My hband is gay but we’re married wh two kids and have great sex

Contents:

• "WE DO HAVE A VERY GOOD SEX LIFE": GAY MEN WH STRAIGHT WIV ARE G OUT -- AS HAPPILY MARRIED
• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• ASK JOHN: 'I'VE HAD A GAY AFFAIR ON MY WIFE'
• HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
• STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS
• MY HBAND IS GAY BUT WE’RE MARRIED WH TWO KIDS AND HAVE GREAT SEX
• I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN
• WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY
• WHAT CAN YOU DO IF YOU THK YOUR WIFE IS GAY?

"WE DO HAVE A VERY GOOD SEX LIFE": GAY MEN WH STRAIGHT WIV ARE G OUT -- AS HAPPILY MARRIED

Was she accg me of turng her hband gay? Like the time he told me he had gone on a porn se to see how gay men “do . I’ve known upl, gay and straight, who were open relatnships.

The steam room and sna at my lol Y served as a kd of after-work social club for men who were gay ― and for those who had wiv and kids. I knew a gay imprar when I lived San Francis the 1980s. One night he threw a dner party for his gay circle of iends at Trar Vic’s.

” But he adds: “I’m gay.

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

Weed is a practicg Mormon and the Church’s current stance on the topic of homosexualy n be summed up like so: “The attractn self is not a s, but actg on is. ” While Weed says he do not pass judgment on gay relatnships general, when me to his own life, he says, “I didn’t feel was right. Note that we’re not talkg about so-lled ex-gays.

In fact, the term “same-sex attracted, ” or SSA, has taken off as the notn of “ex-gays” has fallen out of favor.

ASK JOHN: 'I'VE HAD A GAY AFFAIR ON MY WIFE'

There are some key differenc between the two groups: “Ex-gays” believe that they have succsfully “cured” themselv of homosexualy. “Ex-gays” have a rightful reputatn for beg bigoted, whereas SSAs are not necsarily opposed to homosexualy.

The next largt group was what he lls “pretty exclively gay. “He didn't thk would ever happen, he had rigned himself to beg gay.

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY

(Note that Ksey’s “Sexual Behavr the Human Male” found that only 10 percent of men were "more or ls exclively homosexual.

STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS

Although he once supported nversn therapy, about a ago he me out agast and do not believe that gay people n be ma straight. ” This n mean that a client cis to embrace a gay inty over their relig inty.

I mentned earlier that SSAs are not necsarily anti-gay.

But there are plenty of SSA men who believe that homosexual behavrs are a relig s -- and, as the recent amic brief shows, some are willg to go so far as to policize their inty orr to fight equal rights for gays.

MY HBAND IS GAY BUT WE’RE MARRIED WH TWO KIDS AND HAVE GREAT SEX

There was even a recent TLC documentary, "My Hband's Not Gay, " about Mormon hoeholds Utah posed of same-sex attracted men married to women.

I’M A STRAIGHT WOMAN WHO MARRIED A GAY MAN

"In some ways, a very relig, exclively gay man married to an asexual woman, they n have a very nice iendship, a very wonrful relatnship many ways, and wouldn't be a fay therapist's dream, but would be fe for them. I have always enjoyed seeg men naked and enjoy watchg both gay and MMF pornography.

I quickly disvered that the town I was livg had a number of gay snas and eventually summond up enough urage to cross the threashold of one. There was a TV wh some gay porn on and I sipped my drk while watchg the show and other guys wanrg and out. I had sucked a few cks, been to a gay bathhoe, gay cema/glory hole etc.

I have experienced prostate asms therefore if I were gay, I would be the bottom. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay?

WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY

" Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men. If a hband is gay, n vastate not only the relatnship but the straight wife as well.

Signs of a Gay Hband – Is My Man Gay? The cleart way to know if your hband is gay is if he tells you. If the hband is hont wh both you and wh himself (read: How Do I Know If I Am Gay?

WHAT CAN YOU DO IF YOU THK YOUR WIFE IS GAY?

Signs You Are Gay), that is when you n tly know that he is gay. Unfortunately, is timated that 50% of gay hbands hi their homosexualy om their wiv and don't reach this place of honty on their own. In many s, is the wife, who after spectg that somethg is wrong, mt nont the gay hband wh the evince, and only then n hontly be achieved.

But if you're wonrg, "Is my man gay, " might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, acrdg to Kaye.