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Contents:

• OP-ED: 6 GAY CLICHéS THAT ARE TOTALLY TE
• I’M A GAY CLICHé — AND THAT’S OK
• 4,829 GAY CLICHE STOCK VIOS, 4K FOOTAGE, & VIO CLIPS
• TOP 11 S CLICHéS UN POIL TROP RéCURRENTS SUR L GAYS
• GAY STEREOTYP: ARE THEY TE?
• THE TWO BIGGT CLICHéS GAY ROMANCE
• GAYCLICHE'
• DO YOU SOUND GAY? WHAT OUR VOIC TELL – AND WHAT THEY DON’T
• 14,208 GAY CLICHE STOCK PHOTOS & HIGH-R PICTUR

OP-ED: 6 GAY CLICHéS THAT ARE TOTALLY TE

Illtratns by Clarne GutierrezThe days gay culture is almost as played out as a Taylor Swift song om 2012. Naturally, we make every effort to rebe any rigid tegorizatn of what looks like to be a gay man bee we know there's no such thg as a one-size-fs-all "homosexual liftyle. But jt between gays, some of the clich are ad on the nose, whether we like or not.

I’M A GAY CLICHé — AND THAT’S OK

If you ask me, the bt way to bat the stupidy of thkg that all gay men are one certa way is to own our monali, make light of our likens and let the outsi world know that the gay clich are totally te... Jt maybe not they way they are six gay clich that I thk we should nsir as totally 't Get Between A Gay Man and His DivaNo matter how elevated the dner guts or how sophistited the cktail party, we have all taken part a discsn about the new Beyonce vio, the latt Gaga album, or what Madonna is up to now. As much as the alterna-gays try to pe , we are all slav to our divas.

Some of n adm don't matter whether your personal iTun library is filled wh classil, untry or die rock, if you have been to a gay bar wh the last , you know at least one Brney Spears song by heart. Maybe you are more Ta than Cher, or more Ja than Madonna, but most likely even the most die rock of gays has one female power ballad on their if you happen to be the one gay man the ee world who don't know at least one le to Madonna's "Vogue, " you do not get a Gay Men Sleep Wh Each Other"Ugh... "The bonds between our fellow homos are strong, more often remblg a sense of fay born out of the shared experience of faial or societal rejectn.

So relax and jt adm , we all know jt how hung our iends are, and for good Men Make the Bt of FriendsThis monly uttered sentiment om the dnken girl at the bar will often make a gay man crge. Roll that all up and give a scy homo disposn and you have some of the most fabuloly, fiercely loyal and unqutnably hont people you n fd. The homosexual movement has spent s dispellg the belief that all gays re about is sex.

4,829 GAY CLICHE STOCK VIOS, 4K FOOTAGE, & VIO CLIPS

In fact, some gay men have two left feet and don't know their Beyonce om Barbra Streisand. So, even though our world no longer exists the nf of the gay club, we n never erase our men n pair the right mic wh the perfect marti, set the lightg so that everyone looks jt a ltle younger, and ordate the perfect menu wh a theme of the night. Accept the next vatn om one of your straight iends and you be the Is a Gay DiseaseWhat, did you thk this list was gog to be all glter, sex and Gaga?

TOP 11 S CLICHéS UN POIL TROP RéCURRENTS SUR L GAYS

Oh, no, the gay life is way more plex than that, and so are our clich. Although may not have always been the se, gay men are the livg legacy of the heartache, anguish and ultimate triumph of the AIDS epimic. And many other veloped untri has bee somewhat tertwed wh the ny that HIV isn't a central theme that ti all gay men together is both an sult to those who have died om AIDS and an vatn for HIV to lampoon your world one way of another.

And we all mt be part of the change that allows the gay muny to e out om unr the stigma of HIV for good. There have been tim when I've stood alone a room emtg wty remarks, as upl and groups giggle and snter by, and I've realized the absolute horror: I am a gay cliche. Two, as I've mentned before (wty gays are so repetive), I'm the perennial wty gay bachelor, even now that you n have an actual weddg and ve loved on and serve meatballs.

GAY STEREOTYP: ARE THEY TE?

They were your archetypal gay old maids -- always on fire wh a retort, but never the spotlight, pecially wh any signifint dancg partner to speak of. They were gay by nuendo rather than by claratn, which is hardly surprisg. Gay clich stem om the societal reali of the moment, as dictated by prsur and mor.

Showbiz people weren't openly gay back then, but they uld get away wh beg flamboyant and full of suggtn, wh the lims ascribed by munal "good taste.

" As Lyn and Reilly showed , 's not jt the gay muny that creat the ia of what mak a "hot gay" of the moment. Each generatn seems to have a uple of gay clich or ials, one stemmg om the macho ethic and the other om the flamboyant one.

THE TWO BIGGT CLICHéS GAY ROMANCE

Even the '60s, when we were lovg wrist-flappg Pl Lyn as much as the straights were, we admired the mtached ial via the last gasp of mcle magaz (which pretend to be about fns), followed by an explosn of gay porn filled wh swaggerg sex hero. In the post-Stonewall '70s, gays ran on a hedonistic rampage, wh sex, dgs, and dis everywhere you turned. It was hard to look manly while dancg to songs like "Turn The Beat Around, " but the gays tried , plete wh leather outfs and the requise swls.

At the height of this madns, the dis group the Village People nnily brought together six gay stereotyp, all machismo-lan, om the nstctn worker to the Amerin Indian. "Gay clon" were the norm up and down New York's Christopher Street, but glam rock explod at the same time. The cliched gay uldn't jt be butch; he also had to work out obssively and velop an eye-poppg set of abs.

GAYCLICHE'

Although didn't work, led to nformy that ma gay men feel at home dance clubs, where they dulged paradoxilly unhealthy behavrs. Aga, we saw a dichotomy bee our poster boys were wispy, new wave sgers like Boy Gee and Gee Michael, who we had no doubts were our gay brethren, abs or no abs. The AIDS activism group ACT UP was found 1987, and by the 1990s, the gay cliche was a mcle queen who wore bat boots wh cutoff jeans and marched the streets for progrs.

DO YOU SOUND GAY? WHAT OUR VOIC TELL – AND WHAT THEY DON’T

There still weren't that many openly gay celebri, but there were gay characters -- such as on the h s Will & Grace (1998-2006), where Sean Hay's character, Jack McFarland, was a nouve Pl Lyn full of w and super-ficialy.

As the differenc between gays and the mastream started fadg, we beme more homogenized our approach to life and love, and wh our muny we spltered more aggrsively to the varyg typ of gays we reprented. No matter what kd of gay you were, beg out seemed way more sential than the old days.

Wh so many open and powerful gays the biz, our ins beme biggi like Neil Patrick Harris, Matt Bomer, Jim Parsons, and Anrson Cooper.

14,208 GAY CLICHE STOCK PHOTOS & HIGH-R PICTUR

But here I am, the gay the rner, and seems like a pretty stale thg to be. Still, there are way worse clich -- such as, let's say, a gay serial killer. So, I've cid that I'm proud to be a gay cliche, and I'm gog to wear on my vtage Yv Sat Lrent sleeve rather than act shamefully about .

1) The Unhappy EndgEven this paratively enlightened age, a gay uple rarely ris to the sunset. 3) Homophob IncThere's nothg like learng a iend is gay to turn a prevly warm, open md person to a rantg, bile spewg monster.