Why Straight Women Are Attracted to Gay Men | Psychology Today

Contents:

• OPEN POST: WHY STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO GAY OR BI MEN
• WHAT'S THE SCIENCE BEHD STRAIGHT WOMEN LIKG GAY MEN?
• WHY STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO GAY MEN
• STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS

OPEN POST: WHY STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO GAY OR BI MEN

Acrdg to the CDC, one 2 gay black men the south is fected wh the vis that AIDS (acquired immune ficiency syndrome). Black men (and women) have overtaken whe gay mal as the populatn most at risk for ntractg HIV fectns. There is an crease the numbers of straight women who are knowgly datg gay or bisexual men.

The numbers are soberg: black women are send only to gay men as the tegory wh the hight HIV ntractns. Why are so many black women and women of lor datg or marryg bisexual and gay men?

Acrdg to Psychology Today, most women who fall for gay men are secure and seekg a relatnship where they are emotnally attracted to the man rather than sexually attracted to him. I hope this helps expla why celebri such as Blac Chyna, Tamar Braxton, Toni Braxton, Kim Kardashian, and others are emotnally attracted to bi and gay men.

WHAT'S THE SCIENCE BEHD STRAIGHT WOMEN LIKG GAY MEN?

An earlier versn of this post was eded to rrect the followg: “One 2 gay black men the south is fected wh the vis that AIDS. This article first appeared on The years, iendships between straight women and gay men have been a subject of pop culture fascatn.

Books, televisn shows and feature-length films have all highlighted this unique relatnship, noted for s closens and wh society's attus toward gays and lbians changg, 's bee all the more important to build a holistic unrstandg of the relatnships between gay and straight a rearcher social psychology, I've often wonred: Why do straight female-gay male relatnships work so well? Why are straight women so drawn to havg gay men as iends? Specifilly, I believe evolutnary psychology and human matg n help expla why relatnships between straight women and gay men tend to flourish.

WHY STRAIGHT WOMEN ARE ATTRACTED TO GAY MEN

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STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS

Crackg the why and whenRecently, my lleagu and I at the Universy of Texas at Arlgton veloped a seri of four related tled the four studi "Why (and When) Straight Women Tst Gay Men: Ulterr Matg Motiv and Female Competn, " wh the hope of better tablishg why straight women tst gay men and when straight women would be most likely to seek out gay men for iendship and the first study, I wanted to replite the fdg that women tst gay men more than straight men or straight women. This time, however, I wanted to see if women would only tst gay men's datg-related advice as opposed to other typ of turns out straight women only tsted a gay man's advice about a potential boyiend more than the same advice om, say, a straight man or another straight woman.