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RAGEFUEL FEMDOM IS GAY
He’s got stupid old school ias about genr and sexualy, even though he’s not exprsly homophobic or anythg. But he’s sistent that if a woman did anythg to his butthole, even a tongue or a fger: that would be gay. He even said beg “domated by a woman” is on the spectm of beg gay, which is absurd.
Like I said, was a very dumb argument and there were a lot of Sefeldian “not that there’s anythg wrong wh that” ments about beg gay. There is a lot to unpack there… not the least of which is that sayg “not that there’s anythg wrong wh that” don’t negate homophobia any more than do by sayg “wh all due rpect” before llg someone a puerile dipsh.
IS PEGGG GAY?
Knowg that someone is terted anal play tells you nothg about their level of gayns, other than the fact gay men are ls likely to have cultural hang ups about . Some gay men never engage anal sex at all, meanwhile plenty of heteros and queer women do. When we talk about what non-sexual activy is and is not gay, we’re really discsg whether we thk ’s feme.
IS FEMDOM MAKG ME GAY?
It’s not that ’s “gay” to pat your nails or wear sparkl, ’s jt d as feme. Plenty of cidly gay men have sucked plenty of dick whout beg to feme stuff and plenty of dited heterosexual men enjoy activi that were arbrarily labeled as “for girls. That’s why some men believe ’s possible for any sex act wh a woman to be lled “gay.
” The Sopranos expertly satirized this ia an episo about whether or not was gay for a man to eat psy. Plenty of cidly gay men have sucked plenty of dick whout beg to feme stuff and plenty of dited heterosexual men enjoy activi that were arbrarily labeled as ‘for girls.
One day I hope the only nversatns we have about whether or not somethg is gay are about whether or not ’s GOOD enough for that label.