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Many of the gay mors surroundg Rupert Grav (Death at a Funeral, Sherlock) seem to be tied to his obssive attentn to his body, like most actors. However the poll suggts that a big majory (88%) of rponnts don't believe that he’s gay.

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MRICE AT 30: THE GAY PERD DRAMA THE WORLD WASN'T READY FOR

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Rupert Grav’s elst son got a nasty shock recently when he went on a school trip to see the 1987 Merchant Ivory adaptatn of EM Forster’s gay love story Mrice. Many of their greatt films evoke a sense of unspoken sire, of any persuasn, simmerg beneath a placid surface of m – a reprsn wh which many a gay person, unable always to eely articulate their romantic self, has been able to empathise. Mrice, a sense, was the duo’s cematic g-out: the story of a young man growg to his homosexualy polely hostile English society, ’s a film that exquisely queers the stiff-upper-lip emotns so central to the Merchant Ivory ’s a slight aloofns to Mrice that is part of s bety.

The film only breath when he fally do, first via a tratg romantic affair wh fellow stunt and social climber Clive Durham (Grant, perfectly his floppy charm years before Four Weddgs and a Funeral) – but ’s heartbreak that giv the film s red-blood there, as a send romantic chapter wh gamekeeper Alec Scudr (Rupert Grav, pletg perhaps the prettit posh-boy triangle screen history) begs, Mrice gas both emotnal sweep and timate psychologil tail: a tame entry may be the LGBT non, but few films have exprsed que so sweetly and nakedly the challeng of simply beg a gay man, partnered or otherwise – how difficult n be to n wh human is not emotnally universal terra, and was a rare subject for prtige herage cema to take on: the film’s rpectful but dispassnate receptn 1987, not an era rich wh queer art the mastream, is no surprise retrospect.

TO BE A GAY MAN BY WILL YOUNG – OUT AND PROUD

Cocintally, hs screens aga the same year that Ivory is baskg the glory of a very different LGBT triumph: now 88, he’s a -wrer on Lu Guadagno’s queer g-of-age rhapsody Call Me By Your Name, a Sundance sensatn that realis the first sh of gay love wh all the woozy sensual excs that Mrice, te to s perd, chews.

"Well, I did Mrice and I did a uple of gay plays and I thk was bee when I was young I was pretty and I was a p-up for a lot of gay people. '"And homosexualy is not his thg? "I've swung between two per cent and 38 per cent gayns, I thk, somethg like that, my life.

"Has he ever had a gay relatnship?

RUPERT GRAV GAY RUMORS?ONLE POLL SHOWS 88 PERCENT DON’T BELIEVE HE’S GAY

I realised I wasn't gay bee the only way I uld really enjoy was to close my ey and image a woman. I thk I wanted to be gay bee I thought was arty and tertg.

On a Saturday night Febary 2002, 14 ln people watched a 23-year-old gay man w a TV pop ntt. It had already n a piece suggtg he’d soon be “whoopg up… at one of Elton John and his lover David Furnish’s timate ltle all-star soire”, addg a “lourful mour” about Young’s school iends beg volved the “homosexual timidatn of younger boys”. It was a landmark revelatn at the time, g only six months after the openly gay Brian Dowlg had won Big Brother; pop culture was val changg attus to homosexualy the early 2000s.

JAM IVORY AND THE MAKG OF A HISTORIC GAY LOVE STORY

“His beg gay was not always the ma topic of nversatn.

This allowed me to see that a gay man uld be accepted as a person; not some kd of monster. ”To Be a Gay Man is a book about gay shame, Young explas, his chatty troductn, and his journey to try and rid himself of .

”Young wr wh the likable fizz he’s kept revealg throughout his succsful pop reer (his latt album, 2019’s Lexin, got to No 2 the charts), and on the podst he -hosted, Homo Sapiens.

JAM IVORY AND JAM WILBY LOOK BACK AT THE MAKG OF ‘MRICE,’ A TIME WHEN GAY HAPPY ENDGS WERE RARE

He rells fdg gay porn onle at home the 1990s (“I’d have to put a towel over the router bee would make a noise like a fax mache… I nnot expla to you how excciatg those 30 sends were”).

It’s shockg how Chris Moyl got away wh a homophobic imprsn of Young on primetime Rad 1 2009.

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