Can Gay and Straight Men Really Be Friends? | Psychology Today South Ai

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Could gay guys be the ultimate wg men for their straight, male iends?

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HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY

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It didn’t take long for my porn habs to bee almost exclively gay, and was somethg I never really me to terms wh for a really long time. Any ways, me and my iend have been dog the weirst stuff for years, most of is straight up gay.

I remember was eher junr or sophomore year of high, when we were watchg some movie on her uch. She admted that the attractn was mutual, and we cid that we might nsir a homosexual relatnship. I mentned this down the ments somewhere, but we don't e om a place that's very open about gay relatnships.

GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS

There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * best friends turn gay *

For a long time, iendships between gay men and straight men – what some now ll “bromosexual” iendships – were unmon. Homophobia was likely one reason; another was that straight men probably assumed they didn’t have much mon wh gay men. Specifilly, we’re terted lookg at the reasons gay men and straight men bee iends (or rema iends after the gay iend out).

HOW TO MAKE GAY FRIENDS

Heterosexual and gay men n heal and grow as a rult of their iendships. * best friends turn gay *

We currently have a survey vtigatn unrway that explor some of the posive out of “bromosexual” iendships, cludg our theory that gay men and straight men n be optimal wg men for one another. Friendships between gay and straight men have always existed.

Many straight men hated to beiend gay men, fearg harassment, rejectn om their straight iends or beg lled gay.

The growg acceptance of homosexualy, however, has allayed some of the fears. Gay men – particularly those nservative and ral environments – rema wary about tryg to beiend straight men, fearg prejudice-fueled rejectn. At the same time, many straight men still doubt that they’ll be able to relate to gay men any meangful way and, for this reason, may not try to iate a iendship.

CAN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN REALLY BE FRIENDS?

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Of urse, the tradnal notn that gay men and straight men nnot be close iends is herently homophobic and unte. We propose gay-straight male iendships are not only possible, but that they n grow to be extremely rewardg.

If they’re open-md about beiendg gay men and make the effort to try to fe iendships based upon mon terts, gay men should feel more fortable reciprotg.

BT FRIENDS TURN TO LOVERS (M/M STRAIGHT GUYS FIRST TIME GAY SEX)

New rearch explor the benefs of iendship between gay and straight men. * best friends turn gay *

So which straight men are the most likely to beiend gay men, and vice versa?

We know that gay men are now g out at an earlier age.

Gay men who disclose their sexual orientatn to their straight male iends earlier life may be able to build more open and hont iendships wh them to adulthood. Send, recent rearch has argued that genr and sexual orientatn might not be as black and whe as prevly thought, which opens up new avenu for explorg how gay and straight men n relate to one another. If a straight guy and his gay male iend are ls rigid about their masculy and sexualy, they’ll probably be more likely to discs tails about their sexual and romantic liv openly wh one another.

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