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Contents:

• THE 200-YEAR-OLD DIARY THAT'S REWRG GAY HISTORY
• AN TIMATE & GAY DIARY
• DIARY OF A GAY MAN
• THE HIDN GAY LIV FALLY BEG UNVERED
• SERIA GAY DIARY
• DIARY OF A GAY DISASTER
• GAY DIARY
• GAY SNA ETIQUETTE

THE 200-YEAR-OLD DIARY THAT'S REWRG GAY HISTORY

Image ptn, Claire Pickerg Wakefield library imag the diary wrer speakg a Yorkshire accentA diary wrten by a Yorkshire farmer more than 200 years ago is beg hailed as providg remarkable evince of tolerance towards homosexualy Bra much earlier than prevly imaged. Historians om Oxford Universy have been taken aback to disver that Matthew Tomlson's diary om 1810 ntas such open-md views about same-sex attractn beg a "natural" human diary challeng prenceptns about what "ordary people" thought about homosexualy - showg there was a bate about whether someone really should be discrimated agast for their sexualy.

"In this excg new disvery, we see a Yorkshire farmer argug that homosexualy is nate and somethg that shouldn't be punished by ath, " says Oxford rearcher Eamonn O' ptn, The diari were handwrten by Tomlson the farmhoe where he lived and workedThe historian had been examg Tomlson's handwrten diari, which have been stored Wakefield Library sce the thoands of pag of the private journals have never been transcribed and prevly ed by rearchers terted Tomlson's eye-wns acunts of electns Yorkshire and the Ludd smashg up O'Keeffe me across what seemed, for the era of Gee III, to be a rather startlg set of arguments about same-sex relatnships. Tomlson had been prompted by what had been a big sex sndal of the day - which a well-rpected naval surgeon had been found to be engagg homosexual ptn, Historian Eamonn O'Keeffe says the diari provi a rare sight to the views of "ordary people" the early 1800sA urt martial had orred him to be hanged - but Tomlson seemed unnvced by the cisn, qutng whether what the papers lled an "unnatural act" was really that unnatural. "It mt seem strange ed that God Almighty should make a beg wh such a nature, or such a fect nature; and at the same time make a cree that if that beg whom he had formed, should at any time follow the dictat of that Nature, wh which he was formed, he should be punished wh ath, " he wrote on January 14 there was an "clatn and propensy" for someone to be homosexual om an early age, he wrote, " mt then be nsired as natural, otherwise as a fect nature - and if natural, or a fect nature; seems cel to punish that fect wh ath" diarist mak reference to beg rmed by others that homosexualy is apparent om an early age - suggtg that Tomlson and his social circle had been talkg about this se and discsg somethg that was not unknown to this time, and also Wt Yorkshire, a lol landowner, Anne Lister, was wrg a d diary about her lbian relatnships - wh her story told the televisn seri, Gentleman knowg what "ordary people" really thought about such behavur is always difficult - not least bee the loust survivg voic are ually the wealthy and has exced amics is the chance to eavdrop on an everyday farmer thkg aloud his source, Getty ImagImage ptn, Tomlson was appalled by the levels of rptn durg electns"What's strikg is that he's an ordary guy, he's not a member of the bohemian circl or an tellectual, " says O'Keeffe, a doctoral stunt Oxford's history acceptance of homosexualy might have been exprsed privately aristocratic or philosophilly radil circl - but this was beg discsed by a ral worker.

AN TIMATE & GAY DIARY

O'Keeffe says shows ias were "perlatg through Brish society much earlier and more wily than we'd expect" - wh the diary workg through the bat that Tomlson might have been havg wh his the were still far om morn liberal views - and O'Keeffe says they n be extremely "jarrg" someone was homosexual by choice, rather than by nature, Tomlson was ready to nsir that they should still be punished - proposg stratn as a more morate optn than the ath ptn, Tomlson's former home was still there the 1930s (bottom left), but has sce disappeared beneath hog and a golf urseO'Keeffe says disverg evince of the kds of bate has both "enriched and plited" what we know about public opn this pre-Victorian diary is raisg ternatnal Fara Dabhoiwala, om Prceton Universy the US, an expert the history of attus towards sexualy, scrib as "vivid proof" that "historil attus to same-sex behavur uld be more sympathetic than is ually prumed".

Instead of seeg homosexualy as a "horrible perversn", Prof Dabholwala says the rerd showed a farmer 1810 uld see as a "natural, dively ordaed human qualy" Norton, an expert gay history, said there had been earlier arguments fendg homosexualy as natural - but the were more likely to be om philosophers than farmers. His particular experience of life as a gay trans man echo through all he wr.

DIARY OF A GAY MAN

He tenrly celebrated the ways he was different om those around him while still cravg at tim to be accepted as the gay man he was; he loved himself for beg trans but he worried other gay men would misunrstand and reject him. Gay cultureGaysGenrTransgenr people. timate & gay diary.

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THE HIDN GAY LIV FALLY BEG UNVERED

We e them to provi unique and tailed rmatn about gay and bisexual men's sexual activy and the ntexts wh which occurs (though the method is equally able for heterosexual behavur). Diarists are reced both as part of the Project SIGMA ongog sampl, and ocsnally by large-sle appeals the gay prs for volunteers to keep a month diary. In addn, diari have been ed rearch on Mory Ethnic Groups, Non Gay-intified MSM and Young Gay Men.

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Boulton, ed Methodologil Studi Aids Rearch, London: Falmer1995 (a) Networks and Sex: some social ntexts of Gay Men's Rponse to HIV/Aids, R Parker and John Gagnon, eds, Conceivg Sexualy: Approach to Sex Rearch a Postmorn World, London: Routledge (b) Risk Context: the e of sexual diary data to analyse sequenc of homosexual risk behavur, H tem Bmmelhuis and G Herdt, eds Culture and Sexual Risk: Anthropologil Perspectiv on Aids, Amsterdam: Het Sphuis1996 Between the Sheets: Sexual Diari and Gay Men's Sex the Era of Aids, London: Cassell 1999 Parallel acunts? The ncentratn of high-risk sexual behavur among gay men. Sce my last postg, some of my iends on Xbox have learned of my beg gay, and all is well the Call of Duty world!..

SERIA GAY DIARY

The survivg diari of Charl Tomlson Griff add enrichg tail to Gay New York by Gee Chncey. The extensive diary of Carter Bealer proved dispensable to unrstandg the early gay geography of Washgton, DC A Queer Capal by Genny Beemyn. Daily or regular jottgs of dividuals we might now classify as lbian, gay, bisexual, transgenr, or queer om years gone by give rare entry to worlds of sexual and genr difference that preced our own.

Stuart moved to a Palmer Park apartment 1974, when the neighborhood was btlg as the gay epicenter of Metro Detro. He was active the Wayne State Universy Gay Liberatn Front, attendg rap ssns and helpg to staff s gay phone le.

Stuart was also vally volved early planng for the Michigan Organizatn for Human Rights, lnched 1977 rponse to Ana Bryant’s anti-gay “Save Our Children” mpaign. Fri 3/21: “A Gay Pri meetg lled tomorrow by Greg. Miriam has been tirels her enthiasm for my rearch post-World War II lbian and gay life and polics Metro Detro.

DIARY OF A GAY DISASTER

April 13: “Marge told me she had spotted me for gay long ago – by my aggrsive manner. Readg now, forty-pl years later, triggers other memori of the same era, stg on the porch watchg rs go by, takg a solo noe trip startg at Gaylord down the Au Sable River, g to her own. Summer Diary Project and Art Gaysel.

The Summer Diary Project is a curated llectn of male photography, queer art, and gay pop culture that's told a daily narrative by s founr and creative director Billy Mec.

GAY DIARY

This November, Summer Diary has jt opened Summer Outpost - s onle shop and art gallery, sellg origal patgs, exclive prts, digal magaz, and their new lendar for more at, Instagram,, December 5th, Summer Diary heads om s Jersey Shore home to South Beach to exhib at "the gayt fair at Miami Art Week" -- the Art Gaysel show at Hotel Gaytherg. "Alex Guerra, Art Gaysel's founr & curator, reached out to me on Instagram to e down this year and show" says Billy.

GAY SNA ETIQUETTE

"I uldn't be more lighted and honored to be a part of this diverse talented group of gay artists Alex has put together.

"Now s 4th year, Gaytherg's Art Gaysel event hosts over 30 gay artists. "If you're to llectg queer art and havg a good time" says Billy, "this mt be the place for you to be Miami Beach evengs durg Art Basel" Diary will be showg select works om "The Sun Bathers", their current onle show of origal patgs by Richard Stabbert, "Men In Nature", an exclive & very limed edn of prts by SDP ntributg photographer Ron Amato (clud here this gallery), and "Somewhere Over The Rabow", one-of-a-kd hand pated vtage postrds by Nolan Gaysel ns om December 5 - 9, 2018. Hotel Gaytherg, 1409 Lln Road, South Beach.