A Gui for Gay Men on Both Open and Monogamo Marriage | Psychology Today

Contents:

• IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND
• WHAT IS THE STATE OF GAY MARRIAGE THE US?
• HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
• KEV SPACEY: I N’T TELL WHETHER MEN ARE GAY JT BY LOOKG AT THEM
• A GUI FOR GAY MEN ON BOTH OPEN AND MONOGAMO MARRIAGE
• FDG OUT YOUR SPOE IS GAY
• HERE’S WHAT LIFE IS LIKE WHEN YOU’RE GAY BUT MARRY HETERO
• I WAS MARRIED WH 2 KIDS WHEN I REALIZED I’M GAY

IS MY HBAND GAY? SIGNS OF A GAY HBAND

It was an excg day for gay upl who had been hopg to legally tie-the-knot (and an excg day for everyone who believ #loveislove), and we're celebratg wh a pri-filled celebry weddg roundup. By the way, Ellen announced her plans to wed Portia durg a tapg of The Ellen Show, after California's Supreme Court reversed their ban on gay marriage. Lance and Michael ma history as the first gay uple to have their weddg televised on Amerin TV, and their special, Lance Lov Michael: The Lance Bass Weddg, is fely worth watchg.

WHAT IS THE STATE OF GAY MARRIAGE THE US?

Comedian Wanda Syk and her wife, Alex, got hched 2008 (a month before Wanda me out as gay). The uple are pretty private about their relatnship, but Wanda did open up about her thoughts on the ristance toward gay marriage beg legalized. Sometim a woman may have been a heterosexual relatnship for years and yet feel somethg is somehow "off;" and she may fd herself askg, "Is my hband gay?

" Many women fd this qutn unthkable but acrdg to Bonnie Kaye,, an expert women married to gay men, is timated that 4 ln women have been, or are, married to gay men. If a hband is gay, n vastate not only the relatnship but the straight wife as well.

Signs of a Gay Hband – Is My Man Gay?

HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY

The cleart way to know if your hband is gay is if he tells you. If the hband is hont wh both you and wh himself (read: How Do I Know If I Am Gay? Signs You Are Gay), that is when you n tly know that he is gay.

KEV SPACEY: I N’T TELL WHETHER MEN ARE GAY JT BY LOOKG AT THEM

Unfortunately, is timated that 50% of gay hbands hi their homosexualy om their wiv and don't reach this place of honty on their own. In many s, is the wife, who after spectg that somethg is wrong, mt nont the gay hband wh the evince, and only then n hontly be achieved. But if you're wonrg, "Is my man gay, " might be helpful to know that there are signs to look for, acrdg to Kaye.

A GUI FOR GAY MEN ON BOTH OPEN AND MONOGAMO MARRIAGE

Kaye has veloped the Official Gay Hband Checklist to help women know if their hbands are gay. Signs Your Hband or Man May Be Gay. You fd pop-ups of gay pornography on the puter while he claims they are not his.

He adms to havg a homosexual enunter the past. He viss gay bars claimg he's there only to hang out wh his gay iend(s).

FDG OUT YOUR SPOE IS GAY

He watch porno movi wh gay male scen. He mak ntual homophobic ments or he mak too many gay ments nversatns.

HERE’S WHAT LIFE IS LIKE WHEN YOU’RE GAY BUT MARRY HETERO

His ego appears to be boosted by pliments om gay men. The signs a hband is gay are not meant to be five.

I WAS MARRIED WH 2 KIDS WHEN I REALIZED I’M GAY

A hband may be gay and display none of those signs or a hband may display the signs and not be gay. The signs of a gay hband are signed as a startg pot. Kaye advis that women "follow their stcts" when cidg whether their hband may be gay.

What If My Hband is Gay? If turns out that a hband is, fact, gay, the fallout n be difficult to al wh, particularly for the straight partner. (If you're thkg that you n cure the gay by havg your hband go to gay nversn therapy, read this.

What's important to remember is that the hband's homosexualy is entirely his rponsibily and has nothg to do wh the wife. The wife has not been aquate any way and likely the gay hband married her bee he tly red about her.