Could gay guys be the ultimate wg men for their straight, male iends?
Contents:
- GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS
- WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT MYSELF AFTER YEARS OF FALLG FOR GAY MEN
- STRAIGHT GAY
GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS
Heterosexual and gay men n heal and grow as a rult of their iendships. * gay guy falling for straight guy *
So my cursy got the bt of me and I started lookg up gay porn. So I'm totally a closet bi/gay. TL;DR - I thought I was straight, got cur, started chattg wh a guy 3 hours away, met up, did everythg together, talked everyday sce we met, velopg feelgs for each other, need to take slow, not sure how but termed to figure out, never been happier, both closet bi/gay.
Fallg love wh a straight guy n be a paful experience, pecially for gay men who yearn for a romantic nnectn wh someone who is not terted them romantilly. And as a Gay Datg & Relatnship Coach, I’ve worked wh many clients who have experienced the pa of fallg for straight guys. The pa of unrequed love n be overwhelmg, and ’s a feelg that many gay men n relate to.
Is bee you’re not ready to e out, or bee you’re aaid of beg rejected by someone who is gay? Once you’ve intified your patterns, start askg yourself why you’re not allowg yourself to fall for gay guys.
WHAT I LEARNED ABOUT MYSELF AFTER YEARS OF FALLG FOR GAY MEN
It's a big fantasy for many gay men to fd a straight guy and have him fall love wh you to where he out so that you n be together. I actually know two upl for whom this was the ... * gay guy falling for straight guy *
Is a fear of rejectn, or a fear of beg seen as too gay? While fallg for straight guys n be a paful experience, some gay men might feel like there are benefs to as well. For example, if you’re fallg love wh a straight guy, means you don’t have to put yourself out there and risk rejectn om someone who is gay.
STRAIGHT GAY
As a Gay Datg & Relatnship Coach, I’ve worked wh many clients who have experienced the pa of fallg for straight guys. Many gay men who have fallen for straight guys might wonr if ’s possible for a straight guy to fall love wh a guy. While some people might intify as gay, straight, or bisexual, there are also people who fall somewhere between or who don’t intify wh any particular label.
Homophobia, transphobia, and other forms of bigotry are still prevalent many parts of the world, and n make difficult for people to be their thentic selv. It don't really matter if you're gay, straight, or bisexual. Sce we n't ntrol our feelgs, 's evable that we would eventually meet someone who didn't share those gay men, most of me of age an environment where other gay kids were eher closeted or nonexistent.
I'm not sure if thgs are easier for gay youth today, but datg wasn't an optn for me high school. This is somethg I (and so many other gay men) know all too well.