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class="body__ner-ntaer"><p>Wter.<br/>It’s been dark for, like, five hours,<br/>And yet the children are still awake,<br/>And I am only a ltle dnk.<br/>What you ll yellg I ll makg a pot.</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">Our love<br/>is like the padlocks on the Pont s Arts, Paris—<br/>Thoands of locks, symbols of unbreakable love.<br/>Isn’t that betiful?<br/>Apparently, though, all those locks are too heavy<br/>for the bridge.<br/>Did you hear this?<br/>I read somewhere.<br/>The locks are weighg the bridge down.<br/>So you know what they're gog to do?<br/>They’re takg them off wh bolt cutters and throwg them out.<br/>Isn’t that betiful, too?<br/>So now the people aren’t locked together anymore.<br/>They’re ee to maybe see other people.<br/>I thought that was tertg.</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">When we have children,<br/>They will watch no televisn.<br/>No screens.<br/>We will be different om those other parents,<br/>And we will take pri our beg better.</p><div><div class="ConsumerMarketgUnThemedWrapper-iUTMTf jssHut nsumer-marketg-un nsumer-marketg-un--article-mid-ntent" role="prentatn" aria-hidn="te"><div class="nsumer-marketg-un__slot nsumer-marketg-un__slot--article-mid-ntent nsumer-marketg-un__slot---ntent"></div><div class="journey-un"></div></div></div><p class="paywall">Fast-forward seven years,<br/>And ’s Sunday morng,<br/>6 <em class="small">A.M.</em><br/>Do you know who our iend is?<br/>SpongeBob SquarePants, that’s who.<br/>And, y, you n have Mentos for breakfast.</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">I was almost feelg fondns for you<br/>As you gave me a shoulr massage at the sk—<br/>What a small, lovely surprise.<br/>And then you grabbed my boobs and ma a “<em>wha-wha</em>” noise.<br/>In an stant, I felt disgt and sadns and regret.</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">The kids are fally down<br/>And you are lookg at me that way,<br/>But not really lookg at me.<br/>Tease.<br/>Or are you jt spacg out?<br/>Yup, you’re spacg out.<br/>You have unzipped your skirt,<br/>And your baggy unrpants ri way, way up on your hips.<br/>How old are those, anyway?<br/>You pull on some sweatpants and a T-shirt and a sweater and a fleece<br/>and I am not able to make out any ntour of your body at all.<br/>I thk you are sendg me a signal<br/> the way that married upl send each other signals.<br/>And, jt so we’re clear, you’re signallg, “I’m gog to ll my sister<br/>and orr shi. You should do somethg, too.”</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">Of urse the wheels on the b go round and round.<br/>And the wipers go swish, swish, swish.<br/>But here’s somethg:<br/>The daddy on the b says, “This is not what I signed up for.”<br/>And maybe the driver on the b don’t go beep, beep, beep.<br/>Maybe he jt hs the guy the crosswalk bee he feels like .<br/>Sg <em>that</em> verse, why don’t you?</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">I’m dreamg.<br/>But ’s so real.<br/>A man—is you?<br/>Nope.<br/>It’s Rob, Casey’s hband,<br/>The one wh the Italian accent.<br/>We’re on the beach and he’s chasg me and I’m lghg.<br/>He’s so tanned and f. And then . . . <br/>A terrible smell,<br/>Like ath.<br/>I’m blkg and awake and your nasty-ass breath is hot on my face.<br/>You son of a bch.<br/>You God-damned son of a bch.<br/>Rob, e back.</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">We are the bedroom our unrpants.<br/>Let’s turn the lights down.<br/>No, further.<br/>“Off,” I gus, is the technil term.<br/>Maybe try a towel unr the door, where that sliver of light is g ?<br/>What if we jt cuddle, and by cuddle I mean not actually touchg—<br/>Each of at the far edge of our own si of the bed—<br/>Then close our ey for the next seven hours or so?<br/>I like you.</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">I have heard that some upl watch the whole movie a sgle stg.<br/>Food for thought.</p><hr class="paywall"/><p class="paywall">In France, <em>cq à sept</em> was once sacrosanct,<br/>A phemism for renzvo,<br/>For the thg that men and women do.<br/>But we are not France.<br/>We are here, Montclair.<br/>And is well past seven.<br/>And I promised to be home at six.<br/>And, y, that’s booze on my breath.<br/>The guys and I had one . . . fe, three drks after work.<br/>I have fotten the k.<br/>And the bread and the pasta and the pull-ups.<br/>And the allergy medice at CVS.<br/>Why are you drsed up?<br/>Wa. 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