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How do queer men navigate an stutn not signed for them? Therapist Michael Dale Kimmel offers clu his new book, The Gay Man's Gui to Open and Monogamo Marriage. Check out an exclive excerpt below.

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"Thoughtful and nvcgly argued . . . Rch's imprsive book is as enthiastic an enium to marriage as anyone, gay or straight, uld wre." —... * books on gay marriage *

Supreme Court legalized gay marriage natnally two years 2020, Nevada beme the first state to ensure the right to same-sex marriage s state nstutn. Garrow, The Washgton Post Book World In May 2004, gay marriage beme legal Massachetts, but remas a divisive and ntent issue across Ameri.

As liberals and nservativ mobilize around this issue, no one has e forward wh a more pellg, prehensive, and readable se for gay marriage than Jonathan Rch. In this book, he puts forward a clear and hont manifto explag why gay marriage is important—even ccial—to the health of marriage Ameri today, groundg his argument monsense, mastream valu and nontg social nservativ on their own turf. In the book, we'll follow two upl as they explore how to handle the sire for sex outsi their gay upl do want monogamy.

Many of my upled gay clients, havg examed tradnal heterosexual marriage-based relatnships, fd them lackg. While this is a ntroversial issue, 's also an opportuny for as married or potentially-married gay men to be social pneers and make our own way.

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And I'm not jt talkg about sex my years of workg wh upl, I've noticed that gay upl typilly experience two challeng more tensely than do oppose-sex or lbian upl: petn and nflict. But, too much petn leads to nflict, and nflict a double ttosterone marriage n easily lead to arguments that late out of ntrol both verbally and the other end of the ttosterone spectm, I've noticed that creasg ttosterone levels are often related to lower levels of sexual satisfactn (and more open relatnships) gay upl their forti and fifti.

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If sex has been a major rnerstone of our marriag/relatnships and we h an age where our sexual sir and libido take a dive, we may hope that openg up our relatnship will be jt the panacea we're lookg be blunt -- ttosterone n make too horny when we're younger (creatg trouble marriag), and too disterted sex when we're marriage has been a long time g -- a few thoand years or so -- and now that 's fally here, many gay, bisexual and transgenr men may thk that 's a bad ia to "rock the boat" by discsg the kds of ias that this book prents. I believe that now is the perfect time to qutn what gay marriage n, should and will be, while is still relatively new, h and the double ttosterone marriage, "monogamy or open relatnship? Excerpted om Michael Dale Kimmel's The Gay Man's Gui to Open and Monogamo Marriage, released this month by Rowman & Ltlefield.

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"Basilly, what says is, bee somethg like creatg a webse would be eedom of exprsn or speech, this would also — let's flip on s head — would protect a gay web signer om havg to create a bigoted, anti-LGBTQ webse. "You don't know somebody's gay unls you ask them, so if the web signer says, 'Um, we're booked up, ' they don't have to al wh that other stuff this woman ma this about.

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" Goldberg prsed on, tellg Griff, "This is about beg able to say, 'I don't want to do a gay person's webse, ' that's what this is about. Advertisement - Contue Readg Below16Cy of Night by John Rechy16Cy of Night by John RechyNow 11% OffCred: Grove PrsTake a trip to the unrground world of gay htlers, drag queens, and sex workers this book that sndalized the lerary world when first me out but went on to bee a mt-read. As a lover of books and gay stuff, I’ve been thrilled to watch the slow and steady crease queer lerature over the years.

But as I said this year when I skipped pri celebratns for the send year a row due to ncerns about the panmic, I’m gay all year. Héctor Muñoz is stgglg to adjt to his new town and school, where beg gay mak him feel like an outsir.

3 billn people, many of whom do not lead tradnal heteronormative liv, and havg a rich tradn of homosexualy and genr fluidy, people om the LGBTQIA+ muny are still margalised and mistreated India.

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Combg multiple storyl to one stunng novel, A Life Apart, als wh issu of Colonial India, the vlence faced by homosexuals as well as the problems of gay sex work current tim, amongst other here.

01THE MISTRY OF UTMOST HAPPSANDHATI ROYHOW N ONE GO WRONG WH ANDHATI ROY? AND WHEN SHE WR ABOUT AN INTERSEX CHARACTER G TO TERMS WH THEIR OWN SEXUALY, YOU KNOW ’S GOG TO BE A BETIFUL READ. IN THE MISTRY OF UTMOST HAPPS, AFTAB, BORN A MALE, TRANSNS TO ANJUM, AN TERSEX MLIM WOMAN WHO STRIV TO PROTECT HER MUNY AFTER WNSG MUNAL RTS. NOT ONLY IS THIS BOOK A MENTARY ON CURRENT DAY INDIA, BUT ALSO TACKL THE PLEX SUBJECT OF GENR INTIFITN. BUY HERE. 02KARIAMTA PATILWHAT BETTER WAY TO UNRSTAND SOCIETY THAN TO SEE A GLIMPSE OF A BETIFULLY PICTED STUNNG GRAPHIC NOVEL? IN KARI, TWO YOUNG LBIAN LOVERS ARE DRIVEN TO ATTEMPT SUICI. THEY SURVIVE, BUT ARE FORCED TO GO THEIR SEPARATE WAYS, AND THIS GRAPHIC NOVEL FOC ON THE STORY OF THE EPONYMO KARI. IT TELLS OF HER STGGL TABLISHG HER OWN INTY A TYPIL MORN CY, PRIMARILY HABED BY HETEROSEXUALS AND WHERE LBIANISM IS STILL NSIRED ABNORMAL. THIS BOOK IS A GREAT WAY TO UNRSTAND THE ISSU WH HETERONORMATIVY. BUY HERE. 03A LIFE APARTNEEL MHERJEENEEL MHERJEE’S MAN BOOKER PRIZE SHORTLISTG AND CROSSWORD AWARD-WNG WORK IS A LOT MORE THAN JT A ‘QUEER STORY’. IT IS LAYERED, PLEX, AND TRANSVERS ACROSS SECTNS OF SOCIETI AS WELL AS OF TIME. A YOUNG RWIK GO TO OXFORD TO STUDY, BUT SPENDS MORE TIME ‘CISG’ PUBLIC MEN’S TOILETS, MRS. GILBY LIV AN INDIA THAT IS TRANSNG OM COLONIAL LE TO PENNCE AND MRS. CAMERON ALS WH THE ATH OF HER GAY SON. COMBG MULTIPLE STORYL TO ONE STUNNG NOVEL, A LIFE APART, ALS WH ISSU OF COLONIAL INDIA, THE VLENCE FACED BY HOMOSEXUALS AS WELL AS THE PROBLEMS OF GAY SEX WORK CURRENT TIM, AMONGST OTHER TOPICS.BUY HERE. 04THE TTH ABOUT ME: A HIJRA LIFE STORYA. REVATHI & V. GEETHA (TR.)THE TOBGRAPHY OF A. REVATHI, A TRANSSEXUAL WOMAN WHO IS A LEADG ACTIVIST AND A STRONG VOICE FOR THE HIJRA MUNY, IS A MT-READ TO UNRSTAND THE ISSU FACED BY TRANSSEXUALS AND TERSEX INDIA. ASSIGNED THE MALE GENR AT BIRTH AND NAMED DORIASAMY, REVATHI WAS BULLIED MERCILSLY FOR HER FEME WAYS GROWG UP. IT ULTIMATELY DROVE HER TO N AWAY OM HOME, START LIVG WH THE HIJRA MUNY, UNRGO A PAFUL SEX-CHANGE OPERATN AND RORT TO SEX WORK TO MAKE ENDS MEET. SHE FALLY BE A FAMO ACTIVIST AND THIS BOOK TELLS OF THE PIABLE NDNS WHICH HIJRAS HAVE TO LIVE, THE SEXUAL ABE THEY FACE BY POLICEMEN, THE LACK OF EARNG OPPORTUNI AND THE PREJUDICE, SRN AND EVEN FEAR AFFORD TO THEM BY SOCIETY.BUY HERE. 05A MARRIED WOMANMANJU KAPURTHIS BOOK IS THE STORY OF ASTHA, A WOMAN WHO HAS HAD A TRADNAL ARRANGED MARRIAGE WH A LOVG AND RG BUT NSERVATIVE MAN. SHE HAS TWO CHILDREN AND IS HAPPY ENOUGH WH HER LIFE, BUT REALIS THAT SHE IS ATTRACTED TO WOMEN WHEN SHE ENUNTERS A YOUNGER WOMAN WHO IS A SOCIAL ACTIVIST. ASTHA STGGL TO E TO TERMS WH HER SEXUALY BUT ULTIMATELY REALIS SHE N ONLY BE TLY HAPPY WHEN SHE IS WH THE WOMAN SHE LOV, EVEN IF MEANS FYG SOCIETAL AND FAIAL EXPECTATNS. GIVEN WE LIVE A UNTRY WHERE MANY PEOPLE LIVE THEIR LIV WHOUT EVEN REALISG THEIR SEXUAL PREFERENC AND NEEDS, THIS IS AN IMPORTANT READ.BUY HERE. 06THE MAN WHO WOULD BE QUEENHOSHANG MERCHANTTHIS TOBGRAPHIL FICTN, WRTEN THE FORM OF LYRIC SAYS, TELLS THE STORY OF HOSHANG MERCHANT, AN OUT AND PROUD GAY MAN, WHO HAS HAD TO AL WH DYSFUNCTNAL PARENTS, UNACCEPTG SISTERS AND REJECTN OM LOVERS BEE THEY WERE SRED TO E OUT OF THE CLOSET. VIVIDLY SCRIBG HIS SEXUAL ENUNTERS, MERCHANT DON’T SHY AWAY OM TELLG HOW IS- BE THE ISSU RELATED WH BEG OUT A SOCIETY THAT IS PRIMARILY HETEROSEXUAL OR THE NEED FOR CLANSTE AFFAIRS FOR FEAR OF SOCIETAL BACKLASH. THIS BOOK PATS AN ACCURATE BUT YET BETIFULLY WRTEN PICTURE OF WHAT IS TO GROW UP GAY INDIA.BUY HERE. 07SAME-SEX LOVE IN INDIA: A LERARY HISTORYRUTH VANA (ED.) & SALEEM KIDWAI (ED.)IT IS FOOLISH TO THK THAT ‘GAY LERATURE’ IS A NSTCT OF MORN TIM. AS FAR BACK AS 2,000 YEARS AGO, WRGS THAT AL WH HOMOSEXUALY AND GENR FLUIDY HAVE BEEN FOUND. IN SAME-SEX LOVE IN INDIA, VANA AND KIDWAI LLATE AND ED LERARY WORKS OM ANCIENT INDIAN EPICS SUCH AS THE MAHABHARATA, RELIG TEXTS SUCH AS THE RIG VEDA, AND EVEN PRENT-DAY LERARY FICTN. THE WORKS RANGE OM MEMOIRS, BGRAPHI, SHORT STORI, EXCERPTS OM NOVELS AND EVEN LETTERS, AND ALL NTA HOMOSEXUAL THEM. THIS BOOK WILL PROVE THAT ‘QUEERNS’ IS A PART OF INDIAN TRADN AND THE TABOO ASSOCIATED WH IS A RELATIVELY MORN PHENOMENON. BUY HERE. 08MY MAGIL PALACEKUNAL MHERJEEIN MY MAGIL PALACE, RAHUL AND ANDREW ARE LEADG A NTENT LIFE AS A UPLE SAN FRANCIS, BUT RAHUL SUDNLY BE WHDRAWN AND PENSIVE. ANDREW DISVERS THAT RAHUL IS BEG FORCED TO ‘TERVIEW’ GIRLS FOR AN ARRANGED MARRIAGE AT THE BEHT OF HIS PARENTS. ANDREW ASKS RAHUL TO CHOOSE BETWEEN HIM AND A CLOSETED LIFE ONCE AND FOR ALL, BUT IS NOT AN EASY CISN. RAHUL THEN PROCEEDS TO TELL ANDREW ABOUT HIS GROWG UP YEARS, ABOUT HIS STGGL WH ACCEPTG HIS OWN SEXUALY, AND THE DIFFICULTY OF GROWG UP GAY 1970S INDIA. NOT ONLY WILL THIS G-OF-AGE STORY TOUCH YOUR HEART, BUT YOU WILL ALSO APPRECIATE HOW FAR INDIA HAS E OM BEG A PLETELY HOMOPHOBIC SOCIETY TO CRIMALISG HOMOSEXUALY.BUY HERE. 09

06The Man Who Would Be QueenHoshang MerchantThis tobgraphil fictn, wrten the form of lyric says, tells the story of Hoshang Merchant, an out and proud gay man, who has had to al wh dysfunctnal parents, unacceptg sisters and rejectn om lovers bee they were sred to e out of the closet.

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The works range om memoirs, bgraphi, short stori, excerpts om novels and even letters, and all nta homosexual them.

Rahul then proceeds to tell Andrew about his growg up years, about his stggl wh acceptg his own sexualy, and the difficulty of growg up gay 1970s India. Not only will this g-of-age story touch your heart, but you will also appreciate how far India has e om beg a pletely homophobic society to crimalisg here.

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LGBTQIA+ rights activist Vikram Doctor has wrten the foreword, and this book will make you realise homosexualy and queerns is not rtricted only to big ci and ‘morn’ Room 131R. Raj RaoThis book is the love story of two young men as they battle society and rampant homophobia to stay together and make a se for the eedom of love. A young outspoken gay man, Siddharth, falls love wh Sudhir, who liv his hostel, and they bee a uple.

Divid to four sectns, each part vers a different timele of their story om when they meet and fall love to when Siddharth fac harassment at the hands of an ‘anti-Siddharth’ homophobic group om Sudhir’s hometown.

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