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• GAY RU BOYS UNELEFTöVER CRACKTRACK 5 ON MEDCRE GENERI PRODUCED BYTIM TIMEBOMB & STT STURGEONLEFTöVER CRACK IS KNOWN AS A ANARCHIST-LEFTIST GROUP WH A LOT OF CENDIARY STUFF TO SAY. THOUGH MUCH OF THEIR DISGRAPHY IS ABOUT THE POLICE AND THE STGGL OF… READ MORE SEP. 5, 20001 VIEWER15.9K VIEWS11 CONTRIBUTORSGAY RU BOYS UNE LYRICS[VERSE 1]UNY? HA! YOU'RE SUCH A SAT TODAYYOU MAY BE ANTIRACISTBUT THEN YOU'RE ANTIGAYYOU MAY BE IGNORANT OM A LACK OF TNBUT IF 'S SYMPATHY YOU SEEKYOU BETTER TUNE TO ANOTHER STATN[CHOS]INTOLERANT SOCIETY REARS S UGLY FACEYOU'RE TURNG THE NATIVE MICINTO A HOMOPHOBIC DISGRACETHE GAY ONE, THE STRAIGHT ONETHE WHE, TAN, YELLOW, AND BLACKTHE GAY BOYS AND GIRLS (YEAH-YEAH)ARE GONNA TAKE THE DANCE HALL BACK![POST-CHOS]THEY'LL TAKE BACK!WE'LL TAKE BACK!BEE WHOUT RPECTTHERE'S GONNA BE NOTHG LEFT[VERSE 2]THIS DOUBLE STANDARD JT WON'TS THAT WELL WH MEI E TO SAY THIS ANDTHAT'S JT THE WAY HAS TO BEYOU KNOW I'M NOT PC:I'LL SHOOT YOUR KID AT SCHOOL'CSE HE'S GONNA GROW UP TO BEA FUCK' ASSHOLE JT LIKE YOUYOU MIGHT ALSO LIKEYOU N CELEBRATE YOUR UNYTILL EVERY GAY IS ADBUT WHY DON'T YOU STOP YOUR ONTGWH REAL UNY STEAD?AND ON A BETTER DUMBAND SHTY LTLE GLOBEWE WOULD CCIFY THE RACISTAND BE BASH' ALL THE HOMOPHOB[CHOS]INTOLERANT SOCIETY REARS S UGLY FACEYOU'RE TURNG THE HARDRE MICINTO A HOMOPHOBIC DISGRACETHE GAY ONE, THE STRAIGHT ONETHE WHE, TAN, YELLOW, AND BLACKTHE GAY BOYS AND GIRLS (YEAH-YEAH)ARE GONNA TAKE THE DANCE HALL BACK![POST-CHOS]THEY'LL TAKE BACK!WE'LL TAKE BACK!BEE WHOUT RPECTTHERE'S GONNA BE NOTHG LEFT[GUAR INTERLU][VERSE 3]TWO THOAND-TRIPLE-ZEROSTAND UP AND TAKE A LOOK AROUNDTHIS IGNORANT FUCK' SHSHOULDN'T HAPPEN ANY TOWNSO, E ON, LEAVE THE CLOSETON YOUR WAY OUT, GRAB A BAT'CSE THERE'S A BATTLE TO BE FOUGHTAND THE PRIZE IS FUCKG PHATAUTONOMY OM IGNORANCETHERE'S GOT TO BE A BETTER WAYBUT THE RACIST, SEXIST HOMOPHOBAND PIGGI GOTTA PAYBUT RIGHT NOW, YOU GOTTAGET OUT OF YOUR FUCK' SEATAND JAM OUT TO THE FAGGOT RHYTHMCRACK-ROCKSTEADY BEAT1EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTGENI ANNOTATN1 NTRIBUTORLEFTöVER CRACK IS KNOWN AS A ANARCHIST-LEFTIST GROUP WH A LOT OF CENDIARY STUFF TO SAY. THOUGH MUCH OF THEIR DISGRAPHY IS ABOUT THE POLICE AND THE STGGL OF CLASSISM AND RPTN, THIS TRACK AND ’S SUBJECT IS NOT OUT OF THE ORDARY FOR THIS SKA-PUNK BAND.EXPAND +7SHAREASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “GAY RU BOYS UNE” BY LEFTöVER CRACK?WHEN DID LEFTöVER CRACK RELEASE “GAY RU BOYS UNE”?WHO WROTE “GAY RU BOYS UNE” BY LEFTöVER CRACK?MEDCRE GENERI (2001)LEFTöVER CRACK1. HOMEO-APATHY2. NAZI WHE TRASH3. ATHEIST ANTHEM4. THE GOOD, THE BAD & THE LEFTöVER CRACK5. GAY RU BOYS UNE6. NC7. INTERLU8. STOP THE INSANY9. CRACK CY ROCKERS10. BURNG WATER11. WH THE SICKNS12. BORN TO DIE13. GAY RU BOYS UNE (INSTMENTAL)CREDSPRODUCED BYTIM TIMEBOMB & STT STURGEONWRTEN BYARA BABAJIAN, ALEC “SHBOAT” CRACK, EZRA CRACK & STT STURGEONLABELHELLT RERDS, FAT WRECK CHORDS, NON-COMMERCIAL RERDS & BANKSHOT! RERDSREMASTERED ATCANNON FOUND SOUNDATN & SUCCULENT SOUNDSMASTERED ATSUCCULENT SOUNDS & SONICSHOP, NYC, NYPUBLISHED BYBMI & CRACK STEADY MUZIKCOPYRIGHT ©BANKSHOT! RERDS, FAT WRECK CHORDS & HELLT RERDSPHONOGRAPHIC COPYRIGHT ℗HELLT RERDS, FAT WRECK CHORDS & LEFTöVER CRACKREMASTERG ENGEERJSE CANNON & MIKE TJILLOMASTERGKEV BARTLEYENGEERGMIKE TJILLO & KENNY LIENHARDTDMSARA BABAJIANBASS GUARALEC “SHBOAT” CRACKGUAREZRA CRACKVOLSSTT STURGEONRELEASE DATESEPTEMBER 5, 2000SONGS THAT INTERPOLATE GAY RU BOYS UNEGAY RU BOYS UNE (INSTMENTAL) BY LEFTöVER CRACKTAGSROCKHARDRE PUNKCST PUNKPUNK ROCKSKA PUNKEXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE
• IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?
• THE 'GAY' WORD: WHAT DO MEAN WHEN YOUNG PEOPLE E NEGATIVELY?
• IS LLG A HOMOSEXUAL PERSON “GAY” OFFENSIVE?
• JAGS' MAXEN IS FIRST MALE AMERIN PRO SPORTS ACH TO E OUT AS GAY
• GAY WATER, A NEW NNED CKTAIL, WANTS TO BE THE ANTI-BUD LIGHT
• GAY RU BOYS UNE

GAY RU BOYS UNE

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GAY RU BOYS UNELEFTöVER CRACKTRACK 5 ON MEDCRE GENERI PRODUCED BYTIM TIMEBOMB & STT STURGEONLEFTöVER CRACK IS KNOWN AS A ANARCHIST-LEFTIST GROUP WH A LOT OF CENDIARY STUFF TO SAY. THOUGH MUCH OF THEIR DISGRAPHY IS ABOUT THE POLICE AND THE STGGL OF… READ MORE SEP. 5, 20001 VIEWER15.9K VIEWS11 CONTRIBUTORSGAY RU BOYS UNE LYRICS[VERSE 1]UNY? HA! YOU'RE SUCH A SAT TODAYYOU MAY BE ANTIRACISTBUT THEN YOU'RE ANTIGAYYOU MAY BE IGNORANT OM A LACK OF TNBUT IF 'S SYMPATHY YOU SEEKYOU BETTER TUNE TO ANOTHER STATN[CHOS]INTOLERANT SOCIETY REARS S UGLY FACEYOU'RE TURNG THE NATIVE MICINTO A HOMOPHOBIC DISGRACETHE GAY ONE, THE STRAIGHT ONETHE WHE, TAN, YELLOW, AND BLACKTHE GAY BOYS AND GIRLS (YEAH-YEAH)ARE GONNA TAKE THE DANCE HALL BACK![POST-CHOS]THEY'LL TAKE BACK!WE'LL TAKE BACK!BEE WHOUT RPECTTHERE'S GONNA BE NOTHG LEFT[VERSE 2]THIS DOUBLE STANDARD JT WON'TS THAT WELL WH MEI E TO SAY THIS ANDTHAT'S JT THE WAY HAS TO BEYOU KNOW I'M NOT PC:I'LL SHOOT YOUR KID AT SCHOOL'CSE HE'S GONNA GROW UP TO BEA FUCK' ASSHOLE JT LIKE YOUYOU MIGHT ALSO LIKEYOU N CELEBRATE YOUR UNYTILL EVERY GAY IS ADBUT WHY DON'T YOU STOP YOUR ONTGWH REAL UNY STEAD?AND ON A BETTER DUMBAND SHTY LTLE GLOBEWE WOULD CCIFY THE RACISTAND BE BASH' ALL THE HOMOPHOB[CHOS]INTOLERANT SOCIETY REARS S UGLY FACEYOU'RE TURNG THE HARDRE MICINTO A HOMOPHOBIC DISGRACETHE GAY ONE, THE STRAIGHT ONETHE WHE, TAN, YELLOW, AND BLACKTHE GAY BOYS AND GIRLS (YEAH-YEAH)ARE GONNA TAKE THE DANCE HALL BACK![POST-CHOS]THEY'LL TAKE BACK!WE'LL TAKE BACK!BEE WHOUT RPECTTHERE'S GONNA BE NOTHG LEFT[GUAR INTERLU][VERSE 3]TWO THOAND-TRIPLE-ZEROSTAND UP AND TAKE A LOOK AROUNDTHIS IGNORANT FUCK' SHSHOULDN'T HAPPEN ANY TOWNSO, E ON, LEAVE THE CLOSETON YOUR WAY OUT, GRAB A BAT'CSE THERE'S A BATTLE TO BE FOUGHTAND THE PRIZE IS FUCKG PHATAUTONOMY OM IGNORANCETHERE'S GOT TO BE A BETTER WAYBUT THE RACIST, SEXIST HOMOPHOBAND PIGGI GOTTA PAYBUT RIGHT NOW, YOU GOTTAGET OUT OF YOUR FUCK' SEATAND JAM OUT TO THE FAGGOT RHYTHMCRACK-ROCKSTEADY BEAT1EMBEDCANCELHOW TO FORMAT LYRICS:TYPE OUT ALL LYRICS, EVEN REPEATG SONG PARTS LIKE THE CHOSLYRICS SHOULD BE BROKEN DOWN TO DIVIDUAL LUSE SECTN HEARS ABOVE DIFFERENT SONG PARTS LIKE [VERSE], [CHOS], ETC.USE ALICS (<I>LYRIC</I>) AND BOLD (<B>LYRIC</B>) TO DISTGUISH BETWEEN DIFFERENT VOLISTS THE SAME SONG PARTIF YOU DON’T UNRSTAND A LYRIC, E [?]TO LEARN MORE, CHECK OUT OUR TRANSCRIPTN GUI OR VIS OUR TRANSCRIBERS FOMABOUTGENI ANNOTATN1 NTRIBUTORLEFTöVER CRACK IS KNOWN AS A ANARCHIST-LEFTIST GROUP WH A LOT OF CENDIARY STUFF TO SAY. THOUGH MUCH OF THEIR DISGRAPHY IS ABOUT THE POLICE AND THE STGGL OF CLASSISM AND RPTN, THIS TRACK AND ’S SUBJECT IS NOT OUT OF THE ORDARY FOR THIS SKA-PUNK BAND.EXPAND +7SHAREASK A QUTN ABOUT THIS SONGASK A QUTN *‌WHO PRODUCED “GAY RU BOYS UNE” BY LEFTöVER CRACK?WHEN DID LEFTöVER CRACK RELEASE “GAY RU BOYS UNE”?WHO WROTE “GAY RU BOYS UNE” BY LEFTöVER CRACK?MEDCRE GENERI (2001)LEFTöVER CRACK1. HOMEO-APATHY2. NAZI WHE TRASH3. ATHEIST ANTHEM4. THE GOOD, THE BAD & THE LEFTöVER CRACK5. GAY RU BOYS UNE6. NC7. INTERLU8. STOP THE INSANY9. CRACK CY ROCKERS10. BURNG WATER11. WH THE SICKNS12. BORN TO DIE13. GAY RU BOYS UNE (INSTMENTAL)CREDSPRODUCED BYTIM TIMEBOMB & STT STURGEONWRTEN BYARA BABAJIAN, ALEC “SHBOAT” CRACK, EZRA CRACK & STT STURGEONLABELHELLT RERDS, FAT WRECK CHORDS, NON-COMMERCIAL RERDS & BANKSHOT! RERDSREMASTERED ATCANNON FOUND SOUNDATN & SUCCULENT SOUNDSMASTERED ATSUCCULENT SOUNDS & SONICSHOP, NYC, NYPUBLISHED BYBMI & CRACK STEADY MUZIKCOPYRIGHT ©BANKSHOT! RERDS, FAT WRECK CHORDS & HELLT RERDSPHONOGRAPHIC COPYRIGHT ℗HELLT RERDS, FAT WRECK CHORDS & LEFTöVER CRACKREMASTERG ENGEERJSE CANNON & MIKE TJILLOMASTERGKEV BARTLEYENGEERGMIKE TJILLO & KENNY LIENHARDTDMSARA BABAJIANBASS GUARALEC “SHBOAT” CRACKGUAREZRA CRACKVOLSSTT STURGEONRELEASE DATESEPTEMBER 5, 2000SONGS THAT INTERPOLATE GAY RU BOYS UNEGAY RU BOYS UNE (INSTMENTAL) BY LEFTöVER CRACKTAGSROCKHARDRE PUNKCST PUNKPUNK ROCKSKA PUNKEXPAND COMMENTSADD A MENTSIGN UP AND DROP KNOWLEDGE ?GENI IS THE ULTIMATE SOURCE OF MIC KNOWLEDGE, CREATED BY SCHOLARS LIKE YOU WHO SHARE FACTS AND SIGHT ABOUT THE SONGS AND ARTISTS THEY LOVE.SIGN UPGENI IS THE WORLD’S BIGGT LLECTN OF SONG LYRICS AND MIL KNOWLEDGE

"Even though you're gay, you're still very much a man"Sexual inty and genr have no alignment.

All gays guys aren't the flamboyant, 'girl-ish' archetyp that are portrayed on TV and all men aren't mcular and mascule. "Jt bee your gay btie isn't sexually attracted to you, means that he wants to s through a round of 'boost my nfince by tellg me my vaga looks nice.

"All gay guys aren't fashn savy!

IS FLIRTG BETWEEN GAY AND STRAIGHT MEN OKAY?

All gay guy aren't shop-a-holics! "I'm havg a dner party and we would love to have a gay uple, are you ee?

"Gay men are not the latt accsory. Gtur like this n send a clear msage to the gay men your life on how you really view them.

Gay men have the luxury of fg their own relatnships and the normalci will clu. A gay man enjoyg a game of football isn't the strangt thg.

THE 'GAY' WORD: WHAT DO MEAN WHEN YOUNG PEOPLE E NEGATIVELY?

A gay man cheerg on is favore sports team is not one of them. Are we gay people?

IS LLG A HOMOSEXUAL PERSON “GAY” OFFENSIVE?

I n fd ltle evince of this on the ter, but sce gay culture is passed down through hearsay and gossip, I’m cludg this. Some archivist or queer historian may rroborate or squash this ia, one I heard om a gay elr and pass on to you — that “queer” was actually the word preferred by the first wave of queens, h om the closet, sweatg word-of-mouth disthequ that migrated through the cy.

Acrdg to the ter, “queer” first beme an antigay slur durg the trials of Osr Wil.

So many zgers are rerd om those trials that this seems plsible: Sir John Douglas, the Marqus of Queensbury (serly), who first lled Wil a sodome and lnched the gay playwright’s epic mise, reportedly lled Wil a “snob queer” durg the proceedgs.

JAGS' MAXEN IS FIRST MALE AMERIN PRO SPORTS ACH TO E OUT AS GAY

A mon slogan you n still fd on T-shirts and queer bars across the untry is “Not gay as happy, but queer as ‘fuck you. “Queer” addrs the fluidy of genr and sexual orientatn and f those who e as people foced on problems largely ignored by the gay rights movement: racism, wage equaly, women’s rights, transphobia, and so on.

People wh inti outsi “gay, straight, or bi” feel reprented by “queer. Homo. “Homo” is still a slur to many gay men, but jt as “queer” beme a power term, “homo” has seen a recent surge populary.

GAY WATER, A NEW NNED CKTAIL, WANTS TO BE THE ANTI-BUD LIGHT

I love “homo” bee sounds clil and scientific. A s love to ll homosexuals.

The word beme cemented antigay lgo wh the famo CBS Reports episo “The Homosexuals, ” which aired on March 7, 1967 (I would be born on the same day 25 years later).

The episo claimed homosexualy was an illns gay men uld treat if they tried. “Homo” is antagonistic, unpretent, and sort of funny.

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It pok fun at For: Who don’t love a homo?

Case Agast: If you were ever lled a “homo” by a homophobe, you might hate . “Limp-wristed” is an offensive way to scribe gay men, particularly feme guys. Cue discsn about gay misogyny.

“Dyke” is the most wily known lbian slur, one many gay women have embraced. A self-intified gay woman, she rried the bt sign the crowd, one that exemplified slur-reclamatn: “DYKE: We might not go down history, but we’ll do down on your sister!