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That science recirculated among the gay muny this year as <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="new light " class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">new light </a>was shed on Asian-Amerin inty amid a natnal spree of anti-AAPI vlence. This is the same anonymo Amerin public that 42 percent of, when asked a May survey to name any Asian Amerin, replied wh the most popular answer: <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="“I don’t know”" class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">“I don’t know”</a> (followed by the answers “Jackie Chan” and “Bce Lee”). </p><p data-no-id="5" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0">Wh this <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="urgency" class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">urgency</a> to fe their own experienc and the begng of the mise of <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="-swchg" class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">-swchg</a>, gay Asian-Amerin men are askg qutns spe such mixed signals—or perhaps bee of them: What do beg more Amerin <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="really mean" class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">really mean</a>? What is <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="Asian enough" class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">Asian enough</a>? How n queerns rencile s <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="“no Asians”" class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">“no Asians”</a> hab? And, above all, what next? Racist trop are beg <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="stabilized" class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">stabilized</a>, but the qutn of inty remas murky.</p><p data-no-id="6" class="css-aeyldl et3p2gv0">“Whe gay men look at me as a refugee,” said Kenrick Ross, 41, who is Indo-Guyane and the executive director of the <a href=" target="_blank" data-vars-ga-outbound-lk=" data-vars-ga-ux-element="Hyperlk" data-vars-ga-ll-to-actn="Natnal Queer Asian Pacific Islanr Alliance" class="body-lk css-umdwtv et3p2gv0">Natnal Queer Asian Pacific Islanr Alliance</a>. He scribed a curdled versn of what is like to be nsired “more Amerin.” “<em>Your parents mt’ve been horrible. Your church mt’ve been horrible. They mt not accept you. They mt hate you. But here’s a mostly-whe gay world that wants to wele you.</em> It’s almost like, to live your life openly, you’ve entered Amerin society. 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