Ask John: 'I've had a gay affair on my wife'

Contents:

• ASK JOHN: 'I'VE HAD A GAY AFFAIR ON MY WIFE'
• MY HBAND’S ‘GAY AFFAIR’ WH GOVE
• MY HBAND’S ‘GAY AFFAIR’ WH GOVE
• MARLON BRANDO HAD GAY AFFAIR WH MY HBAND RICHARD PRYOR, SAYS WIDOW
• DREAM ABOUT HBAND IS GAY
• TODD CHRISLEY’S EX-BS PARTNER: WE HAD GAY AFFAIR, PAID OFF BLACKMAILER

ASK JOHN: 'I'VE HAD A GAY AFFAIR ON MY WIFE'

Thgs sudnly shifted si my head, and I went om thkg I was straight to knowg I am gay. She found his onle er name and password for a gay chat room. One gay man nonted his partner, sayg, "Do you have a boyiend?

Some men who have sex wh men (MSM) thk they are too straight to be gay, but others see them as too gay to be straight. Acrdg to the Centers for Disease Control, about 7 percent of men have sex wh men, but gay men are timated at about 4 percent of the populatn.

MY HBAND’S ‘GAY AFFAIR’ WH GOVE

The figur suggt that about 3 percent of MSM do not intify themselv as gay. Lisa Diamond has wrten that the genr of women's sexual sire may be fluid, but rearchers generally agree that for men homosexual attractns never reverse. Some gay activists cricize MSM as not beg "actualized.

MSM may say they are engaged homosexual behavr but rist assumg a gay inty bee they don't intify wh the stereotype. Beg gay and dog gay is not the same thg.

One Mlim om the Middle East said, "This isn't about beg gay; 's only about pleasure.

MY HBAND’S ‘GAY AFFAIR’ WH GOVE

" Future efforts to supprs homosexual attractn may e MSM to experience sadns; prsn and thoughts of suici; dg and alhol abe; and other self-stctive behavrs.

For MSM, the first qutn they mt answer is, "How would you tend to live your life if the homosexual attractns never go away? Are you prepared for the huiatn of public exposure of your spoe's illic homosexual activy? Coupl mt addrs the primary issue: Should they rema married given the permanency of his stggle agast homosexual attractn?

Bee there was so much to disver and try to unrstand, we cid he need space to date, to fd out if he was gay or some other orientatn, and to learn exactly what this meant for him ― and for . “I cid that if he was gay, I uld be his bt iend ex-wife and we uld have this big gay fay. I helped create his onle datg profile, took sexy pictur of him to upload, and sent him advice articl on gay relatnships.

MARLON BRANDO HAD GAY AFFAIR WH MY HBAND RICHARD PRYOR, SAYS WIDOW

”In between bouts of cryg the shower, sleepls nights and readg every self-help book sold on Amazon, I cid that if Stuart was gay, I uld be his bt iend ex-wife and we uld have this big gay fay. I know homosexualy is a s. What you need, above all, is to accept the fact that you’re gay or I thk you knew I was gog to tell you that.

I thk that’s why you wrote me, so that I would affirm what you already let’s affirm: As surely as birds fly and be buzz, you, my iend, are gay or bi. What nature wants, nature, one way or another, ’t be awome if you had never your life believed that beg gay is a s? Maybe I’m gay or bi.

DREAM ABOUT HBAND IS GAY

”Then, if turned out you WERE gay or bi, you uld have jt... Been gay or bi. Bee somewhere along the le of your life, someone, ncert wh a whole bunch of other people, nvced you that the Prottant Christian God whom you believe fds homosexualy so offensive that he punish anyone who di unrepentedly gay by roastg them alive Bee (as John wr his first epistle) God is love?

TODD CHRISLEY’S EX-BS PARTNER: WE HAD GAY AFFAIR, PAID OFF BLACKMAILER

Contue stroyg your life, and the life of the woman whom you vowed before God and man you would serve well — or let go of the maniftly o and screamgly immature teachg that God favors straight people over gay people. But maybe, if your hband had been born another world—well, this world—and regnized he was gay, he might have cid to live his life as an openly gay man, and then you two would not have married. Was she accg me of turng her hband gay?