Rev Richard Col: 'I'm the go-to gay' | Pop and rock | The Guardian

Contents:

• REV RICHARD COL: 'I'M THE GO-TO GAY'
• I AM A GAY VIR AND THE CHURCH OF ENGLAND IS AN EMBARRASSG MS
• WHY THE ONLY OPENLY GAY HEAVY METAL SUPERSTAR, JUDAS PRIT'S ROB HALFORD, HID HIS SEXUALY
• DIVORCED GAY VIR, 55, QUS HER PARISH DISGRACE FOR GOOD AMID CLAIMS SHE HAD DNKEN ROWS WH A STRG OF GIRLIENDS
• LGBTQ+ BANDS: OUR TOP 10 FAVORE GAY BANDS
• GAY VIR DI AGED 81, LEAVG FORTUNE TO 27-YEAR-OLD HBAND
• GAY VIRS
• DIVORCED GAY VIR QUS HER PARISH AMID CLAIMS SHE HAD DNKEN ROWS WH A STRG OF GIRLIENDS
• WHY THE ONLY OPENLY GAY HEAVY METAL SUPERSTAR, JUDAS PRIT'S ROB HALFORD, HID HIS SEXUALY
• “IN THOSE DAYS, YOU DIDN’T TALK ABOUT THOSE KD OF THGS”. ROB HALFORD'S REACTN TO BEG METAL’S FIRST GAY IN
• THE REBEL PRIT: ‘GAY PEOPLE THE CHURCH ARE NOT GOG TO GO AWAY’

REV RICHARD COL: 'I'M THE GO-TO GAY'

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"The Church should repent of s hostily to homosexual people and beg fivens for s treatment of the gay muny. " Such bigotry seems so ntrary to Christ's teachgs, Col says, that "you nnot be a Christian homophobe" is clear, too, on Christian rponsibily to bat HIV/Aids. Taken quickly, often agony, sometim bld, mothers' screams om bedsis, many only jt learng their sons were gay let alone hours om ath.

And all unthkably worst was the first, Mark Ashton, a "very close iend", briefly a lover, and currently beg portrayed as the lead character Pri, the film about Lbians and Gays Support the Mers. When we discs other 1980s gay pop stars and I mentn Boy Gee chag up and beatg a young man, Col repli: "We've all done terrible thgs. "Growg up realisg you were gay 1970s Bra was like beg a paedophile now – was a life that seemed to offer only disgrace and that was very woundg for me.

I AM A GAY VIR AND THE CHURCH OF ENGLAND IS AN EMBARRASSG MS

"It was his late teens that he took an overdose, chiefly the rult of beg unable to nsir any future beg gay, and was sent to a psychiatric hospal. "Somebody wked at me the street the other day – a great big gay wk, which was lightful, but what am I gog to do about ?

Twenty-five years ago this month, No 1 the UK sgl chart was Don't Leave Me This Way, an energetic renrg of the Harold Melv and the Blue Not soul classic by gay 80s synthpop duo the Communards.

Warm, whimsil and blsed wh a voice that pretty much f "mellifluo", he now prents Rad 4's popular Saturday morng show Saturday Live and is prentg a new four-part Rad 3 seri lled Out the World: a Global Gay was, he nces, "the go-to gay". But 'homosexualy' was basilly vented the 19th century.

WHY THE ONLY OPENLY GAY HEAVY METAL SUPERSTAR, JUDAS PRIT'S ROB HALFORD, HID HIS SEXUALY

The ia of 'beg gay' is a morn one. I mean, if you're gay Malawi, that's a very bald story.

If you grew up gay-lib London and are now livg, middle-aged, middle-class, post-civil partnerships, Bra...

DIVORCED GAY VIR, 55, QUS HER PARISH DISGRACE FOR GOOD AMID CLAIMS SHE HAD DNKEN ROWS WH A STRG OF GIRLIENDS

"For his part, Col has known he was gay sce, he reckons, he was "about eight. He bought a saxophone and did ge got to know Jimmy Somerville on a Channel 4 documentary about gay teens, and wound up playg claret on A't Necsarily So wh the dimutive Glaswegian volist's then band, Bronski Beat. He sent me a book of lbian and gay prayers afterwards.

"It's not a perfect match, obvly; the majory of gay people don't nform to this stereotype, " he says. He's unhappy wh the CofE's fudge on homosexualy – OK for parishners, permissible for prits, providg they stay celibate. The church has had difficulty wh homosexualy for centuri; 's absurd to thk that n change overnight.

Father Krysztof Olaf Charamsa (L), who works for a Vatin office, hugs his partner Edouard durg a prs nference to reveal his homosexualy Rome, Italy, October 3, 2015. This week the Church of England found self a very publicly difficult suatn about sexualy— the end of Augt, Bishop Nicholas Chamberla, the Bishop of Grantham, me out as the first openly gay bishop wh a partner.

LGBTQ+ BANDS: OUR TOP 10 FAVORE GAY BANDS

We now know that the Archbishop of Canterbury knew about this and ed had them both round for dner; the Bishop of Lln knew, and ed the prs office at Church Hoe knew—'s jt that they uldn't bear to thk that anyone else would weekend has also seen the publishg of an open letter om 14 of the married gay and lbian clergy of the Church of England, and other some married lay people, to our bishops.

I had been wh my hband for 15 years before we uld marry, and beg married has ma a real difference—somehow the whole relatnship feels more solidly ground and we rejoice that official posn is that lay people n pretty much do as they please, though the Church ensured that is impossible for gay upl to legally marry a Church of England parish and lol clergy are banned om offerg servic of blsg, such as those given to Prce Charl and Cala after their civil marriage, even if the uple haven't been volved a notor are allowed to enter civil partnerships, aga whout a church service afterwards, and have to promise not to have sex wh each other. Bishop Nic is not a civil partnership but has said that he is celibate and this he is entirely pliant wh the current Church has been an attempt at a blanket stop on marriage for gay and lbian clergy, and those who do are officially discipled, and a ban placed on them ever gettg a new post the Church. The Church will not nsir for ordatn anyone who is married to someone of the same sex, no matter how good a prit they might quietly, clergy are gettg married or nvertg their civil partnerships to marriage; gay ordands sexual relatnships are gettg the nod through while appearg to ply wh the selectn procr; and clergy are havg sex their civil partnerships.

GAY VIR DI AGED 81, LEAVG FORTUNE TO 27-YEAR-OLD HBAND

Prits are offerg servic of blsg and thanksgivg to gay and lbian upl and parish celebratg wh them.

GAY VIRS

Judas Prit ontman Rob Halford has always lived a loud and proud heavy metal life, but only 1998 durg an MTV terview did he bee the first metal in to announce he is gay. “I thk that every gay person has a bigger story to tell than jt, 'Hello, I'm out, 's me, '” Halford, who turned 69 last month, told me a phone terview ahead of the book’s publitn on Tuday.

He wanted to sce Iron Main sger Pl Di’Anno, and he sported bandanas onstage that were a lor-d ve to gay amid the lorful stori are darker moments, both terms of dtry algs and pecially keepg himself closeted for so long.

Halford was born 1951, and homosexualy was illegal the U. While a few mastream metal ontwomen like Otep and Lzzy Hale have been open recent years about beg gay or bisexual, Halford remas the only major gay male metal fans are often attracted to the aggrsive and theraptic nature of the genre — ’s a great way to let out pent-up tratn and feel empowered — and many skew more to the right than some of their ins. “Bee you are young people, and I’m sure a lot of you are gay and progrsive and ol.

DIVORCED GAY VIR QUS HER PARISH AMID CLAIMS SHE HAD DNKEN ROWS WH A STRG OF GIRLIENDS

Pri is a time to regnize the achievements of LGBTQ micians and gay bands as well as the stggl they face whilst exprsg themselv to the world. Top 10 Bt LGBTQ+ Bands & Inic Gay Bands. Reclaimg the rogatory term ‘limp wrist’, they beme an inic gay rock band wh equally inic LGBTQ micians.

Takg a polil stance, their songs often ver issu ncerng the gay muny like their song ‘Want Us Dead’, referrg to the treatment of gay people society. LGBTQ+ Bands & Inic Gay Bands – Agast Me! Wh lead sger Rob Halford publicly g out as gay 1998, Judas Prit beme a bean for queer rock lovers.

WHY THE ONLY OPENLY GAY HEAVY METAL SUPERSTAR, JUDAS PRIT'S ROB HALFORD, HID HIS SEXUALY

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Gay clubs and Vogue of urse! Rob Halford, closeted at the time, was spired by the leather and chas of kk clothg and unrground fashn that he found gay clubs and Brish Vogue.

“IN THOSE DAYS, YOU DIDN’T TALK ABOUT THOSE KD OF THGS”. ROB HALFORD'S REACTN TO BEG METAL’S FIRST GAY IN

LGBTQ+ Bands & Inic Gay Bands – Nervo Genr. A lser-known fluential gay band, Nervo Genr is an Amerin electronic punk rock band. Takg their name om triba, a homosexual sexual practice, you don’t get queerer than this!

THE REBEL PRIT: ‘GAY PEOPLE THE CHURCH ARE NOT GOG TO GO AWAY’

LGBTQ+ Bands & Inic Gay Bands – B-52s.