What do I wish I had known about raisg a gay child? It’s a pretty short list and, had I known, I may have stunted my own growth. Bee raisg a gay child has not been much different than raisg a child who is not gay. After all, she’s a child. Well, not any more. But, Pearl once was, and I would like to thk our fay navigated her g out such a manner that she is now a flouris
Contents:
- PARENTG A GAY CHILD
- 5 THGS I WISH I HAD KNOWN ABOUT RAISG A GAY CHILD
- LOVG MY GAY CHILD: A MOTHER'S JOURNEY TO ACCEPTANCE
- TAG ARCHIV: RAISG A GAY CHILD
- TAG ARCHIV: RAISG GAY CHILD
PARENTG A GAY CHILD
* raising a gay child book *
I grew up outsi of New York Cy, the meltg pot, attend llege and worked New York, yet when I found out my son, Jam, age 13, was gay, I reverted to "not my backyard. Although he didn't particularly like ntact sports, he didn't exhib the gay stereotypil image: lisp, rabow lors.
How would he know he's gay, if he never had sex wh a girl? Acrdg to -thor of When Your Child Is Gay, Jonathan L.
D., nial is the most mon ial reactn of parents to the joltg news that their child is gay. When I terviewed straight parents for When Your Child Is Gay, they ed words such as fear, shock, helplsns, strs, and extreme sadns to scribe their experienc wh nial.
5 THGS I WISH I HAD KNOWN ABOUT RAISG A GAY CHILD
Posts about raisg a gay child wrten by raisgmyrabow * raising a gay child book *
Why do parents who are normally acceptg of their children go to the nial zone upon learng that their child is gay, bisexual, even transgenr? Beg gay was not part of that plan and this fact was hard to rencile. Tobk, who is private practice Manhattan, do not expect their child to be gay.
However, be sure you pick a gay-iendly one om an anizatn such as the Amerin Associatn of Psychiatrists that has a divisn of gay therapists om which to choose.
They will be empathetic and unrstandg and turn will ntribute to your unrstandg of what means to be the parent of a gay child. At PFLAG, you will fd parents who have siar feelgs, thoughts, and reactns to havg a gay child. I uldn't be around people who judged me, thought beg gay was a "liftyle" that uld be changed or thought that homosexualy was wrong.
LOVG MY GAY CHILD: A MOTHER'S JOURNEY TO ACCEPTANCE
This book tak a parent through a day the life of a gay child. As a parent wh no role mols for havg a gay child, I didn't expect to know how to parent a gay child.
TAG ARCHIV: RAISG A GAY CHILD
You may say that parentg is parentg, but the straight parent of a gay child has to al wh addnal issu such as bullyg, possible low self-teem of their child, discrimatn, to name a few.
The gay child has most likely gone through the same issu that you are now experiencg: nial, fear, guilt, shame, anger, loss, to arrive at acceptance. In future blogs, we will tackle those subjects, jt as When Your Child Is Gay (Sterlg, 2016) do. Perhaps your teenage son told you that he is gay.
TAG ARCHIV: RAISG GAY CHILD
We disvered a support group for parents, fai and iends of lbian, gay, bisexual and transgenr people (PFLAG), and we started gog. *This Is a Book for Parents of Gay Kids: A Qutn & Answer Gui to Everyday Life by Danielle Owens-Reid and Krist Rso.
The book is filled wh real-life exampl om gay kids and their parents.