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HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY

* does gay sex make you gay *

Men who have sex wh other men are gay or bisexual. We now know that many men are attracted to gay sex, but not to men.

I’ve wrten extensively about my book, Is My Hband Gay or Bi? A Gui for Women Concerned About Their Men, but simply put, some men have no sire to be nnected wh gay culture, and scerely nsir themselv to not be gay or bisexual. In our culture, many people thk that bisexualy is jt a gateway to homosexualy, but is not.

It is te that some gay men thk at first that they are bisexual, but this is largely due to the cultural taboo agast beg gay.

THE GAY-O-METER! ?️‍? LGBTQ QUIZ

If a man wants anal sex means he is gay or bisexual.

Our culture has cid that receivg anal sex equat to beg gay, but “gay” is more than jt a behavr. This would be like sayg that gay men who don’t like anal sex are really straight but don’t know yet, and their butt will have to tell them at some pot. |Intifyg as Gay.

Gay dividuals are romantilly or sexually attracted to people who are the same genr as them. If you’re more aroed by people who are the same genr as you, you might be gay. Keep md that experienc of sexual aroal are extremely nuanced, and aren’t ncrete proof that you’re gay.

FEELG GUILTY ABOUT "GAY THOUGHTS"

For stance, you n be aroed by gay adult media whout necsarily beg gay yourself.

If you tend to velop csh on people who are the same genr as you, uld be a sign that you’re gay.

AM I GAY IF I HAVE SAME SEX FANTASI?

You n be gay even if you’ve had straight relatnships the past.

WHY SOME STRAIGHT PEOPLE MIGHT HAVE GAY SEX

If you felt unfortable wh physil ntact wh each girl, you may be gay. If you often fantasize about relatnships volvg specific genrs, you may be queer or gay.

You may be gay, but you uld also be pansexual or bisexual if you sometim thk about the other genr. Don’t assume you’re gay based on how you walk, talk, or drs.