Dear Pnce: I’m a straight woman who married a gay man.

Contents:

• HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN
• IS YOUR HBAND GAY? 6 SIGNS THAT COULD BE A CSE FOR CONCERN
• ‘HONEY, I’VE GOT A SECRET’ : WHEN GAY MEN E OUT TO THEIR WIV
• I MARRIED A GAY MAN

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY

Then you disver that your spoe or partner is, fact, gay. How to Regnize Your Spoe Is Gay. Unls your spoe shar their sexual orientatn wh you, there is no way to know for sure if they are gay.

You notice pop-ups of gay pornography or gay datg s on their vic.

You notice a new group of iends on their social media, many of whom are openly gay. You notice them talkg more about gay people nversatn, eher a posive light or rogatory manner. Among the upl, when the gay, lbian, or bisexual partner out, a third of the upl break up immediately; another third stay together for one to two years and then spl; the remag third try to make their marriag work.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

There's no qutn that learng your partner is gay when you believed them to be straight n be extremely difficult.

I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN

Some straight/gay marriag are happy unns.

IS YOUR HBAND GAY? 6 SIGNS THAT COULD BE A CSE FOR CONCERN

Blame yourself for "turng" your partner gay. No one n turn someone else gay. The experience of disverg your partner is gay n be overwhelmg.

‘HONEY, I’VE GOT A SECRET’ : WHEN GAY MEN E OUT TO THEIR WIV

People do not choose who they are attracted to, so make sure to not direct homophobic backlash towards your partner. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay?

I MARRIED A GAY MAN

" Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men.