Boys Gone Wild - Gay Men Who Want to Get Hazed - Nymag

Contents:

• THE SECRET GAY HISTORY OF AN AMERIN FRATERNY
• I WAS A GAY AT BOY. THE “HORRIFIC CINT” AT BUCKNELL UNIVERSY’S FRAN’S HOE WAS NOT AN ANTI-LGBT ATTACK
• MY ATERNY YEARS AS AN OUT GAY MAN
• BLACK, GREEK, AND GAY? IT'S TIME FOR ORGANIZATNS TO FALL IN LE
• MY ATERNY YEARS AS AN OUT GAY MAN

THE SECRET GAY HISTORY OF AN AMERIN FRATERNY

Straight men who have engaged suatnal homosexualy (such as prison or the ary), what's your story?

At least not I most fely was not at a aterny for two stunts who attempted to attend a aterny party at the Universy of Memphis, beg outwardly gay - or for beg gay - or perceived to be gay - or mored to be gay - was a triment. Hopefully, progrs ntu, and one day brgs to an end to the era of macho at boys and closeted gay guys. We n't jt bsh a broad stroke and label all at boys and athlet homophob.

I WAS A GAY AT BOY. THE “HORRIFIC CINT” AT BUCKNELL UNIVERSY’S FRAN’S HOE WAS NOT AN ANTI-LGBT ATTACK

But, for those few who are fervently antigay, they reprent one of two s pictg two very different double liv of some at boys and gay men on llege one si of the hate-filled at boy , you have those who nduct themselv well class, and around mp, but when they are wh their brothers and their peers, particularly at parti, that drastilly flips, revealg ugly nduct. And while we're learng about the cint at the Universy of Memphis, how many other gay stunts have been nied accs, not jt to parti, but to a secretly non-clive aterny that might have among s ranks those who sisterly mock, gra, vilify and sissify gays?

For most closeted gay men on mp, there exists a different one si, for example, is the shield of a football broadster, sports edor, stunt senator, the gregar partier, and on the other the shield of secln - a closeted gay stunt who don't dare reveal his te nature for fear of beg shunned by peers, and at parti.

The quietly gay men ntue to hear about the stgg news of cints of bigotry, hate crime beatgs around mp, and tragic, vastatg suicis of gay llege stunts. What if they knew I was gay?

MY ATERNY YEARS AS AN OUT GAY MAN

We now have prom kgs who are gay, prom queens who are drag queens, and prom queens who are simply proudly have out llegiate athlet, stunt lears and gay aterni; however, some s our openns hs a wall, and those walls are those brick-led at ho that s forebodgly on the edge of llege mp and on the edge of our n still ny. Contued exposure and g forward n help ero the lter of the two, we n only hope that someday there is ls loose change the antigay at boys piggy bank and ls ppers the closeted gay penny Casey is a PR profsnal and an Adjunct Profsor at Wagner College New York Cy, and a equent lumnist for The Advote. The Syrace Universy chapter of Theta T was spend this week after the school’s newspaper, the Daily Orange, published shockg vios of at boys makg racist, homophobic, anti-semic oaths and engagg tly plorable behavr.

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The vios also clu simulatns of oral sex, masturbatn, glory hol, and dg e, and crackg homophobic jok: “Get together and [talk] about their signifint others while drkg different w and talkg gay girly accents! Related: Frat Boy Dish On What It’s Like To Be Gay And Greek. This is not a gay g of age story.

BLACK, GREEK, AND GAY? IT'S TIME FOR ORGANIZATNS TO FALL IN LE

No, this is a story about thgs I saw and heard and experienced, but don’t end wh me steppg bravely forward and proudly clarg my homosexualy to the world and fdg my place .

Some of the iends did turn out to be gay, though I had no ia at the time, as they, I thk, had srcely any ia about me. Afterward, my broad-shoulred stoner iend sually told Jason that “What we did was okay, bee I heard you have to do three tim wh a guy to make you gay. In the aterny which I belonged, a small subset of iends began referrg to the annual fall visatn of alumni as “Homog Weekend.

) he was homosexual. By the time I graduated 1987, I had been through a few Homog Weekends and taken the long walk wh several of my olr aterny brothers, who would awkwardly nfs to beg gay.

MY ATERNY YEARS AS AN OUT GAY MAN

I was too uptight about my own sexualy and this sort of thg h entirely too close to home (homo? But he left no doubt that he was totally gay, and ma me unfortable when he looked to my ey wh that perceptive visn of his.

“But the guy’s a homosexual, and there are guys who say they’re gog blackball him to prevent him om gettg a bid, ” I was told.

And after all, if I took a strong posn on the matter, someone might assume I was gay, and I was not gog to let that happen! Marc was about as openly gay as one uld safely be Lock Haven, Pennsylvania the early 1980s. Much later Marc would fd out I was gay too, spe my self-protective measur, and he would be very supportive, god bls him.