A gay-owned Virgia rtrant is a dispute wh s neighbors - Washgton Post

Contents:

• A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.
• IF YOU SAY BEG GAY IS NOT AIN, YOU DON’T KNOW YOUR HISTORY
• GAY XHOSA MEN’S EXPERIENC OF ULWALO (TRADNAL MALE IATN)
• HISTORIC PHOTOS OF AIN-AMERIN GAY MEN UNEARTHED
• UGANDA GAY ON MOVE

A GAY UPLE RAN A RAL RTRANT PEACE. THEN NEW NEIGHBORS ARRIVED.

The bsman and his wife, Melissa, first plaed to the Front Porch proprietors about pre-dawn vendor liveri 2019, not long after the nservative Christian uple moved their fancial firm right next door to the rtrant, which fli a gay Pri flag. (Front Porch Market and Grill)What’s more, the Washers say, the ad rat was jt one more sult that the uple, who once planted an “all liv matter” sign their ont yard, have endured sce movg next door to a rtrant owned by a gay uple.

They married 2020, five years after they opened the Front Porch, which quickly beme a statn The Front Porch has been flyg a Pri flag on s pat sce 2016, not long after a gunman killed 49 people a gay bar Orlando. “I had so many threats agast me that even the Dallas police statned squad rs outsi our home, ” Waybourn an activist, Waybourn says, his goals were clear: same-sex marriage, gays and lbians the ary, accs to lifavg medic. “I have que a few gay iends, clients and a fay member, and I have patronized a gay-owned rtrant for years, ” he whether the Washers are tryg to remake The Plas to their image of Ameri — Whe, nservative, Christian — Melissa said, “I n see where you’re g om.

”This is the same argument that Robert Mugabe ed to supprs the human rights of LGBT people Zimbabwe; that the former print of Nigeria, Goodluck Jonathan, ed when he signed the most dangero law agast LGBT people the morn world; and that Print Yoweri Meveni ed a ceremonial signg of the anti-gay bill Uganda. This year Gambia’s print Yahya Jammeh lled for gay people’s throats to be I was appoted by Berl’s Humboldt Universy this year to teach the urse “Pre- and post-lonial sexual orientatn and sexual inty Ai”, I knew I had a huge task before me. I had to teach stunts about a history that is mostly diggg up facts I found that, while many Ains say that homosexualy is un-Ain, Ain culture is no stranger to homosexual behavurs and example, my lol language (Yoba), the word for “homosexual” is adofuro, a lloquialism for someone who has anal sex.

IF YOU SAY BEG GAY IS NOT AIN, YOU DON’T KNOW YOUR HISTORY

Though Kg Mwanga is the most proment Ain rerd as beg openly gay, he was not Boy-Wiv and Female Hbands, a book examg homosexualy and femism Ai, the rearchers found ‘‘explic” Bhman artwork that picts men engagg same-sex sexual activy. It is the reason I receive ath threats, which ultimately drove me to exile om my home long as the notn that homosexualy is un-Ain persists, Kenyatta will receive applse, Mugabe will w electns, and parliaments across the ntent will retroduce harmful stop all this, we need to start by re-tellg our history and rememberg our te Ain culture, one that celebrat diversy, promot equaly and acceptance, and regnis the ntributn of everyone, whatever their sexualy. While homosexualy remas a target for vilifitn and abe both Southern Ai and across the Ain ntent, practic such as ulwalo (tradnal male iatn) mt surely be among the most threateng to a young gay Xhosa man’s self-teem.

Alors que l’homosexualé mre une cible du dénigrement et s ab, à la fois en Aique du Sud et à travers le ntent ai, certa tradns, tell que ulwalo, font sûrement partie s pratiqu l pl menaçant pour l’time soi s jn homm gays xhosas. Si bien tanto en el sur Ái o en otros lugar l ntente aino la homosexualidad ntúa siendo nigrada y blan abo, s duda las práctis o el ulwalo se encuentran entre las más timidatorias para la totima l joven xhosa gay.

However, current legislatn South Ai also allows gay/homosexual men to marry (Republic of South Ai 2006) and father children, although there is ristance to this om wh adoptn agenci, and lbians are preferred when to adoptg (Brodzsky and Pertman 2011). As a rult of their non-nformy to heteropatriarchal notns of masculy, gay iat may, therefore, face add challeng at iatn school orr for them to ga acceptance, as their sexual orientatn may be viewed as promisg the sacredns of the practice (Henrson and Shefer 2008; Mavundla et al.

GAY XHOSA MEN’S EXPERIENC OF ULWALO (TRADNAL MALE IATN)

South Ai although progrsive s legislatn agast discrimatn on the basis of homosexualy ‘remas a homophobic, heterosexist society where, across cultur, homosexualy is pathologised, and where cultural disurs such as the notn that “homosexualy is not Ain” ntue to play themselv out’ (Henrson and Shefer 2008, 4; see also Chard et al.

HISTORIC PHOTOS OF AIN-AMERIN GAY MEN UNEARTHED

South Ai has set up a range of legal and nstutnal mechanisms to promote lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and tersex rights, om nstutnal protectn agast discrimatn on the basis of sexual orientatn, to the acceptance of gay marriage 2005 the Constutnal Court and the subsequent Civil Unns Act (Republic of South Ai 2006) and other homosexual men transgrs certa aspects of hegemonic masculy, but are still required to negotiate their inti relatn to domant ias of what means to be a man wh a particular cultural ntext. This is also te the ntext of ulwalo, where gay men challenge some aspects of the rual that they do not intify wh, or where they purposefully participate the rual to disprove normative notns of is central to the nstctn of masculy, and men’s theorists such as Connell (2005) and Hearn (2004) mata that there is a hierarchy wh masculy whereby certa forms of masculy (hegemonic masculi) are nsired more honourable and domant than others. The were experienc of ulwalo, downplayg ulwalo, rejectn of isikhwetha vobulary, ulwalo perceived as a means to nvert gay men, ulwalo ed to disprove socially nstcted notns of manhood and, lastly, homosexual acts at iatn.

UGANDA GAY ON MOVE

a 19-year-old openly homosexual man, explaed as follows:My teractn wh the other iat was good but sometim I felt sperately lonely and there was no one to unrstand how I feel but I was tryg to be the bt that I n be there. And I get along well wh them so there were no problems, but there were a few of them that put a lot of prsure on me, but sce I’m a people’s person and I like beg wh people, and I don’t try to nvert straight people to beg gay and I never proposed love to anyone and didn’t re about those thgs, I did not experience any problemsSenzo felt that due to his personaly he did not experience any ‘problems’ wh other iat. Siar fdgs regardg this me om Sipho, a 21-year-old, fal-year universy stunt and member of the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and tersex social movement at his universy, and Thabo, a 19-year-old first-year stunt and member the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and tersex movement at his universy:When they were dog that cultural iatn language thg I ed to seat my hut ‘z I didn’t know what I had to learn that for when I knew I will not e outsi.

In the group discsn, emerged that fai hoped that pictns of manhood at the school would be so appealg to iat that they would reject earlier notns and beliefs they had regardg homosexualy and th ‘choose’ to be heterosexual:Thabo: My grandfather ma sure that I had harsh, harsh treatment; he sisted that I had no privileg you know …Themba: So your grandfather’s wish were for you to be hard, more of a man? Siar fdgs emerged the acunt of Themba, a 21-year-old third-year universy stunt and member of the lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr and tersex social movement at his universy:I’m gay so I see no pot of dog bee I know I’m not gog to change who I am bee of circumcisn.