Could gay guys be the ultimate wg men for their straight, male iends?
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MEET THE GAYBROS
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Straight guys always seem to thk gay guys are attracted to them, so there’s never the plete tst and secury the iendship. Some gay men tend to promise the iendship, they’d never talk about their gay issu or sex life wh their straight male iends out of fear of offendg them or turng them off. But their straight male iends talk about psy all day and how many girls they fucked, and the gay iend is supposed to take .
Straight guys pretend to be open md but would only go to a gay club/bar if there are girls around or they’re assured of beg hooked up wh a girl. Straight guys believe gay guys unrstand how women thk and behave, so we bee their datg ach and relatnship therapist when they have girliend issu. But when gay men talk to their straight male iends about their datg issu, all they get is “I don’t know bro, I’m not gay”.
When they want to have the bt Friday night and go to the bt parti, bee they believe gay guys know the bt spots and are very entertag, but they’ll never ve the gay guy when they’re hangg out wh their bros. At the end of the day, gay guys are not treated as “real iends” and the iendship revolv around their sexualy stead of their personali. Straight men who have engaged suatnal homosexualy (such as prison or the ary), what's your story?
GAY MEN AND STRAIGHT MEN AS FRIENDS
TL;DR - I thought I was straight, got cur, started chattg wh a guy 3 hours away, met up, did everythg together, talked everyday sce we met, velopg feelgs for each other, need to take slow, not sure how but termed to figure out, never been happier, both closet bi/gay. Straight guy here but was havg a bate wh someone who said that the way straight guys are jokgly "gay" wh each other is sentially makg homosexualy the butt of the joke, s makg jok about a mographic who as a straight male you nt unrstand their stggl/issu, and by makg the jok you're implyg to each other that s okay to make fun of gay people? It isn't like the jok are " a gay man walks to a bar", we are the "butts" of the joke this sense, isn't makg fun of other gay men or homosexualy general?
The only tim I ever feel fortable around straight guys is when they are mat wh someone I'm datg (simply bee if they're iends wh my boyiend, I know they're ol wh homosexualy and won't thk I'm htg on them). In all of my social settgs (uni class, out at clubs, at work, etc) I tend to gravate towards beg iends wh the girls bee high school I was the only openly gay guy and all the straight guys ed to thk I was attracted to all of them, so I know thk that all straight guys will thk I am tryg to be iends wh them to try and "turn" them gay. Havg said this, almost everyone that meets me says that they don't realise I'm gay until I (or someone else) tells them, so any advice on how to get over this "fear" of straight guys?
• Could a straight guy get dnk enough to fool around wh another guy jt bee “felt good”, or is more likely that he has some gay/bi/cur feelgs that perhaps he’s been reprsg? Even acuntg for the fact that he might remember some of what happened, don't mean he's bisexual, secretly gay, or that you're his magil "exceptn." He was dnk out of his md. I don't know many gay men (myself clud) who hasn't veloped a csh or had feelgs for a straight guy - cludg straight iends.