Are you feelg nervo about your first gay date? Here's our take on how you n imprs your csh and secure date number two.
Contents:
- HOW TO ASK FOR A SEND DATE (3 TIPS OM A GAY MATCHMAKER)
- 3 IMPORTANT GAY DATG STEPS TO FOLLOW FOR SUCCS
- FIRST GAY DATE: 3 WAYS TO LAND A SEND
- GAY DATG TACTICS: YOUR FIRST DATE DO'S & DON'TS
HOW TO ASK FOR A SEND DATE (3 TIPS OM A GAY MATCHMAKER)
As a Personal Matchmaker for ne years, I’ve had gay, bisexual, transgenr, qutng, and queer date achg clients monly ask me after their first date is: How do I ask for the send date whout beg weird?
But whout me holdg your hand, as a gay man myself, I totally unrstand the built up nervons when askg for that send date- I mean, let’s be hont: Rejectn hurts a man’s ego, whether you intify as GBTQ+ or gay men I work wh thk ’s rocket science to get om Date 1 to Date 2, and I n tell you right here and now that’s not the se whatsoever. Be Genue & StraightforwardI’m gog to tell you somethg that may shock you: Gay men are jt like any other men (gay gasp! Gay men are not Martians; we’re not wired differently jt bee we like the same sex.
It don’t matter if you’re gay, bi, queer, or jt horny, we’ve all been on dat that felt a ltle lacklter.
3 IMPORTANT GAY DATG STEPS TO FOLLOW FOR SUCCS
Too often, gay sgl report havg more awkward datg experienc than dat that tly woo .
FIRST GAY DATE: 3 WAYS TO LAND A SEND
Here are some of my explanatns for why some dat are “jt OK” as well as my top steps for makg a gay man’s romantic nnectns more succsful, meang they lead to more dat or even a long-term relatnship. I’ve mentned munitn a lot durg my datg achg ssns wh clients as well as most of my prev advice articl, but really is pivotal terms of creatg momentum and stag excement wh any relatnship, cludg a gay always want to feel like our potential partner is thkg about , even if we don’t hear om him.
GAY DATG TACTICS: YOUR FIRST DATE DO'S & DON'TS
Checkg on how his day is gog and g up wh another good date ia is a great example of keepg the relatnship gog a gay datg ach, I don’t often hear that a man is over munitg wh his partner. There will always be a lot of emotns on a first gay date. Guil for Your First Gay Date.
For example, sayg somethg like “I might be ee this weekend but I don’t know my schle, ” won’t show your gay csh that you like them. If you’re feelg nervo about your first gay date, keep thgs sual.
So treat every gay first date as an opportuny to learn more about yourself, not jt about your pl one. So if you’re about to go on your first gay date, don’t worry. His latt book, "Gettg Ahead of the Gayme: Man First, Gay Send, " n be purchased through Amazon, iBooks, or Google Play, and is available at select major book retailers the U.