source srcSet=" 2x, 1x"/><img loadg="lazy" src=" alt="Image: Cai and Cael Woolsy" height="2123" width="2500"/></picture><figptn class="ptn styl_ptn__Pe5JC"><span class="ptn__ntaer" data-ttid="ptn__ntaer">Beth Woolsy's children, Cai and Cael Woolsy, both 14, on their first day of school Newberg, Ore.</span><span class="ptn__source">Courty Beth Woolsy</span></figptn></figure><p class="">Beth Woolsy, who is bisexual and has two LGBTQ children who attend school Newberg, said the harrowg numbers weigh on her as she sends her kids back to school every 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