10 Reasons Gays Chase Straights | HealthyPlace

Contents:

• HOW TO COPE WHEN YOU'RE GAY AND LONELY
• FOX NEWS HOSTS CONFED ABOUT WHETHER TO CALL GAY MAN MR. OR MS.
• 10 REASONS GAYS CHASE STRAIGHTS
• GAYS AND CONFED
• IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOU'RE GAY AND LONELY

Part of realizg you're gay, or bi, or trans, or non-bary, or anythg other than cisgenr and heterosexual is acceptg you’re different—and somewhat separated—om the majory. Here he shar his journey to overe the sense of isolatn he felt growg up gay a small U. At the time, there were no real gay role mols except for Graham Norton and Jack om Dawson's Creek—and I certaly didn't intify wh him bee I wasn't a football player.

I felt like I was pletely on my rried on until I was 16, when I started gog out to gay bars my hometown. For the first time I've been able to form a good group of gay iends and create my own support work.

FOX NEWS HOSTS CONFED ABOUT WHETHER TO CALL GAY MAN MR. OR MS.

I'd go on gay chatrooms but that was jt a facels nversatn wh someone who uld have been anyone. I thk if I'd had iends who were gay when I was growg up, my life would have been so different.

I now know there were other kids at my school who were gay, but they didn't e out till much later. Although some people know early on that they are homosexual, others go through a nfg perd where they wonr: Am I different?

You shouldn't label yourself as gay jt bee you've had homosexual feelgs or even homosexual enunters. If turns out you're gay, you'll probably face some unique challeng but you'll also get a lot of support along the way. It's still not perfect, but the days most people know that 's okay to be gay, and homosexuals have more social eedoms and legal protectns than ever before.

10 REASONS GAYS CHASE STRAIGHTS

Rearchers ed to believe that homosexualy stemmed om improper parentg (some people still believe this), but this jt isn't the se. As bt we know, what "" homosexualy is the same as what heterosexualy: the roll of the blogil dice. Today, sex rearchers and doctors view homosexualy not as a sexual problem but as a normal sexual difference, much like green is a normal - if fairly unual - eye lor.

What all this means is that homosexuals are no more rponsible for their homosexualy than heterosexuals are for their heterosexualy.

Even if you know that homosexualy isn't a disorr or a flaw, you may fear that your fay and iends won't accept you if you e out to them. This sub is for photos, vios, gifs, or stori of people who somehow, unwtgly or unexpectedly, engaged gay activi. It’s time to eject transgenr people–specifilly, the screechg, bullyg, thorarian trans rights lobby–out of the gay club, at least until they learn how to behave properly to the rt of .

GAYS AND CONFED

It asks that gay rights anisatns “stop reprentg the transgenr muny as we feel their iology is not only pletely different om that promoted by the LGB muny … but is ultimately regrsive and actually hostile to the goals of women and gay men.

I agree, and I’m eply sympathetic to gay men who are mystified by supposedly gay anisatns who do nothg the days except bang on about trans pronouns, spe the fact that HIV fectns are on the rise aga. It ed to be gay guys proposng police officers after takg a peek at the urals.

Gay culture, at s heart, is about self-exprsn and ttg the boundari of what n be thought and said. Gay men are where Mother Nature mak some of her bolst experiments and achiev some of her greatt succs. I doubt I’m the only one, though the days you’re not allowed to say  out loud, even if you’re gay, or you’ll get attacked by the trans lobby language far more ugly and obscene than anythg I’ve heard om the supposedly bigoted reactnary Right.

IS YOUR MAN GAY, STRAIGHT, OR BISEXUAL?

Gay people, liberated om the nstrats of what the femists ll “heteropatriarchal norms, ” should be joyfully and exuberantly phg boundari – not watchg their speech, lt they cur the wrath of some tack-sptg cross-drser. There’s an argument to be ma that the whole trans project is herently and eply homophobic, bee tells young gay men that they n’t have certa mannerisms or be attracted to other men whout needg surgery to bee women.

Trans orthodoxy don’t acunt for gays: wants anyone who fds men attractive, and any man stgglg wh his sexualy, to hop up on the operatg table and bee a parody of womanhood. ” I might be gay, but I’m still a man, and stori like that brg out my natural chivalry and protective stcts.

And let’s not fet, the majory of LGBT people, gay men, put all the work to make gay rights happen. The G LGBT has been a load-bearg wall for the whole alphabet soup crew for s, and we extraordary gays, the bt gays, are tired of pullg along every sgle alternative sexualy when they expect to do the heavy liftg while they do the easy griftg.