Ryan O'Connell on Netflix's Special and awkward gay sex |

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Beth Dubber/NetflixThis is a preview of our pop culture newsletter The Daily Beast’s Obssed, wrten by senr entertament reporter Kev Fallon. To receive the full newsletter your box each week, sign up for here.Special is one of those TV seri that is “important,” which sounds so sufferable and pretent—pecially bee the Netflix show, which returned for season two this week, is anythg but that. But ’s also one of those seri that is dog important storytellg—that word ; so many different ways that focg on jt one do a disservice to the edy is created by and stars Ryan O’Connell, a edy wrer Los Angel who gaed fame and cril attentn wh the release of his memoir I’m Special: And Other Li We Tell Ourselv, about his experience as a lennial gay man livg wh cerebal seri has sentially the same logle. It chronicl his attempts at datg and havg a sex life, his possibly pennt relatnship wh his mother (Jsi Hecht), and his attempts to accept the ways which his life is and isn’t fed by his cerebral dumb word aga: It’s important bee of the spotlight giv to the disabled muny, wh a movg and sightful storyle season two featurg a disabled support group. Their vibrant liv make Ryan terrogate the ways his worri about other people’s fort around his existence have robbed him of his own fort and happs.A lot of space is given to his mother’s storyle, explorg how a retaker’s life is impacted by that duty and llg, and what happens when those servic are no longer need. Ryan’s bt iend, Kim (Punam Patel) who, for all the wordy explanatns about thematic importance, mt be said is hilar, nsirs the ways which nversatns about body posivy have triggered her own feelgs about there’s the sex.Special may be the most sightful seri there has been about gay sex and datg, which one might not expect based on s sunny brandg and the assumptn that you’ll be watchg spiratn porn. While not exactly porn of the other kd, s sex scen are realistic, ocsnally graphic and certaly sexy. But that realism, they may even be that’s jt not how they reveal the mechanics of gay sex, perhaps to some straight viewers for the first time. But they also show how gay sexual relatnships are navigated, the prsur and expectatns, the negotiatns, the anxieti, as well as the pleasur. Bee of Ryan’s cerebral palsy, all those nsiratns are more an terview wh the Huffgton Post, O’Connell said, “I want gay sex and Special to be synonymo. I want my show to be known for toppg, bottomg, top anxiety, lube―all those thgs. I want to take the mystery and shame out of gay sex by pictg as I’ve experienced : erotic, huiatg, empowerg, funny and tense, all wh the same thst.”It’s also rehg that the seri, s ncerted effort to skirt, aga, the ias of “spiratn porn,” allows s gay characters cludg Ryan to be toxic. Gays no longer have to be mol cizens on TV orr to be enjoyed or tertg. How nice!Season 2 se Ryan brave the waters of datg someone (named Tanner) an open relatnship, a pictn of queer non-monogamy that, while mon the real world, is rare on TV. Tanner is played by excellent new st member Max Jenks, whose performance alongsi Heléne Yorke on High Matenance is a master class of chaotic edy and Ryan are so cute together, but also so wrong for each other. You root for them and you boo them. It’s blurred l a seri wh them—disabily, homosexualy, pennce—that are typilly on told bold, unequivol terms. It’s msy and ’s funny and sometim paful. Which is to say, ’s real. Special was nomated for four Emmys for s first season, cludg nomatns for O’Connell, Hecht, and Patel. (Takg advantage of eligibily quirks, was submted as a short-form seri.) It’s clearly gotten notice. But would be nice for s reach to expand even more season ;s a seri that tak topics so often rced to one acceptable way to talk about them. If ’s still rare for gay character to be given a full life—the good, bad, and ugly—on TV, then ’s almost nonexistent for disabled characters. A gay and disabled character? Fet about what I appreciate about the show is that, while ’s about all those thgs, ’s also not about those thgs at all. It’s a slice of life for an tertg character who is surround by tertg people whose own tertg liv are explored, irrpective of those intifyg quali, tras, or perceived margalizatns or strs aga, ’s very funny, too. You uld say—and sorry/not sorry for the credibly rny observatn that’s about to follow—’s special. Most of you only watch tly horrible ntent on Netflix. I know you do. Maybe watch somethg good more at The Daily our top stori your box every day. Sign up now!Daily Beast Membership: Beast Insi go eper on the stori that matter to you. Learn more.

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NETFLIX’S UNUPLED: GAY SEX, THE CYDARREN STAR’S NEW SERI HARKENS BACK TO A CLASSIC, WH A NEW SP. BY RICHARD LAWSONJULY 27, 2022SARAH SHATZ/NETFLIXSAVE THIS STORYSAVESAVE THIS STORYSAVELAST YEAR’S AND JT LIKE THAT SHIFTED THE GAZE OF THE WATERSHED SERI SEX AND THE CY EVER SO SLIGHTLY. THE ORIGAL GANG WAS OLR; ONE WAS MISSG; AND SOME NEW IENDS HAD ARRIVED TO PLITE THE PARTY. WHILE SEX AND THE CY CREATOR DARREN STAR WASN’T VOLVED WH AND JT LIKE THAT, HE PERHAPS WANTED TO DO SOME RIFFG OF HIS OWN, AS EVINCED BY THE NEW NETFLIX SERI UNUPLED (JULY 29). IT’S A SHOW THAT NCERNS THE SAME FASCATNS AS STAR’S LANDMARK SERI—NEW YORK CY, ROMANCE, REER—ONLY OM A GAY PERSPECTIVE.EXPLICLY, DIRECTLY GAY, THAT IS. SATC AND AND JT LIKE THAT, WHILE MOSTLY ABOUT STRAIGHT WOMEN, ARE VERY MUCH FILTERED THROUGH A GAY LENS, THOUGH THE GAY CHARACTERS—CHIEFLY, NEBBISHY STANFORD AND HARPG ANTHONY—ARE OFTEN MERE PLOT FUNCTNARI. NOT SO ON UNUPLED, WHICH PUTS A GAY MAN, FORTY-SOMETHG MICHAEL (NEIL PATRICK HARRIS), ONT AND CENTER. STAR, WH -CREATOR JEFEY RICHMAN, BORROWS SATC’S EPISODIC DATG FORMAT AND ROLLS UP WH THE AGG ANXIETY OF AND JT LIKE THAT, ALL THE GASSY MIDDLE-YEARS JOK ABOUT THE SWIFT ENCROACHMENT OF TECHNOLOGY AND NEW SEXUAL, SOCIAL, AND POLIL NORMS. BUT UNUPLED DO SO LIGHTLY, WH A FLICK OF THE WRIST AND A SLOSH OF CHAMPAGNE. UNUPLED IS TOPIL S REFERENC, BUT A FLTERED, RNY WAY, MUCH LIKE STAR’S OTHER NETFLIX SERI, EY PARIS. THOSE SEEKG A MORN VERSN OF NEW YORK CY SELF WILL BE UNSATISFIED. THIS IS STILL A TELEVISN MANHATTAN THAT TURNS S NOSE UP AT BROOKLYN, THAT IS ALLERGIC TO THE SUBWAY, THAT HOLDS DOWNTOWN AS A PLACE FOR HIP RTRANTS AND GALLERI BUT NOT SUABLE FOR SOPHISTITED LIVG. MICHAEL IS A HIGH-END REAL TATE AGENT, SO THE SHOW SPENDS A LOT OF TIME TALKG ABOUT PROPERTY AND NEIGHBORHOODS A WAY THAT IS HERMETILLY REMOVED OM THE REALI OF TODAY. (FOR ALL BUT A PREC, TERRIBLE FEW NEW YORKERS, ANYWAY.) THERE IS, Y, A PERVERSE PLEASURE TO UNUPLED’S BLHE DULGENCE, THE GUILTY THRILL OF SPENDG TIME A WORLD WHICH MONEY IS BOTH NO OBJECT AND THE ONLY OBJECT. THIS DO PROVE GRATG AS THE SERI WEARS ON, THOUGH. WHERE UNUPLED SEEKS NOVATN IS S ROMANTIC ENTANGLEMENTS, DLY SOCLOGIL AND, OFTENTIM, SEXUALLY ANK. JT BEFORE A SURPRISE 50TH BIRTHDAY FOR MICHAEL’S PARTNER OF 17 YEARS, COL (TUC WATKS), THE BIRTHDAY BOY TELLS MICHAEL THAT HE’S LEAVG THE RELATNSHIP. THIS SENDS MICHAEL TO A TAILSP—AND ONTO APPS LIKE GRDR, WHERE HE NONTS A GAY DATG WORLD VASTLY DIFFERENT OM THE ONE HE KNEW BEFORE HE SETTLED FOR HIS LONG DOMTIC SPELL WH COL. THEIRS WASN’T AN OPEN RELATNSHIP, WHICH PUTS MICHAEL AT A DISTANCE OM A LOT OF GAY MEN A OR SO HIS JUNR. THE ADVENT OF PREP HAS HELPED CREATE A SEXUAL LANDSPE UTTERLY FOREIGN TO MICHAEL, THOUGH HE IS AT LEAST FAIAR WH MANY ENDURG HANGUPS OF HIS PARTICULAR I: THE TENSNS OF TOP AND BOTTOM, BEAR AND TWK, DADDY AND, WELL, NOT DADDY. WHILE THE DISURSE UNUPLED IS WELL TROD ALREADY, IS AT LEAST SOMETHG DIFFERENT TO SEE THOSE NVERSATNS PLAY OUT A ROM TV SERI ABOUT MIDDLE-AGE.  AS MICHAEL MEETS A HOST OF MEN ON HIS JOURNEY TOWARD HEALG (PRETTY MUCH A NEW GUY PER EPISO, LIKE THE OLD SATC DAYS!), HIS SIKICK IENDS UNRGO THEIR OWN MISADVENTUR. HIMBO WEATHERMAN BILLY (EMERSON BROOKS) SPENDS HIS TIME BED-HOPPG AND DATG DOWN ON THE AGE SLE. THE SHOW TEAS HIM FOR THAT, BUT MOSTLY AVOIDS OUTRIGHT SHAMG; HIS CHOIC ARE AMED MUCH THE SAME WAY THAT SAMANTHA JON’S WERE. MAYBE BILLY IS PHG TE LOVE AWAY WH ALL HIS EMOTNLS NOODLG, BUT ALSO, WHO R? STANLEY (BROOKS ASHMANSKAS) IS, AS HIS NAME WOULD SUGGT, MORE OF A SQUARE, A LONELY ART ALER WHO’S EVER SELF-PRETG ABOUT HIS AGE, HIS LOOKS, HIS FAILED ATTEMPTS AT FDG A MATE. AGA, THOUGH, UNUPLED IS REFUL WH S RITURE. OR MAYBE ’S JT ASHMANSKAS, WHO LENDS THOUGHTFUL SHADG TO EVEN THE GROANIT, MOST PATHETIC OF L.HARRIS, FOR HIS PART, IS BT WHEN THGS GET A LTLE SER: WHEN MICHAEL AND COL BICKER THE FALLOUT OF THEIR BREAKUP, OR WHEN MICHAEL HAS SOME SAD EPIPHANY ABOUT THE SUDN SHAPE OF HIS LIFE. HIS BROAR EDY IS STIFF—HARRIS IS NOT THE LIGHTT OF PRENC, SO HE HAS TROUBLE WH THE SHOW’S ZANIER, GOOFIER MATERIAL. ESPECIALLY NTRAST TO TISHA CAMPBELL, WHO PLAYS MICHAEL’S BS PARTNER, SUZANNE. CAMPBELL IS A DYNAMIC PERFORMER OWED A B MORE THAN SHE GETS HERE, THOUGH THE SHOW DO EVENTUALLY GIVE HER A SHRED OF A STANDALONE PLOT. SHE ALSO HAS A FEW JNTY SCEN WH MARCIA GAY HARN, WHO PLAYS (ON OLD-PRO TOPILOT) A SNOBBY ZILLNAIRE DIVORCéE LOOKG TO REPAIR HER LIFE JT AS MICHAEL IS. FOR ALL OF S CLUNK AND CREAK, UNUPLED IS AN AGREEABLE WATCH. IT’S DARG ENOUGH A FEW PLAC TO FEEL WORTHY OF S ERA, WHILE PROVIDG THE EASY, BRA-ANG, TRAPPED--AMBER ENJOYMENT THAT HAS BEE A HALLMARK OF STAR’S WORK. (IT SHOULD BE SAID, THOUGH, THAT SEX AND THE CY WAS, AT S PEAK, ACTUALLY QUE STIMULATG.) IN THE STTERED MOMENTS WHEN UNUPLED’S SLAPDASH TOPILY AND HOARY STEREOTYP GIVE WAY TO A JAG OF GENUELY SHARP WRG, THE SERI SWELLS TO F S PEDIGREE. THE SHOW ISN’T SEX AND THE CY, BUT NOTHG WILL EVER BE.WE’D PROBABLY DO WELL TO TAKE HEED OF UNUPLED’S MSAGE, THEN. TO STOP ALL OUR ELS PG FOR AN OLD LOVE WE N NEVER GET BACK. 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