Highlights of the specific mental health needs among gay and bisexual men.
Contents:
- YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
- HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
- ALL QUEER PEOPLE HAVE 'GAY ANXIETY' THAT CHANG OUR DAY-TO-DAY LIFE
- SOCIAL ANXIETY YOUNG GAY MEN
- HOMOSEXUALS AND DEPRSN: HELP FOR GAYS WH DEPRSN
- ANXIETY GAY MEN: SOCIAL ANXIETY AND HOMOPHOBIA
- 17 WAYS GAY MEN CAN MANAGE THEIR ANXIETY DURG UNCERTA TIM
YOU’RE NOT GAY: HOMOSEXUALY ANXIETY OCD
People who intify as sexual (i.e., lbian, gay, bisexual, queer) or genr (i.e., transgenr, genrqueer, non-bary) mori have siar symptoms of anxiety and prsn as heterosexual and cisgenr (non-transgenr) dividuals. * can anxiety make you feel gay *
I am wrg for the benef of heterosexual folks who hope to e this article to unrstand their fears about beg gay (also known as gay OCD or HOCD). Only ten mut after I had started readg the most recent posts, however, I realized that somethg was wrong: The folks wh gay fears were clearly not gay.
It took another five mut for me to figure out what HOCD was and why so many people had gay obssns. I would later learn that tly gay people may also get HOCD, but that they falsely fear that they are heterosexual.
HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
Based on the assumptn that sexual mory dividuals are particularly sensive to the possible rejectn of others, the prent study examed the occurrence and rrelat of social anxiety symptomatology gay and heterosexual men. Eighty-seven heterosexual and 87 gay unrgraduate men betwe … * can anxiety make you feel gay *
HOCD is an illns, and who but a gay HOCD sufferer would fear beg straight, the thg society priz?
If I thought for a mute that even one of the straight HOCD sufferers on the board was gay, I would do the same for him or her.
As of this wrg I have been bombard by threads, private msag, e-mail, and stant msag by straight folks terrified that they are gay (and a very small number of gay and bisexual folks terrified that they, too, are not their real sexual orientatn). Neverthels, is sufficiently wispread to warrant more specialists the field, more media exposure, and more unrstandg among therapists relativ, iends, and, pecially, gay people who give the wrong advice. HOCD works the same way: Heterosexual sufferers feel that the gay thoughts are real even though, their hearts, they know that they are straight.
ALL QUEER PEOPLE HAVE 'GAY ANXIETY' THAT CHANG OUR DAY-TO-DAY LIFE
Gay prsn is a major issue as LGBTQIA+ people are at greater than average risk of prsn. Learn about homosexual prsn here. * can anxiety make you feel gay *
GAY MALE IN THE CLOSET WITH NO HOCD: I know that I am gay, and I have only ever gotten hard wh guys.
SOCIAL ANXIETY YOUNG GAY MEN
There is help out there for managg anxiety the world of gay relatnships and LGBTQ datg. Our gay therapists n help you manage your anxiety. * can anxiety make you feel gay *
I was tght that gay stuff was disgtg, but when I thk of beg held by a man I get butterfli my stomach. The only anxiety I feel is over what others thk of gays and how I thk I’ll be treated by straight people power if they fd out about me.
I don’t feel any anxiety when I thk about how lucky gay guys who are out of the closet mt be, and I wish I uld be like them.
When I saw rants like the first one last November, I knew that I was not alg wh gay folks at all. In orr to have doubts about one’s sexual inty, a sufferer need not ever have had a homo- or heterosexual experience, or any type of sexual experience at all. If on the other hand they happen to be homosexual they may obss about the possibily that they might really be straight.
HOMOSEXUALS AND DEPRSN: HELP FOR GAYS WH DEPRSN
* can anxiety make you feel gay *
” Some people’s doubts are further plited by havg such experienc as hearg other people talkg or lookg their directn and thkg that the people mt be analyzg their behavr or appearance and talkg about them – discsg how they mt be gay (or straight).
Let’s face , gay people have always been an opprsed mory wh our culture, and to sudnly thk of beg this posn, and to be stigmatized this way, n be ighteng. I have sometim wonred if those who experience the most distrs om such thoughts as the do so bee they were raised wh more strongly homophobic or anti-gay attus to beg wh, or if is simply bee one’s sexualy n be such a basic doubt.
ANXIETY GAY MEN: SOCIAL ANXIETY AND HOMOPHOBIA
Lookg at attractive men or women, or pictur of them, or readg sexually oriented lerature or pornography (hetero- or homosexual), to see if they are sexually excg. Observg themselv for evince of “lookg, ” talkg, walkg, drsg, or gturg like someone who is eher gay or straight. Compulsively reviewg and analyzg past teractns wh other men or women to see if they have acted like a gay or straight person.
Readg articl on the ter about how an dividual n tell if they are gay or straight to see which group they might be most siar to.
17 WAYS GAY MEN CAN MANAGE THEIR ANXIETY DURG UNCERTA TIM
Can you sudnly turn to a homosexual (or heterosexual) even if you have never felt or acted that that way? If I get sexual sensatns when viewg sexual material of an oppose orientatn do mean I am gay (or straight)? This reactn is strengthened by the rrect belief that homosexual cu never stimulate heterosexuals.