Sara Cunngham stggled when her son told her he was gay. Now she volunteers as a stand- mom at same-sex weddgs when the blogil parents refe to attend.
Contents:
- MOM WHO INIALLY STGGLED TO ACCEPT HER GAY SON NOW STANDS IN AT SAME-SEX WEDDGS
- HOW ONE MOTHER’S LOVE FOR HER GAY SON STARTED A REVOLUTN
- GAY MEN AND THEIR MOTHERS: IS THERE A SPECIAL CLOSENS?
- SALLY FIELD ON BEG A MOM WHO SUPPORTS HER GAY SON SPOILER ALERT
- A MOTHER'S LETTER TO HER GAY SON BCE DAVID CIELLO
- 'RETURN THE KEY': THE PARENTS WHO REJECT THEIR GAY CHILDREN
- PARENTS OF GAY CHILDREN AND THE ISSU THEY FACE
MOM WHO INIALLY STGGLED TO ACCEPT HER GAY SON NOW STANDS IN AT SAME-SEX WEDDGS
* mother gay son *
Fally, when he turned 21, Parker told his mother a tth he had only hted at before: he is gay.
HOW ONE MOTHER’S LOVE FOR HER GAY SON STARTED A REVOLUTN
My mother, and my (gay) self. * mother gay son *
"I jt remember that I had to face realy that moment, that hour, that I have a gay child, " said Sara.
"I’ve heard said that when a gay child out of their closet, the parents often go to theirs and that’s te, " she one of those days, Parker me to her room to ask if she was OK. But she’s here now and wants to help others the gay muny who are stgglg wh rejectn om their now volunteers to go to other same-sex weddgs if the blogil parents refe to attend.
She was rryg a piece of orange poster board wh a msage hand-lettered black marker: “PARENTS of GAYS: UNITE SUPPORT fOR oUR CHILDREN.
GAY MEN AND THEIR MOTHERS: IS THERE A SPECIAL CLOSENS?
Seven years after his suici, a mother wr a letter to her gay son, Bce D. Ciello. * mother gay son *
They asked if they uld kiss her; they asked if she would talk to their parents; they told her that they uldn’t image their own mothers and fathers supportg them so publicly, or supportg them at woman’s name was Jeanne Manford, and she was marchg alongsi her twenty-one-year-old gay son, Morty. The anizatn they dreamed up that day, which started as a sgle support group Manhattan, was ially lled Parents of Gays; later, was renamed Parents FLAG, for Parents and Friends of Lbians and Gays; nowadays, is known only as PFLAG. The same year Avril was born, Morty’s psychiatrist summoned Jeanne and Jul to his office and rmed them that their beloved goln boy and sole survivg son was the bt of her knowledge, Jeanne Manford had never known anyone who was gay.
SALLY FIELD ON BEG A MOM WHO SUPPORTS HER GAY SON SPOILER ALERT
Chris Jewell’s parents disowned him after fdg out he was gay, but he is not alone his story of parental rejectn * mother gay son *
”There was no mystery about what that kd of tradnal, law-abidg woman was supposed to thk about gay people 1968.
A MOTHER'S LETTER TO HER GAY SON BCE DAVID CIELLO
At the time, homosexual acts were crimal forty-ne stat, wh punishments rangg om f to prison time, cludg life sentenc.
Polil anizg was virtually impossible—one early gay-rights group that attempted to officially rporate New York was told that s mere existence would vlate state sodomy laws—and posive cultural reprentatn was all but nonexistent; there were no openly gay or lbian policians, punds, relig lears, actors, athlet, or micians the mastream. Newspapers ed the words “homosexual” and “pervert” terchangeably, and the handful of gay people who appeared on televisn to discs their “life style” almost always had their fac hidn shadows or otherwise obscured. In 1974, when “The Pat Colls Show” aired a segment on parents of gay children, the host troduced by sayg, “Even if he mted murr, I gus you’d say, ‘Well, he’s still my child, no matter what.
’ But suppose your child me to you and said, ‘Mother, Dad, I am homosexual.
'RETURN THE KEY': THE PARENTS WHO REJECT THEIR GAY CHILDREN
”You uld f most of the solar system to the chasm between how the average Amerin of the era would have reacted that hypothetil suatn and how Jeanne Manford rpond upon learng that Morty was gay. Not for a moment did she wonr, as the otherwise supportive Jul ially did, if his gayns reflected some failg of theirs as parents. Later, after he went to llege at Columbia and me to terms wh beg gay, the steady, unfsy love of his fay seemed tepid pared wh his own creasg radilism.
The first time he attend a gay-rights prott, he wore sunglass and turned away om the news meras, but he soon beme, his sister Suzanne (now Suzanne Manford Swan) told me, “unaaid and unstoppable. ” An eighteen-year-old regular at the Stonewall Inn, Morty was there when a fight broke out between patrons and the police the summer of 1969, an event that talyzed the gay-rights movement.
PARENTS OF GAY CHILDREN AND THE ISSU THEY FACE
The followg year, after jog the brand-new Gay Activists Alliance, he began anizg polil monstratns, then dropped out of llege to do so full time. Not long after, he was arrted for refg to move when police tried to shoo him off a stoop on Christopher Street, the heart of the Greenwich Village gay scene. : Bella Abzug, the firebrand femist who would help troduce the first feral gay-rights bill.
Verg the gas money, travelled to ci and towns throughout the South to raise awarens about gay liberatn. (One of them, om the Tim, featured him beg ejected om a benef for John Ldsay, the mayor of New York Cy, after shoutg, “Jtice for homosexuals!
The next time Morty wound up jail, Jeanne was woken up by an early-morng phone ll—not om him but om the arrtg officer, who, apparently expectg to Morty’s life, ma a show of askg Jeanne if she knew that her son was “a homosexual. Why don’t you go after crimals and stop harassg the gays?