“I thk you’re gay. That’s okay. You’re my son, I love you.” | Vogue

Contents:

• THREE INSIGHTS OM PEOPLE WHO REALIZED THEY WERE GAY LATER LIFE
• 17 SIGNS YOU'RE ACTUALLY GAY (AND JT DON'T KNOW IT)
• HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY
• "I REALIZED I WAS GAY": MEN WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE ARE SHARG WHAT IT WAS LIKE FOR THEM TO REVEAL THAT TTH AND LIVE AUTHENTILLY
• “I THK YOU’RE GAY. THAT’S OKAY. YOU’RE MY SON, I LOVE YOU.”
• AM I GAY? UNRSTANDG YOUR INTY
• AM I GAY?

THREE INSIGHTS OM PEOPLE WHO REALIZED THEY WERE GAY LATER LIFE

Gay.

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17 SIGNS YOU'RE ACTUALLY GAY (AND JT DON'T KNOW IT)

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HOW DO I KNOW IF I AM GAY? SIGNS YOU ARE GAY

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"I REALIZED I WAS GAY": MEN WHO CAME OUT LATER IN LIFE ARE SHARG WHAT IT WAS LIKE FOR THEM TO REVEAL THAT TTH AND LIVE AUTHENTILLY

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“I THK YOU’RE GAY. THAT’S OKAY. YOU’RE MY SON, I LOVE YOU.”

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"He proudly says, 'I'm gay! Is three too young to know that you're gay? The kids that played wh toys not meant for their genr were much more likely to be homosexual 12 years later.

AM I GAY? UNRSTANDG YOUR INTY

There are boys who play wh dolls and end up straight, as well boys who didn't and are gay.

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AM I GAY?

“Am I gay?

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