Contents:
- FDG OUT YOUR SPOE IS GAY
- A LETTER TO … MY EX-HBAND, WHO IS GAY
- DIVORCED COUPLE ARE COMMTED TO FAY AFTER HE COM OUT AS GAY: 'OUR LOVE IS DIFFERENT NOW'
- WHEN YOUR SPOE OUT AS GAY
FDG OUT YOUR SPOE IS GAY
But when the marriage is over bee your spoe turns out to be gay, there is a whole different layer of thoughts and emotns to ntend wh. Bonnie Kaye,, me to specialize helpg women face this unanticipated reason for the mise of their marriage after her own marriage llapsed by virtue of her hband beg gay.
Kaye reports that when a woman learns the reason for the problems her marriage-namely homosexualy, she go through a wi range of emotns om vastatn, shame, guilt, rponsibily, and perhaps even to repulsn. Acrdg to, there are over 4 ln women this untry who are married to, or have been married to gay men, and there are lns more throughout the world.
A LETTER TO … MY EX-HBAND, WHO IS GAY
"In almost all s, " Kaye stat, "women wh gay hbands are unaware of their hbands' homosexualy at the time of the marriage. The answers to the qutns pend on if the gay or lbian spoe knew and tried to reprs the homosexual attractns, whether he or she didn't know they were gay, or if they are bisexual (attracted to both genrs) or pansexual (attracted more to a person's spir or personaly rather than a person's anatomy) so the attractn to their spoe was real was real but not limed to one person or genr. The seems to be no shortage of support out there on this subject matter and I also me across several books on the topic that may be of help to both the gay and straight spoe.
My Hband Is Gay: A Woman's Survival Gui, by Carol Grever. I hope there will be a time when no gay man or woman feels the need to live that lie, to ver thwarted sexualy wh anger, to waste their own and a partner's life wh promis that will never reach the fishg le, to e unspeakable emotnal celty agast another person they once loved and rpected.
DIVORCED COUPLE ARE COMMTED TO FAY AFTER HE COM OUT AS GAY: 'OUR LOVE IS DIFFERENT NOW'
Last July, Jsi Turner's hband Matthew, a bt-sellg Christian children's book thor, took to Instagram to share the "difficult news" that he was gay and that they were endg their 16-year marriage. "Beg gay isn't a new disvery for me, " he wrote. But growg up a nservative, fundamentalist Baptist church, he was tght over and over aga that God rejected homosexualy.
"I lived wh the ia that I jt uldn't be gay, " he ntu.
WHEN YOUR SPOE OUT AS GAY
"I uld not be gay. The pair entered marriage unselg, and the summer of 2019, Matthew revealed he was possibly bisexual, sharg a few months later that he was gay: "I mean, she flat out asked me, 'I want to know, are you…'".
"When he said he was gay, I was like, 'Okay. "I joke that if you're gog to get divorced, your spoe beg gay is the bt reason, bee there wasn't this big long affair or we hated each other or anythg like that, " Jsi says of her ntued support.
"But the way I grew up, jt wasn't an optn to be gay. So I was totally nial about the fact that I was gay, lerally well until our marriage and until Jsi nonted me about , " Stoddard told TODAY Parents. That teachg was eply engraed Stoddard, and even when — six months to their marriage — Frew found a llectn of gay pornography on Stoddard's puter and asked him about his sexualy, he uldn't say the words out loud.