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Contents:
- I SOMETIM FEEL: WHAT'S THE POT OF BEG GAY IF I'M NOT BETIFUL
- WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY
- HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
- AM I GAY?
- YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
I SOMETIM FEEL: WHAT'S THE POT OF BEG GAY IF I'M NOT BETIFUL
I'm not ugly but certaly not hot. Gay men jt don't rpond to me, which mak for a rather lonely existence when you're gay.I'm smart, well off, tablished a great reer, pretty , ... * why do i feel gay sometimes *
If the only gay timacy I ever had was a group like this, or what you experienced, I uld fortably say I was pretty straight. Some of them probably are a ltle bisexual, but I know two particular who seem 100% straight every jt enjoy the nvenience of gay sex sometim. When he download a gay app though, sudnly there were 20 dus a day throwg themselv at him and beggg him to pick them.
WHEN GAY MEN (MIS)MARRY STRAIGHT WOMEN: BONNIE KAYE'S STORY
When a straight woman marri a gay man, what do she experience? * why do i feel gay sometimes *
So when you are sayg "foc on the more submissive aspects of " and referencg the prev post where someone suggted this was more about beg submissive than about beg gay, n you elaborate on that? My parents whdrew me after sophomore year bee there was no pot to keepg someone school who jt didn’t do anythg. I'm smart, well off, tablished a great reer, pretty, none of that seems to matters to the gay men I meet.
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We're ALL alone the end, which is why the old bter gay elr isn't jt a stereotype, 's the only do gays reject the ugly, we also reject the old and the poor and the black and the Anonymoreply 13Augt 26, 2016 4:12 AM. The bigger gay muni like NYC, London, Sydney, tend to be more of a meat market than a smaller town wh a smaller muny. [quote] We're ALL alone the end, which is why the old bter gay elr isn't jt a stereotype, 's the tth.
HOW TO ACCEPT THAT YOU ARE GAY
* why do i feel gay sometimes *
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I'm lucky that I'm a relatnship wh a guy I circled (and he circled me) for years, who knows me, who accepts me and don't give a sh if I'm not a stereotype of "gay bety".
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AM I GAY?
Straight people you meet have gay iends and jt might troduce you, which is a lot ls strsful than standg around a club wonrg why no one wants Anonymoreply 29Augt 26, 2016 11:05 AM. Do thgs you enjoy and that make you feel good about yourself - the rt will fall whole bety standard/fancial stat thg our gay male culture (I'm lookg at you, LOGO and your new "Prce Charmg" show) is fuckg Anonymoreply 34Augt 26, 2016 11:30 AM. Substute "woman" for "gay" OP's post, and you have grasped the realy for 50% of the world's Anonymoreply 41Augt 26, 2016 1:10 PM.
YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
If straight men were as particular about bety as gay men, the world's populatn would drop drastilly, although you do make a valid Anonymoreply 42Augt 26, 2016 1:13 PM. Please don't be one of those unrealistic, Disney fantasied, Some day your Prce will e, gay guys. Existential angst om people wh limed mental acuy is a sad thg to 's even sadr is someone whose entire inty revolv around beg gay or, even worse, havg even sadr yet, the lack of self-awarens to regnize that one participat the exact behavr one ris as the source of his Anonymoreply 47Augt 26, 2016 4:26 PM.
Every time I see any TV show wh betiful hunks (the new gay bachelor show will be a trigger) I get a sad momentarily bee no matter my level of nfince or whatever, I will never be able to be seen by society as that moment, I wake up and move on. Gay men value var thgs: wealth, looks, humor, a big ck, you have any of those to brg to the iend has a huge ck but his face isn't that great. The majory of you people whg about this stuff wouldn't date you if you met yourself at a bar, on the street, or at a party - for the exact same superficial reasons for which you acce other gay Anonymoreply 54Augt 26, 2016 5:17 PM.