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• IN A FIRST, GAY UPLE SAYS ‘I DO’ TELANGANA
• INDIA'S FIRST GAY MARRIAGE AD SPARKS NEW BATTLE ABOUT STE
• LONDON'S LANDMARK BUILDG DOTTED WH STRIP CLUBS, GAY VENU TO TURN TO MOSQUE
• THIS INDIAN GAY UPLE SAID ‘I DO’ GIBRALTAR
• ‘WE HAD ALL’: GAY UPLE REVEAL TAILS OF THEIR ‘MAGIL’ WEDDG, SAYS LEGAL PAPERS DON’T MATTER

IN A FIRST, GAY UPLE SAYS ‘I DO’ TELANGANA

Gay uple Supriyo Chakraborty and Abhay Dang wh their iends durg their promisg ceremony, on the outskirts of Hyrabad. This is the first gay marriage the Telangana state. (PTI Photo)In a first, Telangana saw a rabow weddg on Saturday, where a gay uple exchanged vows a betiful ceremony supported by iends and fay.

While India stck down a lonial-era law that crimalised gay sex 2018, same-sex marriag are yet to be regnised the untry. Homosexual sex is a crimal offence India – emed so by a lonial-era law that ranks gay sex as ak to btialy – and g out to fai remas a source of fear and shame for a majory of India's gay a rult, Padma Iyer's marriage ad for her son, Harish, a gay rights activist Mumbai, drew both cricism and praise. What's been dubbed as India's first gay matrimonial ad was unrstood as a challenge to society's morals; but s tentnally provotive stance on gay marriage has sce been overshadowed by another argument – about recently, India had ma stris towards equaly for LGBTQ cizens.

Homosexualy was crimalised 2009, when Sectn 377 of the Indian penal , which bans sexual acts "agast the orr of nature", was clared unnstutnal by the High Court of Delhi. However, late 2013, the Supreme Court of India overturned that cisn, recrimalisg homosexual sex and, by associatn, the natn's lns of homosexuals. Supporters of LGBTQ rights saw a huge step backward for India and the regn; Nepal is now the only untry South Asia where homosexualy is legal – although Pakistan, Nepal, Banglash and India have votg laws that regnise a third genr.

INDIA'S FIRST GAY MARRIAGE AD SPARKS NEW BATTLE ABOUT STE

But sce the nservative Bharatiya Janata Party (BJP) me to power India 2014, the issue has been given ls attentn, acrdg to Gtam Bhan, a lawyer and proment gay rights activist based Delhi. "While many saw the ad as an example of how nfint and mobilised India's gay muny has bee recent years – thanks part to the new eedom and solidary that blossomed after 2009 – others were offend by another phrase ed the advertisement, "Caste No Bar (Though IYER preferred)".

Crics claim the very mentn of ste is an afont to the clive gay rights movement.

The cisn to restate the ban on homosexual sex has not been accepted by activists or by many members of the Sectn 377 was restated, Jtice Leila Seth, mother of the thor Vikram Seth, wrote an exriatg op-ed the Tim of India.

LONDON'S LANDMARK BUILDG DOTTED WH STRIP CLUBS, GAY VENU TO TURN TO MOSQUE

"Activists argue an ad like Padma Iyer's – which was rejected by other mastream Indian papers before Mid-Day picked up – is necsary for gays, lbians and their fai to be exposed to an alternative to heterosexual marriag, which many are forced to to satisfy social or fay prsur. "I do know gay men out there who thk they n keep marriage separate om their sexualy, that they n marry and even be a good hband, but still screw around on the si, " says Sandip Roy, a senr edor at the Indian news webse Firstpost and thor of the book Don't Let Him Know.

"He first took me to a gay parents meet, Bombay, " she says. "I saw so many other children who are gay and lbian. Among the more than 100 emails she's received rponse to the ad – some cricisg , others praisg , and y, a few answerg – have been emails om other parents exprsg their rpect and admiratn for what she has was om a father of another gay man Delhi.

"He wrote how his son was gay and how he had told him really late life.

THIS INDIAN GAY UPLE SAID ‘I DO’ GIBRALTAR

The area is also known for s ncentratn of bars, nightclubs, gay venu and strip jots – all of which are nsired sful Islam. If India legalis gay marriage the g months, will bee only the third place Asia to do so, after Taiwan and Nepal.

‘WE HAD ALL’: GAY UPLE REVEAL TAILS OF THEIR ‘MAGIL’ WEDDG, SAYS LEGAL PAPERS DON’T MATTER

Published: 6:00pm, 6 Jul, 2023 Updated: 9:21pm, 6 Jul, 2023 If India legalis gay marriage the g months, will bee only the third place Asia to do so, after Taiwan and Nepal. Am Shah pictured wh Adya Madiraju durg the uple's tradnal Hdu weddg New Jersey 2019 | Picture urty: @am_aatma/InstagramKEY HIGHLIGHTSTheir Di weddg ma a splash uple heard the good news after four rounds of -vro the LGBTQ muny have sce thanked the uple for spirg Indian Amerin gay uple whose tradnal Hdu weddg broke the ter 2019, are now expectg their first child Shah is a Gujarati Amerin om New Jersey who got married to Adya Madiraju, a Telugu man born New Delhi, his uple has e a long way learng about the nty-grti of havg blogil children sce their mega-viral unn — acrdg to People magaze, which shared photos om their paterny unrstandg the difference between surrogat, egg donors and gtatnal rriers to fally havg a succsful -vro fertilisatn their fourth round, Am and Adya have some life-changg curveballs thrown they way — cludg learng that havg a baby is far more expensive realy for a same-sex uple than heterosexual parents.

“We won't be talkg about gay upl like we do now. "We won't be gay parents, we'll jt be parents, " Adya add. My parents embraced very quickly and I found solace the fact that my mother was always Googlg and readg up on how to be a better mom to your gay kid at night on her phone.

When I was llege the Stat, gay marriage was far om the rds, and happened almost a after I graduated. ” The legal proceedgs around the crimalisatn of homosexualy Sectn 377 were the news (the repeal eventually me to effect on September 6, 2018).

“I’d been profiled for a ver piece humanisg the gay rights movement–and a mon iend thought we might have thgs to talk about, ” Am explas, “We were both relatnships, and met person for the first time at a large nference Delhi that was hosted right after Sectn 377 got crimalised. While growg up gay India was challengg for both, “Our fai have been ambassadors, celebratg . Same-sex marriag are illegal India spe the Supreme Court scrappg a lonial-era ban on gay sex 2018.

NEW DELHI – Swept up a whirlwd romance after meetg at a Bollywood party Mumbai, Saattvic and Grav Bhatti dreamed of celebratg their love wh a typil big, fat Indian years on, remas a marriag are illegal India spe the Supreme Court scrappg a lonial-era ban on gay sex 2018 — a cisn that LGBTQ Indians say they had hoped would pave the way for more equal rights, cludg marriage and adoptn. Once home, I sat her down and said, ‘I’m gay and Abhay is my partner. While India stck down a lonial-era law that crimalised homosexual relatnships 2018, same-sex marriag are yet to be regnized the untry.

In 2017, when he told his parents he was gay, their illn of him as the perfect son shattered. Unlike Sourav, who nfintly asserts himself as a gay man spe the phback om his loved on, back the 1980s and 1990s, I had no termology to scribe what I was.