What the 'Gay Marriage' Debate Is Really About

Contents:

• THE DEBATE: THE BIBLE AND GAY MARRIAGE
• WHERE SHOULD WE, AS CHRISTIANS, STAND ON GAY MARRIAGE?
• GAY MARRIAGE: THEOLOGIL AND MORAL ARGUMENTS
• IS THE GAY MARRIAGE DEBATE OVER?
• FIRST-PERSON: THE GAY MARRIAGE BATE: HOW WOULD J RPOND?
• WHAT THE 'GAY MARRIAGE' DEBATE IS REALLY ABOUT

THE DEBATE: THE BIBLE AND GAY MARRIAGE

Last week, Newsweek's ver story on the biblil se for gay marriage ronated on TV statns, throughout the blogosphere, and the box of many NEWSWEEK employe as Christians and nonbelievers alike sound off on the edorial cisn to n the story. Of the tens of thoands of letters we received, some argued that the Bible clearly proscrib homosexualy, while others appld thor Lisa Miller's argument on such a ntroversial subject.

Read on to see how each views the Bible, what they believe Scripture has to say about gay marriage and where they thk this bate will be head (at least, church) the next .

WHERE SHOULD WE, AS CHRISTIANS, STAND ON GAY MARRIAGE?

I love the Bible, and stake my life the biblil wns, and is that which lls me to the stggle for full cln of gay people and their gifts.

I believe Christians mt subm to the Bible's teachgs, and I believe the Bible is unequivol s teachg that homosexual behavr is sful. Miller's article, one uld get the imprsn that the New Ttament is silent about the subject of homosexualy, which of urse certaly is not.

Sce I believe that the Bible is God's word, and I have good reason for this belief, then mt mean that God nmns homosexual marriage, so the Bible nnot be ed to help create an argument for same-sex marriage. E., civil, marriage or not, don't change what is the clear biblil teachg about homosexual I want to go forward here speakg out of the nversatn which I hear gog on Scripture, one pertent to the full cln of gay and lbian people.

GAY MARRIAGE: THEOLOGIL AND MORAL ARGUMENTS

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When one puts the teachgs of Pl on the same thorative ground as the teachgs of J, one mt nclu that God do not ndone homosexual behavr.

IS THE GAY MARRIAGE DEBATE OVER?

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FIRST-PERSON: THE GAY MARRIAGE BATE: HOW WOULD J RPOND?

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I'm sure you're right that I am leang on Pl's teachgs more than the teachgs of J answerg the qutn of homosexualy, but I don't nsir that to be a weakns. By the time I study Levic 18:22, Romans 1:24-27 and 1 Corthians 6:9-11, I thk is clear what the Bible teach about homosexual behavr. It might enurage you to know that neher I nor most Southern Baptists believe that homosexual behavr is the unpardonable s.

WHAT THE 'GAY MARRIAGE' DEBATE IS REALLY ABOUT

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