Are you qutng your sexualy? Fd out if you’re gay, straight, bisexual, or asexual. Learn what the terms mean and if they apply to you.
Contents:
- GAY MEN AND AGG
- HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
- LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENR AGG
- AM I GAY?
- THE GAY MAN'S GUI TO DATG AFTER 50
- TURNING POINTS IN THE LIVES OF LESBIAN AND GAY ADULTS AGE 50 AND OVER
GAY MEN AND AGG
When you’re a gay man, agg is plited. * if you're gay and over 85 *
The gay culture is unfivg of agg. Many gay men will have endured homophobic bullyg at school whilst teachers turned a bld eye; havg parents not unrstandg or acceptg their sexual orientatn; or a difficult and paful g out procs.
HOW TO KNOW IF YOU ARE GAY
John Casey and New York Tim lumnist Frank Bni have an timate nversatn about what agg means to gay men. * if you're gay and over 85 *
In the here and now, there is still much homophobia our society: beg looked at an timidatg or shamg way when holdg their same-sex partner’s hand the streets; hearg homophobic people makg plats when gay characters appear on televisn; beg asked appropriate sexual qutns at a party that would never be asked to a heterosexual person; havg to refully select a holiday statn that is gay-iendly.
LBIAN, GAY, BISEXUAL AND TRANSGENR AGG
Unrstand health ncerns for gay men and other men who have sex wh men, and learn how to promote good health. * if you're gay and over 85 *
This is what we ll "mory strs, " the chronic strs that occurs every day for beg gay a heterosexual world.
AM I GAY?
An extensive list of APA and other rourc to support the agg lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr muny. * if you're gay and over 85 *
As a rult, gay men (and others the LGBTQ muni) have to velop a shield to protect themselv. One way that gay men n create a sense of safety and protect themselv agast more woundg is by feelg wanted and sexually sired, which wh lookg perfect, showg no signs of vulnerabili and beg young. For gay men, for some reason, 40 years of age seems to be the thrhold when gay men flip om beg sirable and sexy to beg visible and even sometim an object of disgt.
Watchg the Channel 4 seri It’s A S remd me that we didn’t get the chance to see gay men agg when we were growg up bee many of them died their 20s durg the AIDS epimic. The gay male populatn is missg a generatn of olr men who uld have been mentors and teachers offerg guidance this homophobic world.
THE GAY MAN'S GUI TO DATG AFTER 50
* if you're gay and over 85 *
Wh the absence of the olr wisdom the gay muny, youth beme the only safety: As long as one is young and betiful, they will be sired and therefore they won’t be alone.
The gay scene rpond to that by sexualisg youth and perfect bodi, whilst nigratg agg. The dilemma is that most gay men want to nnect and love each other, but they’re also havg trouble nnectg bee genue timacy requir the willgns to be vulnerable. The dark si of this is that we are leavg behd the agg gay men who survived homophobic trma, the AIDS epimic, and those who fought for the equal rights that we are enjoyg today.
TURNING POINTS IN THE LIVES OF LESBIAN AND GAY ADULTS AGE 50 AND OVER
The U.S. ci have var posiv for LGBT retire, like a strong gay populatn, an affordable st of livg and a high sre wh the Human Rights Campaign's Equaly Inx. * if you're gay and over 85 *
Gay men simply don’t have a mol of what the path of agg looks like. We only see young gay men partyg, havg sex, or sual relatnships. Many gay men still rry ternalised homo-negativy wh the subnsc re belief that is impossible for gay men to love one another, feelg unservg of love.
Yet, there are many gay men strong and lovg relatnships, monogamo on and polyamoro on, livg their liv like everybody else. They are many agg gay men who have much wisdom to give to their younger peers.
It is time to work together to shift the gay culture om the one beg cril of agg to more human nnectns, where we n embrace each other, bee, after all, we all belong to the same fay, the LGBTQ fay — the Rabow Fay.