The show "My Hband’s Not Gay” has ed an uproar.
Contents:
- STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS
- HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
- THE LBIAN WRER AND HER FLAMBOYANT GAY HBAND
- 'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN
STRAIGHT WOMEN AND THEIR GAY HBANDS
* what's it like to have a gay husband *
My Hband’s Not Gay, a show on TLC, has ed an uproar. Why do some people bee so outspoken and judgmental about marriag wh one straight and one gay spoe? Fally, the relatnships suggt to some people “reparative therapy, ” the uhil and impossible claim that a person n be changed om gay to straight.
HOW TO COPE WHEN YOUR SPOE COM OUT AS GAY
The men this televisn program aren’t claimg to be ex-gay nor that they n change their sexual orientatn (at least not on the show). They report they are attracted to men but choose not to live as a gay man and their straight wiv accept this. People seem to get up arms when a man says he is not gay but rather simply attracted to men.
In our culture, we intify ourselv via a sexual-attractn bary: gay or straight. Later, their gay sexual inti surface and here they are—heterosexually married wh children. Many straight women married to gay men nscly choose to do so wh their ey wi open.
THE LBIAN WRER AND HER FLAMBOYANT GAY HBAND
There are plenty of wiv who choose to stay married even after fdg out later the marriage that their hband is gay and attracted to men.
They make this choice wh open discsns, which are very paful and emotnal for both the gay man and the straight wife.
” To the man, I say, “Consir whether you n really keep your homosexual feelgs and sir check.
'DID I EVER REALLY KNOW HIM?': THE WOMEN WHO MARRIED GAY MEN
You might be able to claim your inty by meetg ocsnally wh gay men, stayg touch on Facebook, and lettg your gay iends know that you want to rema sexually fahful to your wife. I warn mixed-orientatn upl that he may feel differently later life and his gayns may surface more strongly and bee more of an inty for him and th bee an issue their marriage.