Are you qutng your sexualy? Fd out if you’re gay, straight, bisexual, or asexual. Learn what the terms mean and if they apply to you.
Contents:
- HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
- IS HE GAY?
- AM I GAY?
- CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
- GAY AND CAN'T FD A PARTNER?
HOW TO TELL IF YOUR GUY FRIEND IS GAY
There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. There are some important thgs that you have to unrstand about this suatn before gog forward, however. Someone's sexualy is highly plex and highly... * gay not interested *
Men who have sex wh other men are gay or bisexual. We now know that many men are attracted to gay sex, but not to men.
I’ve wrten extensively about my book, Is My Hband Gay or Bi? A Gui for Women Concerned About Their Men, but simply put, some men have no sire to be nnected wh gay culture, and scerely nsir themselv to not be gay or bisexual.
IS HE GAY?
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In our culture, many people thk that bisexualy is jt a gateway to homosexualy, but is not.
It is te that some gay men thk at first that they are bisexual, but this is largely due to the cultural taboo agast beg gay. If a man wants anal sex means he is gay or bisexual. Our culture has cid that receivg anal sex equat to beg gay, but “gay” is more than jt a behavr.
AM I GAY?
Many young men intify as mostly straight — a sexual orientatn that is not que straight but also, they say, ls gay than bisexualy * gay not interested *
This would be like sayg that gay men who don’t like anal sex are really straight but don’t know yet, and their butt will have to tell them at some pot. There are lots of reasons why you might want to know if your iend is gay. You may want to know if your iend is gay, but there may be a good reason why they're stayg closeted.
For example, his fay may be vlently homophobic and by cidg that he's gay, you may out him by accint by treatg him different or implyg somethg whout meang to. If you're tryg to figure out if your iend is gay bee you want to date him (as a woman), 's important to remember that jt bee he might be terted men don't mean he's not terted women. Even if he is gay, that should not rm your opn of him.
Another important thg to remember is that 's not very important whether or not he's gay. How do you know if you’re gay? This n be another ditor that he's gay.
CAN SOMEONE BE HOMOSEXUAL AND NOT GAY?
Learn how gay men n overe the hurdl and fd Mr. Right. * gay not interested *
If you're not seeg any of that, then he might be gay. One of the theori about why some people are gay has to do wh the hormon that they're exposed to before they're born.
GAY AND CAN'T FD A PARTNER?
The hormone exposure levels may manift actual, physil ways which n be a vague ditor that a guy might be gay. Gay men are slightly more likely to have even fgers than straight men.
It is possible that your guy iend is not gay but stead falls somewhere else on the Ksey sle of unirns and awomens. Although some people the gay culture may put on a certa voice or a way of speakg, your iend talkg a siar or "effemate" way is still not a very good way to judge.