Urban Dictnary: I'm not gay, but

Contents:

• HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?
• I'M NOT GAY, BUT
• I'M NOT GAY ED MEANG
• ABOUT THE CENTERSCE 1983 THE CENTER HAS BEEN SUPPORTG, FOSTERG AND CELEBRATG THE LGBT MUNY OF NEW YORK CY. FD MORE RMATN ON AND OUR WORK ABOUT THE CENTER. VIS ABOUT THE CENTEROUR MISSNCYBER CENTERCENTER HISTORYRACE EQUYMEDIA CENTERLEARSHIP & STAFFEMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNICORPORATE PARTNERSHIPSANNUAL REPORTS & FANCIAL INFORMATNCONTACT USHOURS & LOTNSEMAPSUPPORT THE CENTER
• WHAT DO ‘DON’T SAY GAY’ ACTUALLY SAY?
• WHAT DO IT MEAN TO BE GAY? DEFN AND MEANG OF GAY
• SYNONYMS FOR NOT GAY
• I'M NOT GAY BUT $20 IS $20
• I'M NOT GAY BUT $20 IS $20

HOW DO I KNOW I’M NOT REALLY GAY/STRAIGHT?

"i'm not gay but 20$ is 20$". There is a well known phrase: "I'm not gay but 20 dollars is 20 dollars". Hence, "I'm not gay but 20 dollars is 20 dollars".

Gay. A gay person is someone who is attracted to people of their same genr, and the term is often ed to scribe men who are attracted to other men. However, women n intify as gay stead of or addn to intifyg as lbian.

I'M NOT GAY, BUT

Choose a iend or fay member you know you n tst, who don't have any homophobic tennci and will have your bt tert md. I a't gay but $20 is $20. In orr to have doubts about one’s sexual inty, a sufferer need not ever have had a homo- or heterosexual experience, or any type of sexual experience at all.

If the sufferer is heterosexual, then the thought may be that they are homosexual. If on the other hand they happen to be homosexual they may obss about the possibily that they might really be straight.

” Some people’s doubts are further plited by havg such experienc as hearg other people talkg or lookg their directn and thkg that the people mt be analyzg their behavr or appearance and talkg about them – discsg how they mt be gay (or straight). For those wh thoughts of beg homosexual, part of the distrs mt surely be social orig. Let’s face , gay people have always been an opprsed mory wh our culture, and to sudnly thk of beg this posn, and to be stigmatized this way, n be ighteng.

I'M NOT GAY ED MEANG

I have sometim wonred if those who experience the most distrs om such thoughts as the do so bee they were raised wh more strongly homophobic or anti-gay attus to beg wh, or if is simply bee one’s sexualy n be such a basic doubt. Lookg at attractive men or women, or pictur of them, or readg sexually oriented lerature or pornography (hetero- or homosexual), to see if they are sexually excg.

Observg themselv for evince of “lookg, ” talkg, walkg, drsg, or gturg like someone who is eher gay or straight. Compulsively reviewg and analyzg past teractns wh other men or women to see if they have acted like a gay or straight person.

ABOUT THE CENTERSCE 1983 THE CENTER HAS BEEN SUPPORTG, FOSTERG AND CELEBRATG THE LGBT MUNY OF NEW YORK CY. FD MORE RMATN ON AND OUR WORK ABOUT THE CENTER. VIS ABOUT THE CENTEROUR MISSNCYBER CENTERCENTER HISTORYRACE EQUYMEDIA CENTERLEARSHIP & STAFFEMPLOYMENT OPPORTUNICORPORATE PARTNERSHIPSANNUAL REPORTS & FANCIAL INFORMATNCONTACT USHOURS & LOTNSEMAPSUPPORT THE CENTER

Readg articl on the ter about how an dividual n tell if they are gay or straight to see which group they might be most siar to. Do you thk I uld be gay (or straight)? How n I tell if I’m really gay (or straight)?

WHAT DO ‘DON’T SAY GAY’ ACTUALLY SAY?

Can you sudnly turn to a homosexual (or heterosexual) even if you have never felt or acted that that way?

Do I look (or act) gay (or straight) to you? If I get sexual sensatns when viewg sexual material of an oppose orientatn do mean I am gay (or straight)?

WHAT DO IT MEAN TO BE GAY? DEFN AND MEANG OF GAY

A typil example would be a heterosexual man who experienc an erectn while lookg at gay eroti. This reactn is strengthened by the rrect belief that homosexual cu never stimulate heterosexuals. Avoidg standg close to, touchg or bshg agast members of the same sex (or oppose sex if the sufferer is gay).

Not readg or lookg at vios news reports books or articl havg anythg to do wh gay people or other sexual subjects. Never sayg the words “gay, ” “homosexual, ” (or “straight”) or any other related term. Tryg to not look or act effemately (if a man), or a mascule way (if a woman), (or vice versa if the sufferer is gay).

SYNONYMS FOR NOT GAY

Not drsg ways that would make one look effemate (if a man), or mascule (if a woman), (aga vice versa if the sufferer is gay).

Avoidg associatg wh anyone who may be gay or who seems to lean that directn (if the sufferer is heterosexual). The flip si of this is when they look at thgs havg to do wh sex of an oppose orientatn and then feel aroed some way, which they then nclu to mean that they liked , which means that they are gay (or straight). Readg books by or about gay persons.

Watchg vios on gay them or about gay characters.

I'M NOT GAY BUT $20 IS $20

Visg gay meetgs shops, browsg gay bookstor, or visg areas of town that are more predomantly gay. Wearg a T-shirt at home wh the word ‘gay’ on . Dog a seri of wrg assignments of a uple of pag each that suggt more and more that you actually are gay or wish to be.

Makg a seri of three-mute tap that based on the wrgs gradually suggt more and more that you are gay, and listeng to them several tim a day changg them when they no longer bother you). Avoid observg yourself to see if you behaved a way you image a homosexual or member of the oppose sex would. a ment ed by secure mal to lead others to believe that they are straight when they are actually bisexual, thereby makg the ment te: a person who says "I'm not gay" is neher straight nor gay, but bisexual.

Jimmy: "That guy jt me up to me and said, 'I'm not gay, man'. Peter: "JOHN, I'M NOT GAY! Myron ed the term "I'm not gay" the wrong ntext and led a handsome young man to thkg he was bisexual when he was actually jt gay.

I'M NOT GAY BUT $20 IS $20

After Devon told me he wasn't gay, I beme exced, however he specified that he wasn't bi eher.

I beme the I'm not gay mug.